Best way to start this activity?

[jdm12345]

So I finally decided to take the jump after many years of lurking. After examining many post I decided to set up a two hour appointment with a well reviewed and wonderful young lady. I wanted to relax so I took her to dinner first just to get to know her a little and to calm my nerves.

Well after all that my big head got in the way of my little head and you know what happens when the big head thinks too much!!!

So the question I have for the ladies as well as the gentlemen on this board is how does one approach it so that this does not happen again. Your insights would be appreciated.

cheers

 

[CLIT COMMANDER]

Dude I have NO idea what happens when the big head overthinks the other head.

The little head is ALWAYS right. It's very accurate!

What are you concerned about?

Dr. CC

 

[Very Veronica]

Sounds like he psyched himself out.

When you're inexperienced, there's a fine line between calming nerves and losing your nerve. Overthinking often leads to falling apart, mind is a very powerful thing. Get the first shot out of the way immediately and gradually work yourself up to waiting longer/multiple shots either at home or with a personal trainer ;-)

Have sex before dinner or just stick to something light prior..or something yummy during. You wouldn't eat a big meal before a workout, so why do it before sex? Also, too much liquid courage can drown the little head.

In the words of Nike, Just Do It!

 

[visiting]

You guys have 2 heads?

 

[jdm12345]

Thanks Veronica
Actually did not have too much liquid (maybe that was the problem) However I do believe that I was over thinking it instead of just making it happen. I may give it one more shot (excuse the pun) and then give it up if big head insists on getting in the way. I always knew that the brain was the biggest sexual organ but I always expected it to help rather than hinder.

Cheers

 

[jdm12345]

Thank - you Holly I will definitely use your suggestions. By the way I think the Italians would say "Lei e molto bella"!