Calling all GENTLEMEN..... if you still exist, PLEASE, come forward and be recognized

[MacKenzie Monroe]

I have asked this elsewhere, but it is HERE that I have found GREAT success in booking great sessions with men of substance and gratitude. It is just of late that I have seemingly not run into so many GENTLEMEN callers as I used to.

Don't get me wrong. With the exception of one BOOKED OUTCALL last night, my incall clients that have come to see me have been great. Sadly, the majority of my calls lately have been NO SHOWS, cancellations, major WOTs with last minute cancellations to top it off, and then there are the nasty text messages, and insulting e mails regarding my new photos........ I think someone doesn't like me very much. OH WELL

So, I call out to all of you TRUE GENTLEMEN, please come forward.... I hear some other ladies are experiencing the same shortage as I am..... xo

 

[Pillowtalk]

I think she might be saying there is a shortage of gentlemen, which is different from assuming she is complaining that business is slow.

 

[Pillowtalk]

It depends on how you market yourself and how you screen. Also, I note that SPs that don't have the initial contact by email seem to have more problems than the SPs who have their phone number everywhere. Actually surprised me, but I'm informed that's the case. Email first contact seems to be men who are planning ahead vs phone first contact seems to be men who are horny NOW.

I think that's just for sps who don't know how to screen properly using phone conversation to do it. If they don't care about who they see, just lining up the next guy, every caller will seem like a good call. If they take as much time with conversation as the email only ones do to verify what is being asked for, when and so on, they won't have any trouble at all (99% of the time).

It's my understanding that quite a few email only ads mean that the sp herself doesn't handle the emails, some other guy does. Not really a sure thing.

 

[MacKenzie Monroe]

i spoke with him on the phone several times.

Thank you all for your input. I did screen him by telephone, and he knew EXACTLY what to say, and put just enough PRESSURE on me, to manipulate the situation accordingly, once I got there.
It started with, "You arent exactly what I was expecting"
????????????????????????????????????

All my photos are LESS than 5 months old, and are COMPLETELY accurate. ]

My cab had left, and although I offered to just go, He then started the gradual manipulation to get it to play out EXACTLY like he had planned...... It was a set up from the get go. His "concerned" friends were just another part of the game...... MY FAULT, I COMPLETELY SHOULD HAVE BEEN ON MY GAME, AND WAS NOT.
Naive, stupid, irresponsible...... BUT MOST OF ALL, VERY FORTUNATE.


AND to the "gentleman" who sent me this:

Subject: reason maybe
Message: Hi, could it be that your photos are outdated and it youve gained extreme weight? You use to be much thinner and much mote appealing. What happened ?

I say this: (because you went through my website to send the message, and used a FAKE e mail address.)

Let's see.
I had cancer you dick. I gained extreme weight from the steroids. They needed me to gain weight for the treatments and gee, it's been hard to keep it off.
Add in some bullshit in life's little journey and there you go.
I hope that clears that up for you. All my photos are between 3 weeks and 6 months old. Hardly out dated !


However, I have had many regulars follow me for the last 3 years, and I have been heavy for 2. So, I would like to get back to where I was, and am starting to go back to the gym, but CURVY GIRLS have admirers too. :cheer2::cheer2::cheer2: and now, I am sticking my tongue out at you.!

xo Thanx everyone

 

[ianian]

My two cents worth....it is not all hot body that makes me see a sp for more appts.
It is the personality, charm and connection.
I love little spinners ,
I love BBWS,
I love the SP that makes me feel good
no matter if she has gained a few since I last saw her,
Guess the difference in me is that I am a gentleman thru and thru,
and treat my SP like the Lady she is.
My bottom line is...you want the girl to treat you like a king.....treat her like a QUEEN, she will love ya for it !

And AcuteAngie has said it so very well..

Look at her beautiful smile in those pics she looks strong and beatiful yet all this time not well.
I say to come out here and tell everyone something so personal takes courage. I admire you MacKenzie for your strenghth and courage. You are an example of what a real woman is.
...Much love to you girl....Stay Strong, stay Happy.

 

[MacKenzie Monroe]

My two cents worth....it is not all hot body that makes me see a sp for more appts.
It is the personality, charm and connection.
I love little spinners ,
I love BBWS,
I love the SP that makes me feel good
no matter if she has gained a few since I last saw her,
Guess the difference in me is that I am a gentleman thru and thru,
and treat my SP like the Lady she is.
My bottom line is...you want the girl to treat you like a king.....treat her like a QUEEN, she will love ya for it !

And AcuteAngie has said it so very well..

Look at her beautiful smile in those pics she looks strong and beatiful yet all this time not well.
I say to come out here and tell everyone something so personal takes courage. I admire you MacKenzie for your strenghth and courage. You are an example of what a real woman is.
...Much love to you girl....Stay Strong, stay Happy.

Woo Hoo!!!

You go MacKenzie. There are decent men out there, you know who you are better than anyone else. Three years men three years of being sick and fighting to come back. And she is here and look at her now. So what if MacKenzie is a few pounds heavier for those who have seen her, was her attitude and personality and service good? She has great reviews.

Look at her beautiful smile in those pics she looks strong and beatiful yet all this time not well.
I say to come out here and tell everyone something so personal takes courage. I admire you MacKenzie for your strenghth and courage. You are an example of what a real woman is.

As for business being slow I here from a little birdie that a few woman have been complaining it is slow why I do not know. But I here from this same little birdie that it is very slow in Calgary too. So not sure what is with that. I had one quiet day last week that was it Friday was non stop phone calls but I had booked up (only seeing 2 clients) and only working 4 hours. Lets hope next week is better for all the ladies.

We must keep our hurtful comments to ourselves and to all those rude people and ones who judge from what is on the outside perhaps take a look at yourself in the mirror what do you see on the outside, what do you have inside of you hatred. Not nice people and it will come back at you one day.

Mackenzie you take care all the best to you.

Angie

At this very moment in time, you have NO idea how much your kindness means to me. I have had a few REALLY shitty days back to back, and BOOM, just before I read this updated thread, it kinda hit me.......... Thank you for bringing me from sad tears, to happy tears. I really cant express the profound timing of your reaching out.

Thank You. From the bottom of my heart. xo

 

[badbadboy]

Sorry to hear about these last minute cancellations etc. I have to admit, on occasion I had to cancel one of my weekly 'nooners' due to being called onto a conference call or some other urgent business I had to attend to rather than my hobby. I always follow up with the SP and make a new appointment asap. The ladies who know me, know that I am true to my word and do as I say; so this is not a regular excuse for me.

That said, I just wanted to point out that I plus a number of others on this site have been left on the front door of a number the SP's building's trying to be buzzed in and the SP has dropped the ball on us so to speak. Double booked, fell asleep, forgot or whatever reason comes to mind. Human nature I guess.

I don't condone poor manners which I think is the main theme of your post. I think that behaviour is terrible. Also the nasty texts and emails are just plain low class IMHO.

Hope you have a better string of luck in the future. :thumb:

 

[sevenofnine]

i love your pic, you have a beautiful smile.

don't take anything personal,
this hobby is based on very selfish very selfcentered behaviour

and well very shallow inmature emotions and needs
so what do you expect,

and honestly im not much different
except i realize something a happy sp makes for a happy me.

you treat a lady right she will respond and treat you right,
you make her feel special, and she will make you feel special

sorry to hear about your cancer,
i had cancer to,
its not fun is it.

wish you well

 

[georgej]

Only saw you once. Only reason I haven't returned sooner is time and distance. Looking forward to your style and skill soon.

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

I'm very sorry to hear about everything you are and have been going through. Even though I truly believe this can be the best 'job' in the world when you find your niche it can also be very emotionally draining at times. I am used to the comments about my weight but yes they do still hurt at times. I had one experience that still bothers me to this day. I received a call from a girlfriend who I used to work with at my last 'straight job'. A mutual, very good friend of ours had committed suicide - the girl calling to tell me had predicted this as had lost touch with our mutual friend. The instant I hung up from that call .. my doorbell rang with a client. Needless to say I was in shock. I held it together enough to complete the session without crying but in order to explain my almost zombie like demeanor to a client who knew me very well .. I told him about the call I had just received. About a week later I received a PM here from that client complaining about the session ... words to the effect "our last session was not as good as usual .. even though you got me off twice in 1/2 an hour .. it bothered me that you talked about your friend who died" When I read those words ... I was sooooo hurt that I had to take the better part of a week off. The thought that I extended my good nature to someone and get them off twice in 1/2 an hour and tried to make the session as pleasant as possible without crying etc etc to someone so cold and unfeeling makes me sick to my stomach !!! This person is PM'ing me to this day wondering why he can't get in to see me anymore and wants me to go outside my regular hours to accomodate him - HAH !!! Keep your chin up MacKenzie the cold hearted ones are few and far between - you'll find your niche and be appreciated as you should be !

 

[Ebenezer Good]

Hey Mackenzie,

I'm really sorry to hear your recent experience, there is no excuse for that kind of behaviour. The total ignorance of some members of our society never ceases to amaze me.

I'm sure the other ladies in the community very much appreciate the heads up too. The only way to deal with people like this is to band together as a group and make sure they don't get the chance to do it again.

Thanks for sharing, and no bad thing for us guys to hear this sort of stuff too so that we can empathize a little better and hopefully make life a more enjoyable all round.

Good luck and keep the faith there are still true gentlemen out there who very much respect, appreciate and admire what you do.

Ezer Good

 

[Monet]

Sorry to hear that, it must be terrible experience.
If someone who doesn't sound polite, decent, respectful over the phone, he may have the tendency to
call it off [?]. It is really hard to tell. The last minute cancelation means 10 minutes or 30 minutes,
or 1 hour, or a few hours, or 24 hours, 2-3 days cancelation? Remember to stay more or less connected
with them, so you will be the first one to know the change on the schedule so that you can coordinate
and accommodate the clients who have less chance to make a cancelation. All in all, it is trick, we all
have to somehow put some trust in it... It just happens. Shame on the last minute cancelations.

So, I call out to all of you TRUE GENTLEMEN, please come forward.... I hear some other ladies are experiencing the same shortage as I am..... xo

 

[Monet]

I like this idea, put them on the blacklist.

Hey Mackenzie,
I'm sure the other ladies in the community very much appreciate the heads up too. The only way to deal with people like this is to band together as a group and make sure they don't get the chance to do it again.
Ezer Good

 

[Corben Dallas]

Are you having a better day MM ?

 

[chrisim]

I am sorry to hear about the negative things going on, but do know that personality is tops for many of us pooners. I have read so many positive things about you and I hope you take that to heart. Your warm smile and heart count for so much more than anything else. Great companionship can't be beat and it goes both ways. All the love to you

 

[sevenofnine]

i just want to say i admire the op Mackenzie

i had cancer and the resulting treatmeat,
it isn't easy,


it isn't easy at all to go through.

i have also been in this hobby, for years and years. and i know it can take its toll, especially on sp.s
yet i look at her face,
and i see life fun humor intelligence wisdom and of course beauty

its not something i could always find within myself

 

[MacKenzie Monroe]

j

i just want to say i admire the op Mackenzie

i had cancer and the resulting treatmeat,
it isn't easy,


it isn't easy at all to go through.

i have also been in this hobby, for years and years. and i know it can take its toll, especially on sp.s
yet i look at her face,
and i see life fun humor intelligence wisdom and of course beauty

its not something i could always find within myself

Thank you very much..... I am shocked to hear your vision of me... It is flattering and very humbling. Believe me, I have not always dealt with the hands I have been dealt so graciously. I have made some colossal errors in judgement, and taken the wrong path MANY times. But the way I see it, is if I let the bad people and situations in my life change the essence of who I am, then I have fought all this time for nothing.
I could be bitter, jaded, untrusting and un nurturing, if I let it all get to me...... but that would be letting the bad guys win... FUCK THAT. (sorry... it felt right...lol)

I just read the related thread in the PSA area.

Do people know that you can dial 911 and not have to talk to the operator? ALL 911 CALLS ARE RECORDED Since you are not holding the phone in your hand, you can try and keep the escalation down and direct the conversation to give the operator the information they need. As in "when I was told to come to apt 111, 1111 East 7th Ave, I was told there would be only one guy here - there are 4 of you."

The operators at 911 are reasonably well trained. You will have police hammering on the door in a few minutes.

I would remind the ladies. Prostitution is legal. When you are in the situation that MacKenzie found herself in, the illegal activities around prostitution are no longer in play. What the police will be dealing with is the illegal activities that are now taking place.

Of course there will be officers that don't completely understand that. That's why you keep the phone conversation with 911 active. The earbud in the officer's ear is going to be feeding the officer the comments of the 911 operator. If the officer begins to "drift" according to personal bias, they will be pulled back to the issues at hand if you are keeping the 911 connection active. Once the situation is under control - TAKE PICTURES - those pictures will be valuable later on in court. And, of course, terminate the 911 connection when the situation is under control.

I did not know any of that. Thank you for explaining it so well.... I will remember all of it. Thank You

I am sorry to hear about the negative things going on, but do know that personality is tops for many of us pooners. I have read so many positive things about you and I hope you take that to heart. Your warm smile and heart count for so much more than anything else. Great companionship can't be beat and it goes both ways. All the love to you

Thank You and all the love to you as well.

Are you having a better day MM ?

With the amount of support, love and beautiful gestures of compassion that have been so freely given to me today, it would be IMPOSSIBLE not to feel better. I am astounded at the sheer depth of emotion you all have shared.... Thank You with all of my heart.

I wish I had see your post earlier ... OH my god do I relate!

Your attitude is inspiring your honesty motivating . Your post shows me your a woman with a huge amount of integrity. Thank you so much for being such a good example to us ALL!!
xoxo
Jessica


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Thank you for reaching out. I am sitting here all teary eyed and runny nosed.... (thats a pretty picture, hey fellas.... LOL) But it is because there are very few of you that have even had a conversation with me, or maybe hadnt even heard of me, and you have made me feel so loved.... TRULY LOVED. I needed to feel this, and I cant thank you all enough... Truly touched....... See, FREAKING CRYING AGAIN..... lol

i love your pic, you have a beautiful smile.

don't take anything personal,
this hobby is based on very selfish very selfcentered behaviour

and well very shallow inmature emotions and needs
so what do you expect,

and honestly im not much different
except i realize something a happy sp makes for a happy me.

you treat a lady right she will respond and treat you right,
you make her feel special, and she will make you feel special

sorry to hear about your cancer,
i had cancer to,
its not fun is it.

wish you well

Thank you.... my photographer captured some beautiful shots of me, my boobies AND my smile...... Thank you again to him as well. xo

Only saw you once. Only reason I haven't returned sooner is time and distance. Looking forward to your style and skill soon.

Thank you George..... I am pleased you have fond memories of our visit together. xo Hope to see you again soon.

I'm very sorry to hear about everything you are and have been going through. Even though I truly believe this can be the best 'job' in the world when you find your niche it can also be very emotionally draining at times. I am used to the comments about my weight but yes they do still hurt at times. I had one experience that still bothers me to this day. I received a call from a girlfriend who I used to work with at my last 'straight job'. A mutual, very good friend of ours had committed suicide - the girl calling to tell me had predicted this as had lost touch with our mutual friend. The instant I hung up from that call .. my doorbell rang with a client. Needless to say I was in shock. I held it together enough to complete the session without crying but in order to explain my almost zombie like demeanor to a client who knew me very well .. I told him about the call I had just received. About a week later I received a PM here from that client complaining about the session ... words to the effect "our last session was not as good as usual .. even though you got me off twice in 1/2 an hour .. it bothered me that you talked about your friend who died" When I read those words ... I was sooooo hurt that I had to take the better part of a week off. The thought that I extended my good nature to someone and get them off twice in 1/2 an hour and tried to make the session as pleasant as possible without crying etc etc to someone so cold and unfeeling makes me sick to my stomach !!! This person is PM'ing me to this day wondering why he can't get in to see me anymore and wants me to go outside my regular hours to accomodate him - HAH !!! Keep your chin up MacKenzie the cold hearted ones are few and far between - you'll find your niche and be appreciated as you should be !

Jewel.... you have always impressed me. I cant believe we were practially neighbors for so long, yet never got a chance to meet..... And that guy is an ASSHOLE... Love to you darling.. xo

I think the asshole who made negative comments about your pics needs a kick in the nuts, but that's just me

As others have said you have a beautiful smile, a sexy personality and you are a "for real genuine, nice person"
and fun to be with

They say that when someone receives a negative comment , it takes 10 positive comments to make up for that
so I don't mind saying nine more times that I think you have a beautiful smile, a sexy body and an awesome personality

You have always been so positive to me..... I was happpy to get a chance to meet you ... Thank you again for your valued time and attention...xoxo

Hey Mackenzie,

I'm really sorry to hear your recent experience, there is no excuse for that kind of behaviour. The total ignorance of some members of our society never ceases to amaze me.

I'm sure the other ladies in the community very much appreciate the heads up too. The only way to deal with people like this is to band together as a group and make sure they don't get the chance to do it again.

Thanks for sharing, and no bad thing for us guys to hear this sort of stuff too so that we can empathize a little better and hopefully make life a more enjoyable all round.

Good luck and keep the faith there are still true gentlemen out there who very much respect, appreciate and admire what you do.

Ezer Good

Spoken like a true gentleman.... I curtsey sir... xo

Sorry to hear that, it must be terrible experience.
If someone who doesn't sound polite, decent, respectful over the phone, he may have the tendency to
call it off [?]. It is really hard to tell. The last minute cancelation means 10 minutes or 30 minutes,
or 1 hour, or a few hours, or 24 hours, 2-3 days cancelation? Remember to stay more or less connected
with them, so you will be the first one to know the change on the schedule so that you can coordinate
and accommodate the clients who have less chance to make a cancelation. All in all, it is trick, we all
have to somehow put some trust in it... It just happens. Shame on the last minute cancelations.

This guy played the phone to a perfect T...... There was a lot of back and forth calls, all answered....but some large errors on my part, which I am fully aware of, and embarrased I let happen to be frank.

Thank you to you as well for the information as well.... xo

 

[Umbras]

Don't take what they say to heart Mackenzie, your reviews speak for themselves and the responses you have gotten here go much further than somone who fails at the basic principles of beign a memeber of the human race.

Either way I don't think that somone posting a negative review would go unnoticed and disputed by those who know you and happy with thier time spent experienceing the delights you have to offer.

 

[mikeret17]

Subject: reason maybe
Message: Hi, could it be that your photos are outdated and it youve gained extreme weight? You use to be much thinner and much mote appealing. What happened ?

I say this: (because you went through my website to send the message, and used a FAKE e mail address.)

Let's see.
I had cancer you dick. I gained extreme weight from the steroids. They needed me to gain weight for the treatments and gee, it's been hard to keep it off.
Add in some bullshit in life's little journey and there you go.
I hope that clears that up for you. All my photos are between 3 weeks and 6 months old. Hardly out dated !


However, I have had many regulars follow me for the last 3 years, and I have been heavy for 2. So, I would like to get back to where I was, and am starting to go back to the gym, but CURVY GIRLS have admirers too. :cheer2::cheer2::cheer2: and now, I am sticking my tongue out at you.!

xo Thanx everyone

And to the person who sent this to Ms MM.

Subject: Reason Maybe
Hi, Could the reason you sent this be maybe you got hit upside the head with a brick lately? Or maybe you're an ex-football player who used to play without a helmet?
Or maybe it's cuz your mom dropped you 1 too many times on your head as a child (or maybe 1 time not enough)

This is downright deplorable in my mind. How could you say something that Classless, and then hide behind a false name to really show how big your Cajones really are.
I haven't been in this hobby for long, maybe going on 2 years. But I would NEVER say anything like that to any lady, regardless of whether she's in "The Biz".
Regardless of whether Mackenzie offered up the reasons why (and in my mind, she sure didn't have to offer up ANY explanation), I really think she should have just said "you dick" and let it sit right there. Looking at her website, & her pics posted in there, I can personally see absolutely nothing wrong with the way she looks....AT ALL. As she herself said, curvy girls have admirers too. I'll throw my hat into that ring anytime. Hell, if it might push a guy like you further down the waiting list, sign me up.

MacKenzie, I hope you won't let this start painting all of us hobbyists with the same brush. What this guy did was totally uncalled for. I can't even degrade myself to a level where I could even apologize for what he said, but let it be known that not all of us think the way he did.

I'm just saying.

 

[MacKenzie Monroe]

Just a quick note to all that have not only responded to this thread, but who took the time to write deeply moving and personally revealing notes to me....... I do intend to respond to you all, but the amount of encouragement is mind boggling.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart and soul.
I didn't even realize until the responses came through one by one, how deeply the events I shared with you have impacted me.
It is now, that I stand and resolve to shake off the sadness..... kick the demons, and breathe in a deep breath of fresh air.
I see now that I have so much to offer, that is actually recognized by others, and I am humbled and feel so emotionally overwhelmed I have to do what is right......
Start a new day.

Look for my new website, that is a direct result of opening up and asking for the GENTLEMEN to come forward.
Not only did that happen, but so many women that I don't even know if they had even heard my name before, said things to me that have profoundly affected me, in ways you could never know.
All of this has happened at a time in my life that I didn't realize was THE PERFECT TIME. Please continue to be the kind and generous souls that you all are.
I don't know if you are aware of the impact that taking the time to reach out and extend yourself to another person has on them.
Look for my upcoming changes..... I have been inspired beyond words.
MacKenzie Monroe is about to KICK SOME ASS...... Look out life, here I come, again...... but this time, I see, I have the wind at my back, and a lot of people rooting for me.

Thanx for giving me back the spark to jump up and get this party started. (I stole that last phrase from Playful Alex... LOL)

I just wanted to let you know that my faith in mankind...... of both genders, has been restored, and for that, I THANK YOU. xoxoxoo