Bringing flowers - What kind of message does that send?

[deaninpg]

Good Day...
This is probably best answered by providers but if some of you have brought flowers to your appointment, I'd be curious about your opinion.
I have seen the same woman a number of times over the last year and a half and we have really good chemistry. I will be visiting her again soon, and I was thinking about bringing her flowers. There is no spin here. She's just a nice woman and I would like to surprise her.
But I am concerned to know whether that would send an unintended message.
For example:
Will she be upset because I am bringing flowers to her apartment door...will that set off alarms among other residents?
Will she be concerned that I want to take this relationship to the next level? I truly don't.
Will she think that I'm trying to get more bang for my buck - no pun intended? I think she knows me well enough to understand that isn't the motive.
I just really enjoy her company. In the past, we've sat and chatted for an hour at the conclusion of an appointment, discussed family, our goals and dreams.
The more I write, the more I think I'm answering my own question....
So, what do you think? Would flowers be cool? Thanks in advance for your answers.

 

[fortfalcon]

Good Day...
This is probably best answered by providers but if some of you have brought flowers to your appointment, I'd be curious about your opinion.
I have seen the same woman a number of times over the last year and a half and we have really good chemistry. I will be visiting her again soon, and I was thinking about bringing her flowers. There is no spin here. She's just a nice woman and I would like to surprise her.
But I am concerned to know whether that would send an unintended message.
For example:
Will she be upset because I am bringing flowers to her apartment door...will that set off alarms among other residents?
Will she be concerned that I want to take this relationship to the next level? I truly don't.
Will she think that I'm trying to get more bang for my buck - no pun intended? I think she knows me well enough to understand that isn't the motive.
I just really enjoy her company. In the past, we've sat and chatted for an hour at the conclusion of an appointment, discussed family, our goals and dreams.
The more I write, the more I think I'm answering my own question....
So, what do you think? Would flowers be cool? Thanks in advance for your answers.

I see no issue with this type of behaviour. Most woman I know appreciate flowers, so I have brought flowers. A lot of clients treat them like

Good Day...
This is probably best answered by providers but if some of you have brought flowers to your appointment, I'd be curious about your opinion.
I have seen the same woman a number of times over the last year and a half and we have really good chemistry. I will be visiting her again soon, and I was thinking about bringing her flowers. There is no spin here. She's just a nice woman and I would like to surprise her.
But I am concerned to know whether that would send an unintended message.
For example:
Will she be upset because I am bringing flowers to her apartment door...will that set off alarms among other residents?
Will she be concerned that I want to take this relationship to the next level? I truly don't.
Will she think that I'm trying to get more bang for my buck - no pun intended? I think she knows me well enough to understand that isn't the motive.
I just really enjoy her company. In the past, we've sat and chatted for an hour at the conclusion of an appointment, discussed family, our goals and dreams.
The more I write, the more I think I'm answering my own question....
So, what do you think? Would flowers be cool? Thanks in advance for your answers.

A lot woman appreciate flowers, so why not give them to a companion. They are people too and probably see the worst of men more than most people. Being nice to people never hurts.

 

[Fuzzy peach]

Does she have her own website? If so, see if she has a FAQ section that could mention what gifts she would like/dislike.

 

[poonman2]

Good Day...
This is probably best answered by providers but if some of you have brought flowers to your appointment, I'd be curious about your opinion.
I have seen the same woman a number of times over the last year and a half and we have really good chemistry. I will be visiting her again soon, and I was thinking about bringing her flowers. There is no spin here. She's just a nice woman and I would like to surprise her.
But I am concerned to know whether that would send an unintended message.
For example:
Will she be upset because I am bringing flowers to her apartment door...will that set off alarms among other residents?
Will she be concerned that I want to take this relationship to the next level? I truly don't.
Will she think that I'm trying to get more bang for my buck - no pun intended? I think she knows me well enough to understand that isn't the motive.
I just really enjoy her company. In the past, we've sat and chatted for an hour at the conclusion of an appointment, discussed family, our goals and dreams.
The more I write, the more I think I'm answering my own question....
So, what do you think? Would flowers be cool? Thanks in advance for your answers.

It is hard to know if she'll appreciate them because you gave her a gift. Not all gifts are appreciated because she could have an allergy or she could think one-time use flowers are wasteful. Also, most women don't want to attract too much attention if you bring a big bouquet of flowers to her in-call.

My suggestion is instead of surprising her, ask her would flowers be something she would enjoy and which type is her favourites. If not, maybe there's something else she would appreciate more like maybe chocolates, a bottle of wine, or maybe a contribution to her favourite charitable association.

 

[RedDragon64]

I've only brought flowers to my providers a couple of times. They were well received and there was no misunderstandings about romantic intentions.

Based on comments I have seen from providers, the majority of the comments were along the lines of, "pleasantly surprised, and clients rarely bring me flowers".

However I have also seen a few providers get insulted over a client bringing them "cheap supermarket flowers", so they obviously felt the gift was beneath them. This is why I follow providers on social media as part of my screening process because I find arrogance to be a huge turnoff, and clearly providers making comments like that would not be a good fit for me.

 

[Banged_Up]

I may sound cynical in my response, in my experience gifts are either not appreciated or I miss the mark.
I did put together gift bags for my first duo, with handmade trinkets and all. Mostly ignored. I’ve brought flowers and as has been mentioned it seemed Safeway flowers are below the average SP.
I’ve done vehicle repairs where my service and knowledge were undervalued.
Here’s what I’ve learned… money talks and bullshit walks. Ladies can go buy the shit they want with cash. Everything else is a WOT.
I did see one lady who was appreciative of gifts etc. but even she admitted she really does value a good tip over anything else.
So if I see a regular and know for sure what she likes I’ll bring that, unless it’s booze. I saw a provider that polished off a whole bottle of wine in a one hour session, suffice to say it was less than enjoyable for me. She had fun but at $350/hr that isn’t a big part of the equation.
I squirrel away $40 (sometimes more) and if I had fun she gets it, if not, nope.
If I’m repeating and I can round up (within reason) I include the tip with the donation. It’s almost an unspoken thank you for what I know is going to be a good time.
I don’t deny the people that romanticize an encounter. Everyone is different and this is especially true with providers. Some like gifts, they all like cash.

 

[Anya Addams]

Good Day...
This is probably best answered by providers but if some of you have brought flowers to your appointment, I'd be curious about your opinion.
I have seen the same woman a number of times over the last year and a half and we have really good chemistry. I will be visiting her again soon, and I was thinking about bringing her flowers. There is no spin here. She's just a nice woman and I would like to surprise her.
But I am concerned to know whether that would send an unintended message.
For example:
Will she be upset because I am bringing flowers to her apartment door...will that set off alarms among other residents?
Will she be concerned that I want to take this relationship to the next level? I truly don't.
Will she think that I'm trying to get more bang for my buck - no pun intended? I think she knows me well enough to understand that isn't the motive.
I just really enjoy her company. In the past, we've sat and chatted for an hour at the conclusion of an appointment, discussed family, our goals and dreams.
The more I write, the more I think I'm answering my own question....
So, what do you think? Would flowers be cool? Thanks in advance for your answers.

This sounds like a kind gesture of appreciation & from the way you describe this person it sounds like she would see it as just that too. I say go for it 💕

 

[Bluesmile86]

I've brought flowers and a stuff animals (find out which one she likes) to SPs before and they always appreciated the gesture, as they said it made their day. .

Bring them on special occassions, like your x number of visits or her BD and don't forget a vase to put them in, along with a hand-written card.

Don't think too much about it, just show your sincerity with a cheerful smile.

 

[Andrew wasson]

I think a bouquet of 20$ bills is the best approach!

 

[emacky]

I use to buy stuff for my favorite goto back in the day. Sometimes a bottle of wine, sometimes soju, sometimes bbt.

It didn't really mean much unless you're hoping it would be received as something more.

 

[paulalbert1980]

LOLOLOLO what kind of simp gives gifts to a hooker?

 

[MissingOne]

I have thought about taking flowers to my favourite R&T provider. However, I always circle back to a generous cash tip. Not so extravagent as to embarrass or alarm her about my intentions, but enough to show that I sincerely appreciate her. Money gives her options. She expresses gratitude, which I choose to believe is sincere.