They can be subtle and inventive or approached with lusty abandon. Each one is a special treat. But what are the things that you have experienced or in the case of the ladies what works? No trade secrets need to be divulged. What really "Ices the cake" for you? LOL
The following is purely my opinion and everyone is welcome to chirp in as I am sure there are many things that I have missed.
In no particular order here is a few things that I have experienced over the years that I feel are just basic attention to detail or have served to make things memorable for me.
NO TEETH! I am sure there are those that like this, I am not one. Thank god it is a rare event. And indirectly the reason for this post. Rule number one...retract the fangs please!
Eye contact, better yet, Constant eye contact. This is so erotic. It changes the event from doing a job, to playing with your mind
Position; bed, chair or standing. Love them all. One girl long ago said to me standing is best if maintaining an erection is an issue, she said gravity helps. If you are pooning at home you may have the luxury of different rooms to play in, if she is game.
69...I find that this is nice if you need some distraction. Top, bottom or side, all are nice.
cbj vs bbbj. I am sure this will be controversial, but is there anyone out there who really prefers a cbj, all other arguments (and teeth) aside? For me a mediocre bbj trumps a great cbj everytime. This is not just a guy thing one Toronto girl once said to me that she hated sucking the rubber Popsicle. But each to their own.
Undertongue. This is the most under utilized technique that really ramps up the the sensation profile by several notches. I wish every girl would employ this simple and effective way of separating an average run of the mill bj from one that can border on the spectacular,
Make music with the harmonica. The old sideways vertical up and down technique with or in stereo in a duo, really adds to the experience and is really easy with a side approach.
The frenulum flick. Right on the underside of the head can feel electric in the right situation.
Deep Throat. For me the definition of a true deep throat is when her nose is pressed into the belly and the dick is gone. The feeling of sliding around the corner is exquisite! Anyone who can go from tip to belly repeatedly (Lucy Lake for me) is delivering a very special and rather uncommon experience. Many say they can, but in reality it is a rather rare experience. Cheers to those women who can do it, but every effort none the less appreciated.
Sounds...Slurpy, gaggy, poppy, humming.... This is a real turn on for many men. A loud pop, followed by the mischievous grin is always welcome.
The tongue tap. This is just a fun thing. It is just part of a nice playful bj. It shows that she is a master of her chosen instrument.
The hot water/coffee trick. This one I experienced a few times usually as part of a SOPAM experience. It is a nice surprise when find that she has secreted a cup of warm water in the shower and before you know it your dick is awash in liquid heaven. Doing alternate hot and cold can be done, anything to add a little surprise to the event.
BLS a fav with many guys. One should always keep the marble bag smooth if you would like this to happen. Let's make it as nice as possible guys.
The head fuck and as a variation, the head "hangy" over the edge of the bed thing. This is a permission thing and usually lies within PSE territory. If you are doing it, it must be done very carefully with full involvement of your partner and never with outright abandon. Watch your partner's body language, it will tell you what you need to know, pay attention! It is a rare treat, and when she grabs your ass and pulls you in, hallelujah brother, follow her lead.
The Crawl. I had one girl set me up in front of the full length closet mirror and then in stockings and garters, come crawling around the bed in all her dark chocolate glory from across the room on all fours with a huge smile on her face. Let us say we men tend to be visual creatures and this was so erotic. It shows attention to detail and mastery of one's craft. You just know a special session is about to unfold literally before your eyes...LOL
The "she means business hair tie back"...Ha ha ha, This is something many girls do and a long time regular unconsciously made a bit of a show about it. You just knew things are going to get real good. There is a popular meme about this and that is exactly what she looked like.
CIM/CIMWS....No doubt about it this is the "piece de resistance" for many of us. So many variations, but I remember the first time it happened to me on this side of the proverbial fence. I was literally brainless after the fact. It was not expected at all and my god my head caved in. This is one of those things that is a common on the civilian side, but can be rare on this side of the great divide. Hugely appreciated when it happens, not necessary for a great experience, but memorable always.
What does it for you?
The following is purely my opinion and everyone is welcome to chirp in as I am sure there are many things that I have missed.
In no particular order here is a few things that I have experienced over the years that I feel are just basic attention to detail or have served to make things memorable for me.
NO TEETH! I am sure there are those that like this, I am not one. Thank god it is a rare event. And indirectly the reason for this post. Rule number one...retract the fangs please!
Eye contact, better yet, Constant eye contact. This is so erotic. It changes the event from doing a job, to playing with your mind
Position; bed, chair or standing. Love them all. One girl long ago said to me standing is best if maintaining an erection is an issue, she said gravity helps. If you are pooning at home you may have the luxury of different rooms to play in, if she is game.
69...I find that this is nice if you need some distraction. Top, bottom or side, all are nice.
cbj vs bbbj. I am sure this will be controversial, but is there anyone out there who really prefers a cbj, all other arguments (and teeth) aside? For me a mediocre bbj trumps a great cbj everytime. This is not just a guy thing one Toronto girl once said to me that she hated sucking the rubber Popsicle. But each to their own.
Undertongue. This is the most under utilized technique that really ramps up the the sensation profile by several notches. I wish every girl would employ this simple and effective way of separating an average run of the mill bj from one that can border on the spectacular,
Make music with the harmonica. The old sideways vertical up and down technique with or in stereo in a duo, really adds to the experience and is really easy with a side approach.
The frenulum flick. Right on the underside of the head can feel electric in the right situation.
Deep Throat. For me the definition of a true deep throat is when her nose is pressed into the belly and the dick is gone. The feeling of sliding around the corner is exquisite! Anyone who can go from tip to belly repeatedly (Lucy Lake for me) is delivering a very special and rather uncommon experience. Many say they can, but in reality it is a rather rare experience. Cheers to those women who can do it, but every effort none the less appreciated.
Sounds...Slurpy, gaggy, poppy, humming.... This is a real turn on for many men. A loud pop, followed by the mischievous grin is always welcome.
The tongue tap. This is just a fun thing. It is just part of a nice playful bj. It shows that she is a master of her chosen instrument.
The hot water/coffee trick. This one I experienced a few times usually as part of a SOPAM experience. It is a nice surprise when find that she has secreted a cup of warm water in the shower and before you know it your dick is awash in liquid heaven. Doing alternate hot and cold can be done, anything to add a little surprise to the event.
BLS a fav with many guys. One should always keep the marble bag smooth if you would like this to happen. Let's make it as nice as possible guys.
The head fuck and as a variation, the head "hangy" over the edge of the bed thing. This is a permission thing and usually lies within PSE territory. If you are doing it, it must be done very carefully with full involvement of your partner and never with outright abandon. Watch your partner's body language, it will tell you what you need to know, pay attention! It is a rare treat, and when she grabs your ass and pulls you in, hallelujah brother, follow her lead.
The Crawl. I had one girl set me up in front of the full length closet mirror and then in stockings and garters, come crawling around the bed in all her dark chocolate glory from across the room on all fours with a huge smile on her face. Let us say we men tend to be visual creatures and this was so erotic. It shows attention to detail and mastery of one's craft. You just know a special session is about to unfold literally before your eyes...LOL
The "she means business hair tie back"...Ha ha ha, This is something many girls do and a long time regular unconsciously made a bit of a show about it. You just knew things are going to get real good. There is a popular meme about this and that is exactly what she looked like.
CIM/CIMWS....No doubt about it this is the "piece de resistance" for many of us. So many variations, but I remember the first time it happened to me on this side of the proverbial fence. I was literally brainless after the fact. It was not expected at all and my god my head caved in. This is one of those things that is a common on the civilian side, but can be rare on this side of the great divide. Hugely appreciated when it happens, not necessary for a great experience, but memorable always.
What does it for you?
