Biggest misconceptions about SPs?

godfather_77

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I was inspired to ask this question by a conversation I had with Alix Turner. SPs what do you find to be the most annoying, interesting, funny, etc misconception about your work and more importantly you? For others, are there any preconceived notions you had prior to becoming involved in this wacky hobby?
 

InTheBum

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They are all walking diseases!

Most guys dream of banging tons of women, but never do... and many I would argue, dream of banging the hottest porn stars in the world. Yet, if you ask they why they never lived out this fantasy, it's usually:

1. Money
2. Many SP's have a disease


My uncle died of cancer several years ago at 47, and when no one else was around, I asked him if he had any regrets... He had one:

"I wish I had slept with a lot more women!"
 

mistressfreyja

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Uneducated and not so bright.

I think this board clearly proves otherwise, according to the presence of many goddesses proving otherwise.
 

Claptix

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Frankly though, this board represents a very small sub-section of the "SP" population. There is a wide range of adult companionship and there are many stereotypes. However, the professional companions that post regularly on PERB (and other review boards) represent the most presentable side of the occupation.

JC
 

uncleg

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Frankly though, this board represents a very small sub-section of the "SP" population. There is a wide range of adult companionship and there are many stereotypes. However, the professional companions that post regularly on PERB (and other review boards) represent the most presentable side of the occupation.JC
If the misconception is that the companions that post on PERB and other boards represent the most presentable side of the occupation, then what side do they represent ?:confused::D
 

HeMadeMeDoIt

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If the misconception is that the companions that post on PERB and other boards represent the most presentable side of the occupation, then what side do they represent ?:confused::D
HUH?? English please!
 

uncleg

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HUH?? English please!
OP = Biggest Misconceptions about SP's.

Claptix = Well, read his post, which if it is a proper response to the OP, is his misconception of SP's, namely they are the most presentable.

Hence the question. Simple really, in fact even Hubba and his posse should be able to understand it.:D
 

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From the other side of the coin - Inaccurate misconceptions about the suitors

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Much to my surprise (and happiness) that wasn`t the demographic at all. The reality of the situation is that the vast majority of gentlemen who enjoy the companionship of a paid companion are the most desirable men around. They are fascinating, accomplished, diverse, interesting, funny, respectful, caring, aultristic and absolutely phenominal company. It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing woman beating down their door.....it`s that they don`t have the time and energy to put into making a `traditional` relationship work. They possess enough character and integrity to acknowledge this, and choose not to enter into a relationship that they can`t put 100% into...and opt not to string along girlfriends by telling them what they want to hear, even if they aren`t currently in a position to provide that.


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LC, thanks for that

When I first began this venture, I was very young, and completely inexperienced in any adult arena. I had stereotypes about the gentlemen that would utilize this service. In my mind, I had thought it would be only `undesirable` men who would call a companion. I had visions of a client base as being made up of severely physically challenged, extremely unattractive, or those completely lacking in social skills.

Much to my surprise (and happiness) that wasn`t the demographic at all. The reality of the situation is that the vast majority of gentlemen who enjoy the companionship of a paid companion are the most desirable men around. They are fascinating, accomplished, diverse, interesting, funny, respectful, caring, aultristic and absolutely phenominal company. It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing woman beating down their door.....it`s that they don`t have the time and energy to put into making a `traditional` relationship work. They possess enough character and integrity to acknowledge this, and choose not to enter into a relationship that they can`t put 100% into...and opt not to string along girlfriends by telling them what they want to hear, even if they aren`t currently in a position to provide that.


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When I first began this venture, I was very young, and completely inexperienced in any adult arena. I had stereotypes about the gentlemen that would utilize this service. In my mind, I had thought it would be only `undesirable` men who would call a companion. I had visions of a client base as being made up of severely physically challenged, extremely unattractive, or those completely lacking in social skills.

Much to my surprise (and happiness) that wasn`t the demographic at all. The reality of the situation is that the vast majority of gentlemen who enjoy the companionship of a paid companion are the most desirable men around. They are fascinating, accomplished, diverse, interesting, funny, respectful, caring, aultristic and absolutely phenominal company. It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing woman beating down their door.....it`s that they don`t have the time and energy to put into making a `traditional` relationship work. They possess enough character and integrity to acknowledge this, and choose not to enter into a relationship that they can`t put 100% into...and opt not to string along girlfriends by telling them what they want to hear, even if they aren`t currently in a position to provide that.


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Great post!!! Hit it out of the park, luv :)
 

uncleg

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HUH?? English please!
PG - Notice it's HeMadeMeDoIt is the one have the english problem, not me.

Uncleg,

The logical thread to put Clapix's comment in context is shown below.

The assertion was made by mistressfreyja that it is a common misconception that SPs are uneducated and not so bright. Her claimed proof that this is a misconception was the quality of education & intelligence demonstrated by the SPs posting on this board. Claptix's comment questions the validity of her unspoken assumption that the SPs posting on this board represents a statistically meaningful cross-section of the general population of SPs in society. He offers a counter assertion that the SP's posting to this and other boards are more likely to be that part od the general SP population that is well educated and intelligent and thus cannot be used as proof that it is a misconception that SPs (in general) are uneducated and not so bright.

Is that close enough to english for you? :D
Clapix didn't quote or refer to mistressfreya in his post, the logic of in what context to put his post, is in this case your own, not mine or anybody else's.

Who do you think you are ? Krustee ?:eek::D
 
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booblover

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That the women are coming when you do your thing. If Hollywood hired all the SP's as actresses movies would be fabulous!!
Another is that they do this work for some reason other than the money and gifts.
 

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That the women are coming when you do your thing. If Hollywood hired all the SP's as actresses movies would be fabulous!!
Another is that they do this work for some reason other than the money and gifts.
now there's an honest and truthful answer (upcoming loud protests to the contrary not withstanding) bearing in mind that the board does not represent the greater SP demographic.

Some nicely flattering exaggerations about the guys too, also the minority demographic. Of course, most guys think they belong to it. Well, everyone is entitled to their illusions, and what would the world be without them? :)
 

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Much to my surprise (and happiness) that wasn`t the demographic at all. The reality of the situation is that the vast majority of gentlemen who enjoy the companionship of a paid companion are the most desirable men around. They are fascinating, accomplished, diverse, interesting, funny, respectful, caring, aultristic and absolutely phenominal company. It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing woman beating down their door.....it`s that they don`t have the time and energy to put into making a `traditional` relationship work. They possess enough character and integrity to acknowledge this, and choose not to enter into a relationship that they can`t put 100% into...and opt not to string along girlfriends by telling them what they want to hear, even if they aren`t currently in a position to provide that.!
Hey, I think you just descibed me.
 

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When I first began this venture, I was very young, and completely inexperienced in any adult arena. I had stereotypes about the gentlemen that would utilize this service. In my mind, I had thought it would be only `undesirable` men who would call a companion. I had visions of a client base as being made up of severely physically challenged, extremely unattractive, or those completely lacking in social skills.

Much to my surprise (and happiness) that wasn`t the demographic at all. The reality of the situation is that the vast majority of gentlemen who enjoy the companionship of a paid companion are the most desirable men around. They are fascinating, accomplished, diverse, interesting, funny, respectful, caring, altruistic and absolutely phenomenal company. It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing woman beating down their door.....it`s that they don`t have the time and energy to put into making a `traditional` relationship work. They possess enough character and integrity to acknowledge this, and choose not to enter into a relationship that they can`t put 100% into...and opt not to string along girlfriends by telling them what they want to hear, even if they aren`t currently in a position to provide that.
This is one of the most informative and lucid presentations that I've read in a long time. I would, however, have to disagree with one statement, i.e., "It isn`t that they don`t have beautiful, intelligent and amazing women beating down their door." If my own door was being beaten down (or even gently rapped on) I'm pretty sure I'd open it willingly .... lol!

My own biggest misconception about SP's used to be that they hate what they do but I realize now that many of them (perhaps not all) do derive some mental and physical enjoyment from being with and pleasuring their clients, or at least some of their clients. After all, SP's are regular people just like the hobbyists and we all have natural human feelings and needs.
 

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PG - Notice it's HeMadeMeDoIt is the one have the english problem, not me.
Oh Really? Read what you just typed and save me having to humiliate you for your grade 2 grammar and spelling.
 

uncleg

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Oh Really? Read what you just typed and save me having to humiliate you for your grade 2 grammar and spelling.
Just dumbing it down for you.:D
 
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Misconceptions ....

That the women are coming when you do your thing. If Hollywood hired all the SP's as actresses movies would be fabulous!!
Another is that they do this work for some reason other than the money and gifts.
Hey lighten up .... there are some real orgasms and there are lots of reasons other than money and gifts ... being able to create my own enviornment and atmosphere is my biggest
reason and I truly like making people happy ... and I do !!! ;)
 

Yaxchilan

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My biggest misconception was that the experience with an sp would be cold and perfunctory. That made me reluctant to try the service as I'm a bit too shy to just "jump right in". I think that it wasn't until I stumbled upon a couple of ads that advertised the gfe that I thought I should reconsider. The appealing aspect to me was that it wouldn't just be a "wham - bam", but that it would include time to get to know one another. I've had limited experience but so far the connection during these experiences has been fabulous as the sp as always been courteous and engaging.

Just goes to show that pre-conceived notions can often get in the way of a good thing.
 
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