Cassidy - YES!

[massage-lover]

I've seen Cassidy twice since my last review. She's even more tonned and tanned than ever.
She really takes good care of herself and She's really is a sweetheart, Highly recommended. She's great fun to be with. If you haven't had the pleasure, you're missing out.

Cassidy, I have only good feelings for you, and wish you the Best. Sorry I pushed to hard. My mistake. It's Time to move on. I'm going to see Madison.

Thanks for everything.

 

[Gomez Adams]

Cassidy, I have only good feelings for you, and wish you the Best. Sorry I pushed to hard. My mistake. It's Time to move on.

Been there done that.

just back off and give her some time bud, we all make mistakes.



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[Fuzzy Thumper]

Been there done that.

just back off and give her some time bud, we all make mistakes.



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They just don't write 'em like that anymore...

 

[massage-lover]

Gomez,

Wow, I thought I was the only one... Makes me feel better. Yeah, I messed with her head, she figured I was in Love I think. Can't blame her for keeping her distance now. Learned a valuable lesson though. Had similar feelings happen with Kendra, we had fun with it, and I knew better when to stop. Kendra and I still see each other to. I'm going back to see her in a 4 some after Madison I think. She's down for that.

It would be nice to know there's no hard feelings from Cassidy. She really is a great Gal. Go see her, just don't get to close emotionally, and have fun. Live and Learn.

 

[wolverine]

Oh...when you said "pushed too hard" I thought it was alluding to coital activity.

 

[69guy]

I am assuming this is about Cassidy@Platinum?

 

[massage-lover]

Yes it's Cassidy from Platinum, She's really a Gem. The only problem is, She to good at what she does. She probably has the nicest personality I've ever come across from any SP. For me it was to easy to get somewhat attached, so to speak. Once you see her the first time, you want to keep returning for more.

 

[69guy]

Yes it's Cassidy from Platinum, She's really a Gem. The only problem is, She to good at what she does. She probably has the nicest personality I've ever come across from any SP. For me it was to easy to get somewhat attached, so to speak. Once you see her the first time, you want to keep returning for more.

i know the feeling. i agree with Gomez. give her some time. easier said than done, but don't dwell on it. it will drive you nuts.

 

[massage-lover]

I Don't dwell on it anymore my freind. I've got my mind on Madison for Friday, and a 4 some a couple of weeks from now.
My only concern about it now, is that Cassidy may be unhappy, and that's no good at all. I hate making people unhappy. I just hope she put it behind her if she hasn't already.
As much as SP's try to stay detached, I wonder just how detached any two people that engage in this type of activity can really be. It's got to be hard on the Girls at times as well.

 

[Bad Santa]

I Don't dwell on it anymore my freind. I've got my mind on Madison for Friday, and a 4 some a couple of weeks from now.
My only concern about it now, is that Cassidy may be unhappy, and that's no good at all. I hate making people unhappy. I just hope she put it behind her if she hasn't already.
As much as SP's try to stay detached, I wonder just how detached any two people that engage in this type of activity can really be. It's got to be hard on the Girls at times as well.

Glad you're feeling better about it ML. I don't think you should worry about Cassidy too much. I think SPs have a far easier time staying "detached" than we pooners do. If we're prolific pooners we might see an SP maybe once a week or once every 2 weeks. Most much less often than that. So it's easier to fixate on one girl, especially if you see her repeatedly.

An SP on the other hand might see 5 or more pooners a day for 4 or 5 days a week. That's up to 20 guys a week. Especially a popular one like Cassidy. In that situation I think the girls are much less likely to fixate on any one guy. It's obviously just a job to them. We pooners on the other hand often come to a session with a beautiful young woman with all kinds of fantasies that the good SPs find easy to fulfill.

Some may fulfull those fantasies a little too well, leading to the poor pooner deluding himself about the girl's actual intentions. Ya always gotta remember the "fantasy" stops when you walk out that door and she's countin' your hard earned cash.

It sounds cold, but it's the nature of this game and you've gotta play by the rules.

 

[massage-lover]

As always, Great advice from Bad Santa.

I'm totally over her, so no worries there. I plan on staying a little more guarded and realistic with my feelings going forward.

Fortunately, I learned to control my thoughts when I was much younger. That's kept these types of situations much easier to get through. Ever heard the saying "As a man thinketh, so is he". There's a ring of truth to that. Control your thoughts, and your emotions will follow. Thinking of other SP's you like is particularly effective. Staying busy helps as well. Pretty soon, poof, all gone.

I still believe there are some real, down to earth Gals out there that aren't in it just for the money, and who really do enjoy the relationships they form. So far I've only been told about 1 such Lady. One day soon, I'll find out if it's true. Those are the one's you can trust, and be a true Friend to. Not Love, but Cherish.

So Shields up my fellow pooners, and follow Bad Santa's advice.

 

[Dr_X_man]

I have been there. You will learn to get used to let go eventually. (More than 10years as hobbyist)
I was in love with a stripper (around the same time this song was around) I think few years ago. She was my ATF. I have seen her several times I'd say once or twice a week for almost a year. She was and still the best I have had.
She got attached to me too. That made it hard for both of us. However, it is all over but I got attached with few SP's few after and few before her. It was difficult at first to let go. The thing about my stripper girl is she has been the best sex on top of other things. Her body looked a lot like Cassidy. She was 21 and was new at this when I met her.
Now, I am over her but I have not found a girl that is as passionate as she was.
In few words, as others told you. You have to forget and let go. The sooner the better. Do not worry about her at all. A replacement is a good but since you might be a romantic guy as me (I was very romantic), you would need something to keep you busy from thinking about her! Now I got vaccinated! (or so I believe).
Good luck

I Don't dwell on it anymore my freind. I've got my mind on Madison for Friday, and a 4 some a couple of weeks from now.
My only concern about it now, is that Cassidy may be unhappy, and that's no good at all. I hate making people unhappy. I just hope she put it behind her if she hasn't already.
As much as SP's try to stay detached, I wonder just how detached any two people that engage in this type of activity can really be. It's got to be hard on the Girls at times as well.

 

[Dr_X_man]

Sorry I posted while you wrote this one;

As always, Great advice from Bad Santa.

I'm totally over her, so no worries there. I plan on staying a little more guarded and realistic with my feelings going forward.

Fortunately, I learned to control my thoughts when I was much younger. That's kept these types of situations much easier to get through. Ever heard the saying "As a man thinketh, so is he". There's a ring of truth to that. Control your thoughts, and your emotions will follow. Thinking of other SP's you like is particularly effective. Staying busy helps as well. Pretty soon, poof, all gone.

I still believe there are some real, down to earth Gals out there that aren't in it just for the money, and who really do enjoy the relationships they form. So far I've only been told about 1 such Lady. One day soon, I'll find out if it's true. Those are the one's you can trust, and be a true Friend to. Not Love, but Cherish.

So Shields up my fellow pooners, and follow Bad Santa's advice.

 

[massage-lover]

Thanks, Dr_X_man.

Sorry to hear you had such a hard time. Fortunately, I was already at a reduced level of Emotion before Cassidy thought it would be better to stop seeing me. If She had played it cool, She would have had 2 more sessions before we split as freinds, but I guess she had no way of knowing that. I never stay to long with any one SP. I like to meet lots of nice Ladies, so if I do see one more than once, that says they're pretty darn talented, or really, really, good actresses, or both.
Longest SP for me has been Kendra. We got through that ackward stage long ago, and now I think she's a Wonderfully Talented, Great Gal that I can have GREAT sex with. I go home with fond memories, but without any real attachment. Man Kendra can orgasm... Did I just type that.... LOL. I'm Looking forward to seeing her in Jan when she gets back from vacation.

 

[Gomez Adams]

If She had played it cool, She would have had 2 more sessions before we split as freinds, but I guess she had no way of knowing that.

I think she did play it cool, and you should quit while you are ahead.

 

[massage-lover]

I think she did play it cool, and you should quit while you are ahead.

I didn't realize this thread was about getting ahead... It was started with the intent of reviewing a Nice Lovely Lady in a positive way, with an apology included. It seems to have taken a turn for the worse though. Just know that Cassidy is one of the best, so have some fun and go see her. EOL. Nothing more that that needs to be said.