Bye all

E

Edmonton Mod

Edmonton Mod is resigning due to conflicts that are out of control. Why can't we be civil? I leave with the msg. If you get banned ask for a reason. Please think it over and stop blaming everybody else for the problems I was reasonable. People were NOT I will fight till death on this point and those posters that know who I AM or have talked to me can confirm this.

I think, and know you have lost a good mod IMO. I was fair. Edmonton Mod does not want to deal with this stuff anymore and pity anybody who has to. Thank you to the civil and good posters, it was fun knowing you.
Bye.

EM
 

threepeat

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Sep 20, 2004
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You were one of the good ones, EM. I was rooting for you and hoping your new approach. Sorry to hear it didn't work out. You'll be missed. :(
 

beerdrinker

Proud To Be Canadian EH!!
Oct 27, 2004
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Bottom Of A Keg!!!
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Sorry you are leaving :confused: , always fun to read your posts and I thought you were handling everything/everyone fairly. Are you going to return with your old handle?? or are you gone from perb for ever :eek:
 

IceG

Top Gun Call Sign: Iceman
Jun 3, 2003
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Sheriff, who will stop the bad guys?

Emod, i wrote a post for ya in the Van section, but i will reiterate that i believed you did a reasonable job.

it is the anonymity of the board that promotes many to be jackasses and you have to clean up after them.

hope you reconsider. we have not had alot of problems in Edmonton (unless i missed somethings). forget about the Van group, i try to go in that lounge once in a while and always get one of them taking pot shots at me. of course, i am never one to run from a confrontation even if it is limited to typed words, but i have always respected the board and the difficult work MODs do.

Sheriff, you ruled with an iron glove (and iron dick :) )and tight fist, but it was a fair regime. the Prairies just got alittle more dangerous without ya.

peace to ya wherever you ride cowboy.
 
E

Edmonton Mod

I willl be blunt on this one. I haven't had too many problems with anybody from edmonton. Winnipeg and vancouver have given me a HEADACHE and I rarely moderate there. Everybody is lobbying to have this person banned or this post removed there. Politics play a role in everything. Everybody hates each other in those forums and keeps arguing for some stupid reason. Please don't learn from them and associate all the moderators with bullshit that is happening. Sometimes a decision may be unfair, don't be a whiner. I am whining about moderating but you should see some of the shit I go through. Ridiculous. I don't need this crap, never really moderated vancouver, and have to deal with the complaints. Why? I don't see a reason either. I would stay on as moderator in edmonton, but there are some problems here too, moderate but i think I won't deal with them either. thank you. I have been considering this for a while, and the last few days pushed me over the edge. ~A~ it wasn't really that thing we had in the forum a few days ago... but moreso afterwards. EVERYBODY chimes in with their opinon and continue to bombard me with this and that. Both "factions", it is stupid.

Here is a rant...
For one, if a decision doesn't involve 1 party, mind your business. #2 Are we adults on this forum? Some of these people I really have doubts.#3 If you don't like a decision it isn not THE end of the world, grow up
#4 READ THE RULES and make a conscious attempt not to break them
#5 there is some problems with moderation that are out of my control, look at all the evidence before you trash everybody.... I think i was victimized by some questionable decisions... I didn't make them. and I don't support people CONTINUALLY whining about them. In life everything is harsh.... no need to be a baby, just walk away and do your own thing. Some ppl have rehashed the same thing over and over again. Lots of people. I won't do that anymore and I am leaving. Bye
 

tom25

what's up doc?
Oct 7, 2003
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Lobbying to have someone banned is just ridiculous! Mods should read the posts and simply make decisions. there are a lot of wieners on the board who don't like some people for whatever reasons and like to stir the shit!

Sorry you're gone Ed Mod. As someone who has been "sat down" by Mods I have no grudge with the decision, and total respect for the job you do. The problem is some of the asswipes who lurk on this board, and never contribute to it except to cause problems.

Tom
 
E

Edmonton Mod

Also some decisions are 100% fair, but not all can be.

Nobody acknowledges a decision that is fair. (well a few exceptions... VERY FEW) They keep fighting for their own rights here and there. I did nothing, I swear. I did nothing. That is what I hear all the time. And ppl just go on a rampage about this for months. It is stupid. Grow up, it is harsh, but life.

Another rant
I don't have problem with an occasional complaint from one member about 1 post. But sometimes it is the same people complaining over and over again. Why are you so dissatisfied with life that everything bothers you? Go get help i suggest.
 

webguy

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why ban?

I am just wondering, why ban people at all? just delete their posts and put why the post was deleted, or better yet move it to a section called

"Sigh... Idiots"

If you embarrass someone enough they will stop posting, and breaking the rules.

And if the mods do ban someone they should post why in another seciton called

"BANNED!!!" and give a basic reason and duration. And for gods sake, email the person being banned!

like it costs money to set up extra headings.
 

Pan

Engorged Member
webguy said:
I am just wondering, why ban people at all? just delete their posts and put why the post was deleted, or better yet move it to a section called

"Sigh... Idiots"

If you embarrass someone enough they will stop posting, and breaking the rules.

And if the mods do ban someone they should post why in another seciton called

"BANNED!!!" and give a basic reason and duration. And for gods sake, email the person being banned!

like it costs money to set up extra headings.
I can empathise with EM on this one. I moderate a busy forum in another dark backwater of the web and, frankly, what you suggest is just not feasable. People post all manner of dreck, and an arbitrary ban is quick and effective. There are exceptions to every rule, but to be debating every decision with every bonehead is counterproductive, and time consuming. When dealing with minor indescretions from regular posters, one always tries to be reasonable, but when some folks continue to push boundaries, losing them is simplest.
On my board, we have a set of guidelines, and only the moderators get to interpret them. If you don't like the rules, don't post...
;)

Edmonton Mod, you will be missed here. I have always found you rational and even handed, but I feel your pain. :(
 
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TOFTT

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Oct 21, 2004
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TOFTT does not like this, no TOFTT does not

Edmonton Mod, TOFTT is pleading, nay begging you to please stick around solely as the Edmonton Mod.

Forget 'bout them other places, jus' stick with us, your mod'ing was fine by TOFTT, even after that case of mistaken identity, no hard feelings, no grudges, hell shit happens

As for the ones complaining about you, F*** Em All, and stick around OK?

Hope to Hell you reconsider, but keep in touch, TOFTT already misses EM :(

No TOFTT does not like this at all !!!!
 

Sugar

Deja Vu Massage
Aug 6, 2004
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:(

I'm sorry that you had to go through all of this Edmonton Mod. You will be missed by many people including myself.
 

Pan

Engorged Member
TOFTT said:
Edmonton Mod, TOFTT is pleading, nay begging you to please stick around solely as the Edmonton Mod.
Hope to Hell you reconsider, but keep in touch, TOFTT already misses EM :(

No TOFTT does not like this at all !!!!

TOFTT needs to start speaking in the first person... :rolleyes:
Dude, you're reminding me of "Bob" on "Becker," and that ain't a purty picture... ;)

However, I agree with your sentiment.
 

irishmic

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:eek: Please reconsider you took a lot of BS off this board
 

FBI

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webguy said:
I am just wondering, why ban people at all? just delete their posts and put why the post was deleted, or better yet move it to a section called

"Sigh... Idiots"

If you embarrass someone enough they will stop posting, and breaking the rules.
dunno not that easy, a few points from my perspective
-some idiots just come on here to stir up shit.
- a slap on the wrist sometimes doesn't help, a warning/embarassment what good does that do? it is like a slap on the wrist. Sometimes a ban is necessary to show ppl that the mods are SERIOUS, some people will ignore you
-Sometimes a ban doesn't help. People do reregister under other handles
-a ban enables different levels of punishment for the severity of a crime

I guess it is just a different school of thought on punishment. Some people are left wing or right wing. Same sorta deal here.
 

Kev

New member
May 13, 2002
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Edmonton Mod...

As the first moderator of PERB outside of FZ i feel i can tell you, you have no idea how better you'll feel once you leave this shit behind.
 

IceG

Top Gun Call Sign: Iceman
Jun 3, 2003
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Emod i think i understand now

i never knew about all the whiners trying to get others banned (kind of boggles the mind that someone would take this place that seriously), all the complaints, trying to mediate all the bickering, all the complaining EVEN after a banning.

there are some quality people here and some severe head cases. i guess when you constantly have to deal with the latter, then the job becomes impossible.

join us as your alter-ego EMod. (ps. try not to get yourself banned :D )
 
E

Edmonton Mod

add to this you have complaints (BS...methinks)

these are SOME real examples of what i received, asking me to ban somebody

The complaints include : (very humourous.... all 100% somethign I have received requesting a ban)


1)prank phone calls,
2)"hired goons"-> this one was my favourite
3)supposed "lawsuits" against perberts
4)police charges laid against certain perberts
5)all the conspiracy theories->this guy/gal is out to get me and posted this about me.. delete it, this guy is associated with this agency... blah blah blah
6) People releasing info about pooning incidents to an sps boss (at their day job) or a pooners boss
7) by sps and clients

etc etc... this is only a small sample. Daily humour in the pm box.
Call me insensitive but i dunno if half of these are true!

Come on get a life,i won't listen to EVERYTHING. The stuff off of perb is none of my business


methinks some of these ppl need some psychological counselling :confused:
 

wolverine

Hard Throbbing Member
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Good luck, E-Mod, and hope you keep posting as a regular member.
But now who is going to maintain your SP website sticky?
 
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