Can't cum

[oblomov]

I need your help. I started dating a girl that I like and for some reason it's difficult for me to cum with her. I ran for almost two hours and it did not work! It has never happened to me before so I am confused. Any advice/trick on how I can make myself cum?

 

[Jerbear]

Stop thinking about it! Seriously, I had the same problem initially, was too worried about being able to cum that I couldn't. Instead, don't think about it, just enjoy, and before you know it, you'll be trying to hold back!

 

[FloridaGuy]

L-Arginine seems to boost my production, making it easier to come (since there is more juice built-up). Available in the vitamin section of your local. Also, stop wanking it between dates. Let the backlog build up.

 

[Massman]

Dont drink. Be well rested. Dont jerk off for a few days. And relax. Stress is your enemy, cuz she's new, you want to make a good impression. Probably intentionally hold off for a while, to impress her with your staying power, however some guys (myself included) once they hold off long enough, can go on forever - you've missed that golden moment. If that happens, stop / slow down, Let thiings cool off a bit - not completely. go back to kissing, oral, petting and rebuild. The worst you can do is just keep pumping away - you will just get more stressed, and it will be less likely, to happen, and she will get sore and pissed off. Whatever you do - make sure she knows that you are super turned on. Let her know your continuous hardon is evidence of that. Tell her that just like some guys have trouble getting it up when the pressure is on, you have a different situation, sometimes its hard to cum, if the tension / expectation level is too high.

GOod luck

 

[oblomov]

Thank you guys! Massman, I think you right, I am just trying to go for too long and missing that golden moment!

 

[Massman]

Dont worry about it dude. It happens to me more than I'd like (thats maybe a couple times a year) and every time it does its a combination of at least 2 of 1) drinking, 2) trying to go too long 3) anticipation / stress or 4) a time limit (i.e. trying to squeeze in a quickie). Especially if its wiht a new girl - dont worry about cumming quick - a) she will be happy that she's turned you on so much and b) you will hav etime to recover for round two! As i suggested above, things could be worse - I've never had a problem getting it up - so a struggle to come every now and then is by comparison an minor thing. Big thing is, dont let the problem grow - get back in there, dont hold back and reassure her and yourself.