Boyfriend?

Previous Thread Next Thread
B

Boo32

Member
Jul 31, 2006
55
0
6
Question for the Sp's.

I've been with some very good GFE SP's.
Some of the experiences left me feeling like they really were a Girlfriend.

My question is:

How do you determine between client & new boyfriend?

Respectfully, when you're out, how do you decide who's a potential client and who's a person you could have a relationship with?

To put it blunt, but how do you determine who pays for it and who gets it for free?

Have you ever dated a client?
 
O

oppai

ilikeasianswithbigtitties
Oct 6, 2002
1,160
9
38
Boo, why would they be any different than any regular girlie determining who will be a BF and who will not?
 
M

mclovin76

New member
Aug 29, 2008
350
1
0
bring her an expensive gift and dont leave any money c how that goes lol if she asks for money then your not her bf hahahhaha if she likes the gift get on your knees and make her cum in your mouth. That should seal the deal :)
 
M

mclovin76

New member
Aug 29, 2008
350
1
0
ive dated 4 sps and 2 from being a client. That doesnt mean its gona work on everyone, but if the guy wants to try something why not give him hope. :)
 
M

mclovin76

New member
Aug 29, 2008
350
1
0
oh and yeah if my gf doesnt let me cum inher mouth its pretty much over, or she cant blame me for cuming in another girls mouth . :) feels so goooooood makes you wana slap your moma
 
K

kalel

Member
Sep 16, 2006
667
10
18
the bubble bursting comment is that most sp's will make you feel special when you're with them. that's part of the service. and not many of them will tell you that you didn't please them one bit, you had no hope of it, and it's about the money. i've been with a very well reviewed sp (and many of the reviews contained information about how the man made her orgasm) who broke some of her rules for me and treated me very well. and it wasn't until we dated that she told me that never during her sessions has she had an orgasm, not even with me (atleast not when i was a paying customer). ho hum, lesson learned: that when she's moaning and groaning she's probably counting the 20's and 50's you'll be giving her later.

as for when to date a client - it's the same fucking deal as in a bar, a gym, or a library. don't think by being super nice you'll win, you need to create attraction from her and that's not necessarily a logical choice for most women.
 
N

namssa

...................
May 3, 2007
1,215
8
38
Between the legs of a HOT SP!!
Pretty simple, if you are paying you're a client.

If you are overnight at her place or she at your place and no one is paying money, likely a girlfriend. Yeah, cumming in her mouth is a good sign as well.
 
Aynia

Aynia

Banned
Mar 30, 2007
128
2
0
50
This subject gets beat to death, and I truly think that is because we continue to forget one thing.. WE ARE ALL HUMAN.

I only truly know one lady who has never crossed that line, and that includes the ones who do try to keep the boundaries set.

The problem with relationships, no matter how much we would like it, there is no such thing as black or white. Emotions, people, situations are Grey and we can never anticipate what is around the corner.

Life is living, breathing and feeling...and sometimes exploring situations, regardless of whether they work out or not.... that is what life is all about.
 
K

Krustee

Banned
Nov 9, 2007
1,554
11
0
Sexy Nina Leone said:
As a regular girl, I would have been jumping in, claiming stake.. but now I cut the feelings off as soon as I recognize them.. it's part of the price I pay to be in this business.

xoxo
Nina
Click to expand...
Chicken shit!

:D
 
M

moi

Female Companion
Mar 31, 2008
620
5
0
Edmontons
SexiJasmine said:
I have never dated a client, I don't think I could mix business and pleasure. Expecially if they were seeing me while they had a girlfriend it would always be in the back of my mind if they still were or not. That is why I do not kiss that way I can save something for my personal life.
Click to expand...
Ditto.

Being with someone and having them cum in your mouth means nothing in a "real" relationship. I've never in my life had tasted it, and I don't intend to until I meet my husband-to-be. I need to save SOMETHING for that special someone.

I've almost dated a client once, and it was just awkward. Wondering if they were with me just for the sex, or whatever. Like someone else said, I'd make their life a living hell just wondering. Not to mention I don't like commitment too much, so my "mini" relationships with regular clientele is awesome. I suppose I would have been a swinger in another life if i hadn't gotten into this lol.

I have a great relationship with my SD. Almost like a relationship, with great intimacy and bonding, but still enough boundaries to let us both be free.
 
Aynia

Aynia

Banned
Mar 30, 2007
128
2
0
50
Sexy Nina Leone said:
Hey Hubba, thanks. I'm not sad though,


I may mourn my lack of ability to be in a coupled union, but true happiness, contrary to popular belief, is not exclusively meant for couples. I can be happy making several people happy for an hour at a time instead of one man happy for a lifetime.

xoxo
Nina
Click to expand...
Exactly my point, nothing is set in stone, things present themselves, situations develop and we find our comfort level ( especially as we get better with age). I just always find it funny when the topic seems segregated by "pooner's/sp's".... at the end of the day, we are all just humans no different than anyone else.

The key is finding yourself, your comfort levels and learning to accept imperfection in you and others.... and finding the balance, whatever it is that works for you.

Sometimes everything falls into place just right and surprises you.
There is a time and a place for everything, isn't there hunny... ;)
Click to expand...
There truly is...and I am one of those that believes everything and everyone comes into your life for a reason and usually when you're not looking and least expect it.

Trust me, that I know;)
 
T

treveller

Member
Sep 22, 2008
633
11
18
Just an Idea

Nina, I wish you well, however it works best for you.

On a lighter note, here is something I thought of for any SP who wants to spend more time with a client and thinks it might lead to something fine but has problems such as "I've almost dated a client once, and it was just awkward. Wondering if they were with me just for the sex, or whatever. Like someone else said, I'd make their life a living hell just wondering."

If the fellow likes you as much as you like him he is probably spending all he can afford for regular visits. You want to see more of him socially and otherwise so go for it. To deal with the "Wondering if they were with me just for the sex" problem explain that you have some doubts or baggage (who doesn't) and ask him to keep paying what he has been paying in the past or perhaps something less (eventually nothing?) according to your comfort level. Chances are you will want more of him (sex and otherwise) than he was able to afford so you both come out ahead in the short term.

If it turns out well in the long term then it won't matter whether the money ends up in his pocket or yours. If it doesn't work out as well as you had hoped there is the pain to deal with that everyone risks when they get involved with someone else but there will be less concern that you were exploited. On the other hand, if he was trying to exploit you he won't keep paying for long and you will be rid of him.

The short version? Perhaps paying cash for sex can be part of a healthy relationship.

My first and hopefully last attempt at a Dear Abby column.
 
D

deslicher

New member
Jun 25, 2006
234
0
0
I knew an sp back east years ago that actually lost alot of clients because she was with someone who was her client and and then was her boyfriend and she had a baby with him and.....not sure what happened.

I think sp's could and do date clients, but I believe that's all they should do.

Let's get real, the only reason an sp dates a client is because the guy makes her sopping wet at the mere mention of his name, probably a combination of physical and personality characteristics. But mostly physical, which leads to huh? Why would the guy need to date an escort? He doesn't, both client and sp choose to because it feels really good and it's safe in a weird way....they both know it's not going to last.
 
K

Krustee

Banned
Nov 9, 2007
1,554
11
0
S

SidGuy

Stranger with benefits
Jul 25, 2008
103
1
18
deslicher said:
Let's get real, the only reason an sp dates a client is because the guy makes her sopping wet at the mere mention of his name, probably a combination of physical and personality characteristics. But mostly physical, which leads to huh? Why would the guy need to date an escort? He doesn't, both client and sp choose to because it feels really good and it's safe in a weird way....they both know it's not going to last.
Click to expand...
I don't agree with this. I think an SP and client dating isn't any different than 2 average people dating...generally, you start dating presumably because you are interested in each other, both the physical and personality aspect. If it comes down to sex, lets face it, SP's get sex whenever they want. Clients can get sex whenever they want. If two people decide to start dating, I think it's more about personality characteristics than simply sex.

Perhaps paying cash for sex can be part of a healthy relationship.
Click to expand...
I don't agree with this either.

As for the "wondering if he's with me just for sex"...I'm guessing 90% of women wonder that at one time or another. Lets face it..guys are horny..we like sex..and i'm guessing most of us at one time or another have stayed in a relationship longer than we should of because we were getting laid. I don't think it's a SP problem only.

IMO if an SP and client want to start dating then more power to them. I'd assume most people are likely to learn a little about the other outside of a SP/client relationship before deciding to start dating and if the SP is really worried he's only in it for the sex...try not sleeping with him for the first few dates, see if he starts complaining.

I guess I don't see a huge difference between SP/Clients and Boy/Girl...in my eyes we're all human and our professions/habits aren't the driving force behind intimate relationships.

Because this thread has gone a little bit off topic I'll give my opinion to the OP's question even though i'm not an SP...

How do you determine between client & new boyfriend?
Click to expand...
I would assume it would be no different than a regular girl...which is what an SP is.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Previous Thread Next Thread
Vancouver Escorts
Top Bottom