why do SP's need your number to be unblocked? I always block my number when calling because, lets face it, I'm married, and need to keep this on the down low.. as I'm sure alot of guys do. Perfect example of why I block my number: I called someone from an ad on CL last week, she wasn't available and I didn't leave a message. Now, in the last week, I've gotten 9 text messages from her asking if I want to come see her. If I wanted her to call/text me back a million times, you would think I would have left her a message, right?
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Blocked Calls = 99% of the time WOT callers
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I totally agree with you she should not have called you back a million times.. most ladies understand the discretion reasons for gents but at the same time us ladies have MANY MANY blocked calls on a daily basis and 99% of the time they are a WOT and or are no shows. This might be a reason for ladies to be not so receptive to answering and booking calls from a blocked number. Just something to think about
Miss Chasity
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I totally agree with you she should not have called you back a million times.. most ladies understand the discretion reasons for gents but at the same time us ladies have MANY MANY blocked calls on a daily basis and 99% of the time they are a WOT and or are no shows. This might be a reason for ladies to be not so receptive to answering and booking calls from a blocked number. Just something to think about
Miss Chasity
I will NOT book anyone from a blocked number. You gentleman are getting our home addresses. It's a give and take. Most of us are busy enough with gentleman that understand that discretion is a two way street to not bother with the ones that wont give a phone number.
Personally I ask for way more than a phone number in order to get my home address.
Now I live in Edmonton so there are 40+ studios your all welcome to go to and they wont ask for anything but payment.
I'm not sure where you live but the studios are a good option if you want drive on a one way discrete road, but YOU wont get to see me.
Personally I ask for way more than a phone number in order to get my home address.
Now I live in Edmonton so there are 40+ studios your all welcome to go to and they wont ask for anything but payment.
I'm not sure where you live but the studios are a good option if you want drive on a one way discrete road, but YOU wont get to see me.
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SIMPLE Solution my friend.
Get thee to a massage parlour and remember to clear your browser history
I don't even answer unblocked...EVER.
I value my TIME (people block numbers cuz they are time-wasters) and my LIFE (I would block my number too, if I had ill feelings t/w sex workers, that I hoped to act upon).
You guys have the ability to research whom you see. It's a tool...use it.
But, don't expect us to leave you anonymous w/o a trace. And don't bitch about such protocol that aids in us maintaining safety in a DANGEROUS biz.
Go to an mp, as was suggested, or make sure your CL have some form of status/reviews.
Courtesy, please.
I value my TIME (people block numbers cuz they are time-wasters) and my LIFE (I would block my number too, if I had ill feelings t/w sex workers, that I hoped to act upon).
You guys have the ability to research whom you see. It's a tool...use it.
But, don't expect us to leave you anonymous w/o a trace. And don't bitch about such protocol that aids in us maintaining safety in a DANGEROUS biz.
Go to an mp, as was suggested, or make sure your CL have some form of status/reviews.
Courtesy, please.
I guess I never thought of "time wasters" or ppl wanting to hurt an SP, because, honestly it has NEVER entered my mind.. So I guess I can understand why you want a number unblocked, but I still feel it was horribly bad mannered for her to keep texting me when I didnt leave a message.
My 2 Cents
I used to take chances, and answer blocked calls, in 2007.. and stopped in 2008. Too many no-shows, and WOTS.
Gentlemen, I DO appreciate, and understand your need for discretion - but please do not begrudge a girl her safety.
Yes - know that if you are abusive, your number will be marked as a bad date.
Yes - If you no - show, and do not call to cancel, you will be marked as no-show.. and I will not answer your call again, and book you. I do have a tendancy to recognize voices too I'm bad with names, however.
I never answer blocked calls, and cross reference numbers with blacklists. Pay as you go phones are very cheap.. and discreet. You can hide them, and keep them off when not pooning.
Hobbiests - Choosing a reputable provider.. and avoiding C.L. will help cut down on the risk of unprofessional providers who pester you for a date.
I used to take chances, and answer blocked calls, in 2007.. and stopped in 2008. Too many no-shows, and WOTS.
Gentlemen, I DO appreciate, and understand your need for discretion - but please do not begrudge a girl her safety.
Yes - know that if you are abusive, your number will be marked as a bad date.
Yes - If you no - show, and do not call to cancel, you will be marked as no-show.. and I will not answer your call again, and book you. I do have a tendancy to recognize voices too
I'm bad with names, however.I never answer blocked calls, and cross reference numbers with blacklists. Pay as you go phones are very cheap.. and discreet. You can hide them, and keep them off when not pooning.
Hobbiests - Choosing a reputable provider.. and avoiding C.L. will help cut down on the risk of unprofessional providers who pester you for a date.
so I was thinking about this some more today.. If I was someone who wanted to "hurt" an SP, I'm pretty sure I'd be getting a new one of those cheap throw away phones everytime I wanted to do something.. I guess what I'm getting at is, answering a call from any cell phone could be just as dangerous as answering a blocked call. Also, if I was an idiot and ended up on some kind of "no show time waster" list (providing I knew I was on the list) I would just go get a new phone, right?
I should add here that I have never gotten one of those pre paid cheap phones, so I dont know exactly how it works.. I assume it's like in the movies where you give them $100 cash and they give you a phone with xx minutes on it.. or something like that.. I dont imagine you need photo ID or something to get a phone, but I could be wrong.
I should add here that I have never gotten one of those pre paid cheap phones, so I dont know exactly how it works.. I assume it's like in the movies where you give them $100 cash and they give you a phone with xx minutes on it.. or something like that.. I dont imagine you need photo ID or something to get a phone, but I could be wrong.
Well Said
GaryPart
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The irony lies with you who thinks you could possibly know even one iota what I'm speaking of.
Jessica, You are a very bright spark amongst the 'working' girls.
It isladies like you that safe many marriages!!!!
GaryPart
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The irony lies with you who thinks you could possibly know even one iota what I'm speaking of.
Jessica, You are a very bright spark amongst the 'working' girls.
It isladies like you that safe many marriages!!!!
I get what you're saying AbbyGuy.. you have some valid points. It is true... risk cannot be fully eliminated for SPs here... it IS a risky business. What we are talking though, is harm reduction.
Speaking from experience, you would be surprised how many blacklisted clients (abusers, no shows, etc) DO NOT change their phone number!!
Throw away phones are very anonomous.. however most of us prefer never to answer blocked calls. The way I see it is this: an SP is providing you with her INCALL ADDRESS... which can be a very vulnerable position. The least you can do, is oblige by calling from an unblocked number.
Many of us are starting to go the route of requesting references, in addition to standard protocol of not answering blocked calls.
As others have stated... we may lose out of a small percentage of awesome clients that refuse to call unblocked, but there are many more clients that we can feel more comfortable booking (who have called from unblocked numbers, and were able to provide a reference).
Abby Guy, you may be a complete gentleman.. however you do restrict yourself by being a blocked caller. Most of the very reputable, and very beautiful providers will not take your call
I have had a bad experience and will not call a lady who refuses to answer blocked calls. If she aswers my call and I get a good feeling, I tell her I will call right back and book, but this time NOT blocking my number. I feel if she politely gives me the time for the information I need to decide, then she will give me her time when she IS getting paid for her time. Then if I decide to see her and call back, I can satisfy her need for safety.
So, needless to say, I will not take that chance again. I do not consider myself a victim (so the assholes in question need not bother posting same) but instead, it was my own stupidity for trusting he (problem is that I am a lousy liar). I know that makes it difficult for the trustworthy ladies but safety and security from nutbars is not a gender issue.
The bottom line is that accepting blocked calls to give information is NOT a secirity risk. I realize there are a lot of guys that like calling and jerking off to a ladies voice (one of the asshole above in fact lol) but getting calls from people who end up not 'buying' is just a part of marketing. Business people who look at all potential customers as a "WOT" should not be in a people business.
To add to what Nina said...
My phone is pay as you go. I would much rather spend my money on great supplies for my incall location. Toys, lingerie, beverages.. etc. than on excessive phone cards because I am getting more WOT phone calls than actual bookings, or potentials.
From my years of experience, many many blocked callers are unfortunately WOTS - and i'm not talking about potential bookers that were put off by price or menu. That would be a normal part of business.
I am referring to those jack off on the phone, those who no show and book "fake dates", those who call because its fun to call random SPs and chat to them. THOSE sorts...
There is another reason not mentioned here, why I do not answer blocked calls.
I also have a worry, that someone one day will recognize me from my personal life, and call from a blocked number to hear my voice - to see if it really is me.
It could also be a gentlemans SO.
I'm sorry you had a negative experience, BSD... however, I am a professional - and a strict policy of not answering blocked calls, is not an unprofessional practise.
This industry IS a business... however, due to it's risky nature.. not all rules of traditional "people" business can apply.
Walk a mile in my high heels!....
My phone is pay as you go. I would much rather spend my money on great supplies for my incall location. Toys, lingerie, beverages.. etc. than on excessive phone cards because I am getting more WOT phone calls than actual bookings, or potentials.
From my years of experience, many many blocked callers are unfortunately WOTS - and i'm not talking about potential bookers that were put off by price or menu. That would be a normal part of business.
I am referring to those jack off on the phone, those who no show and book "fake dates", those who call because its fun to call random SPs and chat to them. THOSE sorts...
There is another reason not mentioned here, why I do not answer blocked calls.
I also have a worry, that someone one day will recognize me from my personal life, and call from a blocked number to hear my voice - to see if it really is me.
It could also be a gentlemans SO.
I'm sorry you had a negative experience, BSD... however, I am a professional - and a strict policy of not answering blocked calls, is not an unprofessional practise.
This industry IS a business... however, due to it's risky nature.. not all rules of traditional "people" business can apply.
Walk a mile in my high heels!....
BS, this crap is old. Would you like me to forward those, "fake PM's" to Fred Zed to verify their authenticty? She was far from vulnerable. The only time I had ever phoned her was to book her. I do not believe for a minute that she would do anything to give up personal info on anybody. That would not be professional of her as confidentiality is an important aspect of what she does. To me it sounds like you are going to attempt to undermine her business and that is not acceptable. As for calling her a head case, I would strongly disagree. I suggest a formal apology is in order for the lady you slander is far from a headcase as they come.
You seem to be whining like a victim and obviously I do know her much better than you will ever know and she is far from what you call a nutbar. She has a will and to be frank, if I had a person to put my life in their hands, she is the one I would trust the most.
I do not want anyone making assumptions as to who this may be as the two (assumption and reality) may not even be related and the lady returning to the business could be in any city/province. Contrary to my previous post, I will not PM names. I was simply trying to post to the thread about blocking numbers and why it is not a risk to block a number just to get info. The timing of my post co-inciding with "other" events was strictly an accident.
The issue people are assuming I refer to was a complicated issue with guys here taking possibly authentic PMs and altering them using the quote tags and printing them and taking them to an SP to scare her. A few others got involved asking me wtf was that all about, therefore, a few possible sources of leaks. For THAT issue, we have talked about it and both apologized to each other for errors we both made. If anyone wants Fred Z to authenticate PMs, go for it as I have nothing to hide and have a few of my own.
So, go forth and see all the ladies in Edmonton; existing or returning; young or mature; and resident or visiting. Edmonton has great ladies. I myself, have yet to see Kendra's new place. Being the technogical idiot I can be, the shower scares me.
On a side note, If anyone has directions and picture they can post, it may save a life lol. Or better yet, Kendra can go in and "help" !
You do understand that the guy calling you can put any name he wants on a pay as you go phone right?
