I fall into 280lb, 6' 4" size. Only a couple of times over many years has a SP had an issue. That would be true for a smaller guy too as this is YMMV hobby, not every provider will work out. Attitude, both yours and hers, and hygiene are both far more important. I also know that putting my full weight on any girl would be too much, but that is the same for any guy over 200lb. So just make sure that no matter what position you are in that you take some weight yourself. Any of the reviews I have posted should give you an idea of an SP with a comparable size client. Many good ones to chose from in Victoria. Best of luck.