In all fairness let me say that I've made 3 cancellations in my lifetime. One was because of actual medical issues that sent me to the hospital. The other two were because responsbilities that popped up that werer unavoidable. I've apolgized in all the above cases and eventually met up, and thank them for their patience and understanding.
On the cancelled on front I've got a bunch. Here are a couple of the stand outs.
1. One top tier provider who tours and I have visited, consistently cancels on me. We're talking about a 40% success ratio. Excuses that were given were changes in personal circumstance, anemia, just feeling sick, and the just no explaination at all. I've made both sudden and planned well ahead rendez-vous with her, and it doesn't matter how much lead time you give her, I never know if get to see her until I'm actually at the door and she opens up. The most recent rendez vous was probably our last attempt. I booked 2 weeks before hand. Confirmed 1 week before, 2 days before... and then 12 hours before I was supposed to get on a flight, she texts me that there has been a change in personal situation and can no longer see me. At this point in time I couldn't cancel my flight, or the hotel I booked because there was too little time to do so. So I swallowed travel, and hotel costs, not to mention the plans I had to push aside to see her. She's beautiful and incredible at sex but that last time cost me too much, and left me feeling toyed with. I can't ever trust her again.
2. This lady I know who makes me wait. I'm not talking 10 minutes. The last time was 4 hours. I got there at 1am and we finally started at 5am. She spent 4 hours getting primed and pretty for me. This was only a slight improvement of the *usual* 2 hours I've wait in my car in the past. I've told her before to give me an honest time but she never does. I don't care how late, I just don't want to be waiting like a stalker outside for her wondering if my phone will run out of batteries (which it has before) when she finally gives me the all clear to come in. The best part is that during the odd times when I'm rushing over to see her and she's waiting for me, she freaks out if I'm 10 minutes late. A girl who's used to having everything she's wanted and hasn't really built any sense of empathy or patience. I think her behaviour is catching up with her though, if even clients like me who were willing to wait hours are getting fed up, I can't imagine what it's like for others.
3. Girl I've known for a while and when I see her I book the entire night off. I mean from when we confirm a time to 4 am in the morning. I basically plan a Netflix binge around seeing her. She can appear anytime from season 1 epsiode 1 to season 3 episode 4. Complete crap shoot. I honestly don't know why they can't give me an honest time. You've seen me before, you know I want to see you, I haven't flaked out on you in the past, and I've willing to wait for you. Why not give me an actual realistic time? Best response time as of date 1 hour late.
4. One provider didn't make it very far in terms of scheduling, it just seemed weird. On her ad it said "contact by email only", and after I contacted her by email she said she would only see me if she could call me. Request was made without answering any questions that I had asked. It seemed just silly to make potential clients do these hoops. I guess attrition can be a valid form of screening.
5. One well reviewed provider actually texts me whenever business is slow, and we have enough of a good time together that I usually respond and try to set something up. As of this writing I've been stood up 3 times when I get to the building. No text response. Straight to voice male. No follow up anything. Worse, I think she double or triple books because I see a few guys hanging around the intercom, looking all nervous like, and at regular intervals tries a intercom number only to have it ring out. It sort of like participating in an adult musical chairs.
SP's complain about flakey clients. It happens the other way around too. I'm not sure about the comparable frequency I can tell you it happens across all tiers of providers, and it drives me crazy every single time.
