Cancellation

[toda1]

SPs either charge a cancellation fee or blacklist you if you cancel close to the appointment time even if it could be for a genuine reason). What about when it is the other way around? I know from experience that some would offer a discount or something for next time. Others just say sorry and that's it. They don't give a s*** because there are many people lining up and losing one person as a client doesn't affect them that much. But, what's the "correct" etiquette here?

 

[PuntMeister]

1) Do unto others….
2) If others are flakes, fucktards, or frustrating, do not repeat.

 

[Fiona]

SPs either charge a cancellation fee or blacklist you if you cancel close to the appointment time even if it could be for a genuine reason). What about when it is the other way around? I know from experience that some would offer a discount or something for next time. Others just say sorry and that's it. They don't give a s*** because there are many people lining up and losing one person as a client doesn't affect them that much. But, what's the "correct" etiquette here?

Most of us accept reasonable excuses for last min cancellations , as for myself , i don’t take deposits as life happens & mine can be as unpredictable as yours , but if the SW has to cancel on you due to sickness or a problem with the incall and your response is “do I get a discount ? Even if it’s a joke “ be prepared to not see her at all 🙂 if you want to risk turning her off go for it , not a good start to an intimate relationship .

 

[toda1]

Most of us accept reasonable excuses for last min cancellations , as for myself , i don’t take deposits as life happens & mine can be as unpredictable as yours , but if the SW has to cancel on you due to sickness or a problem with the incall and your response is “do I get a discount ? Even if it’s a joke “ be prepared to not see her at all 🙂 if you want to risk turning her off go for it , not a good start to an intimate relationship .

I think you misread what I wrote. I have never and would never ask for a discount for situations like this because I get life happens. When it did happen, it was the SPs that offered it first without me asking for it. Also, the emphasis on last minute or close to appointment time cancellations. There are genuine reasons like problem with incall or certain sickness for doing it but what if the SP was clearly feeling sick earlier in the day but decided to soldier through or wait until last minute in the evening to tell you?

 

[Fiona]

what if the SP was clearly feeling sick earlier in the day but decided to soldier through or wait until last minute in the evening to tell you?

What would be the problem if she “soldiered through “? if you were satisfied other then getting her illness . That’s on the gentleman to leave if he is uncomfortable with her being sick , it’s not a cool thing to do imo ( not tell someone your sick )

If she lets you know 12 hrs ahead she’s not well or can’t entertain or 15 mins it’s up to each individual sw what the style of proceeding is , it always says alot about a gentleman who can be flexible if something goes sideways , but if it’s a regular thing she just might not wanna see you . And I’d move on. The balls truly in our court , especially independents how we operate & it’s up to you guys to find someone who works with your style .
Pretty much the same in any business, everyone has a different style. X

 

[80watts]

The SW runs a business, you booked a certain time. The deposit is taken as a cancellation fee. Having her phone cancell/block your phone number, so she won't have to deal with the BS again.
If you are a first time client be on time. If your a regular, a cancellation fee is the min your out. But it can be a excuse for dropping your ass as a customer, take the hint and move on.
Blacklisting is an entire different thing. Blacklisting is done for the SW safety, and not because you jacked off twice before going to see the SW, and have to cancel because you can't get it up a third time.

PS. If you are really looking forward to seeing a particular lady, read her website, especially on how contact is made. I went to see one onetime and she asked for a picture of the hotel before giving her room number.
Well needless to say if you see any man taking a picture of a hotel, you now know what he is gonna be doing for the next hour or two.