Booking or not booking a Sp based on their posting history?

CharleeBeckett

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No, you are actually completely wrong. They are sleeping with you based on the money they are paid, not whether I am a member of this board so no coercion but nice try. It is none of their business what I do outside of our arrangement. Am I lying, yes? Am I being dishonest, no because it is none of their business. I am no more under an obligation to share I am a member of this forum than I am to share the fact that I am a member of Drummers World, Guitar Tech, or the fact I like lasagna.
I notice people on this forum have very different views about what a relationship may or may not be with a service provider.
Exactly why should a member let a service provider know they are a member here? Or have a Twitter account, are married, have three kids, etc...
Nope, not on the same page at all on this one. However, I do respect the opinion of others.
This is different because it relates to how you treat and talk about other providers and what kind of client you really are. It's not personal, unrelated info like the other stuff you're talking about (member of drummers world, liking lasagne, being married). Nice try though.

Also I turn down a lot of people who would pay me who are assholes. I only see clients I'm excited to see. That's a privilege and I acknowledge that, but I'm not just going to sleep with any asshole who pays me.

Edit: came back to mention how hilarious it is to say that you can lie while not being dishonest. They’re literally...the same thing...????
 

Mr Quim

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The beautiful Fraser Valley !

Posting history is definitely a factor in the decision making process, on which Women to see .
I've pursued Ladies, purely based on their Postings, and I've steered clear of others for the same reason . It's all about trying to find a perceived "Good Fit" .

In this Arena the bottomline is Sex . But, if You can discover something in common, it can only enhance the overall Experience IMHO !
These days, between a Woman's Advertisements, Website, Twitter, and now OnlyFans .
You should be able to make a decent educated Decision, on which Women to arrange an Appointment with .

It's still a human interaction, so YMMV, is the big Wild Card !

Just my 2Cents...

Mr Q.
 

Miss Hunter

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Typically the depth of your pre-post thinking IS something that would inspire me to spend quality time with you.

But some of that post above seems almost oxymoronic.


Once Civvy women get over the complete horror of men seeing escorts, they then point out that the men are depriving themselves of "a sexual experience that involves a genuine connection".


You, at least representing in some way the faction of commercial sex sellers who are effectively replacing the sexual experience that involves a genuine connection with time/company bought and sold are now presenting yourself as one who would otherwise represent some sort of genuine connection.

I'm lost as to the thinking behind that.
You misunderstood my post. Perhaps I didn't explain myself clearly.

All I was really trying to say is if one is pretending to be someone or something they are not, they are responsible for making it so difficult for themselves to truly connect with another human being.

And I was in no way trying to promote myself as someone who provides a "genuine connection" on the meter. A connection isn't something that can easily be commodified. It's either there or it isn't.
 

Miss Hunter

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On the topic of pooners hiding their identity because they think (or already know) a provider wouldn't book them if they knew who they were...WHY? Ok, I understand many guys just want the needs of their dicks catered to by whichever lady looks good to them, or in some cases they have no standards and would stick their dicks into any warm wet hole they can find but... why make an effort to disguise yourself to sneak through screening to get let through a door that you already know you wouldn't be welcome..

There is an abundance of SPs to choose from in Metro Vancouver, you spoiled brats.
 

zippy45

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just a note that if you don't think someone would book with you because of your posting history and you withhold that on purpose, that's coercion and it's super gross.

anyone who doesn't want to book me because of this post isn't someone I want to book with anyways hahaha
I have never had anyone ask me if I am on PERB so I wouldn't say I am withholding it, it has just never come up. I also don't think you are using coercion in the correct way.
 

CharleeBeckett

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I have never had anyone ask me if I am on PERB so I wouldn't say I am withholding it, it has just never come up. I also don't think you are using coercion in the correct way.
yeah, if no one's ever asked, you're not doing anything wrong.

"Sexual coercion is unwanted sexual activity that happens when you are pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a nonphysical way." So, if you suspected that your perb posts would change someone's desire to engage in sexual activity with you, and they asked for your perb handle and you lied and said you didn't have one (like mister johnnydepth up there) you're TRICKING someone into sleeping with you. If they knew the whole truth, they wouldn't do it. That's coercion.
 

Big_Guy_Rye

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yeah, if no one's ever asked, you're not doing anything wrong.

"Sexual coercion is unwanted sexual activity that happens when you are pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a nonphysical way." So, if you suspected that your perb posts would change someone's desire to engage in sexual activity with you, and they asked for your perb handle and you lied and said you didn't have one (like mister johnnydepth up there) you're TRICKING someone into sleeping with you. If they knew the whole truth, they wouldn't do it. That's coercion.
So by this logic, every time I've paid for services from a provider, I'm actually being coerced and possibly raped because I was TRICKED into believing they actually desired me?
 

hedgeman

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There is an abundance of SPs to choose from in Metro Vancouver, you spoiled brats.
Nice....case in point? Lol Anyways For the record, I have never been asked, nor will I ever offer up the fact I am a poster on here. I know who I will never book with, certainly not anyone that regularly posts or advertises on here. I have my 1 or 2 regulars and am more than happy with them for the time being.
 

Miss Hunter

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Nice....case in point? Lol Anyways For the record, I have never been asked, nor will I ever offer up the fact I am a poster on here. I know who I will never book with, certainly not anyone that regularly posts or advertises on here. I have my 1 or 2 regulars and am more than happy with them for the time being.
Apparently yet another post of mine on this thread has been misunderstood and twisted :doh:

Where did I say clients have to give their PERB handle when booking? I was referring to instances when a guy already knows beyond a reasonable doubt that the lady doesn't want to see him yet he tries to slide through screening to get through her door anyways. Which is wrong. And creepy.

By referring to these types as "spoiled brats" I was being kind..
 

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While everyone has reason's why they would not reveal if they are a member here or not. I get that, and some believe it's no ones business what they do but....at the end of the day nothing beats being honest with the one you decide visiting. I know some here may not agree with my comment but ---- for me and only me --- I don't have an issue being honest. If she asks me then I'll be honest with her And in past, when I was much more active, I have revealed to her that I was a member. I find everyone is a different person when it becomes face to face.

Again....honesty, respect & friendly is the best imho and you would it back in return :) That is how I view it anyway and like they say -- " We're all in this together " ;)
 

Man in Submission

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If they have a Twitter account look through that instead. On Twitter it's just self-censorship and you can get some very eye opening postings. Helps with the decision making in terms of chemistry and personality very quickly.
The ladies here that post on Twitter are awesome. Can't think of a single one that has put me off in the slightest. It's a great way to sort of get to know a lady before meeting for a visit. Whether they are discussing workout regimens, nutritional stuff, friendships with other companions, their pets, etc., it's always really enjoyable and interesting. Seems like they can let their hair down a bit more on Twitter so to speak, and the 'human' side really shines through. I would love to be granted the opportunity to connect with a few of them in person. Being a 4 or 5 hour drive away makes it a bit trickier, but I am determined to make it happen this summer. It's been too long!