Nadia is a great gfe and her skin is smooth and she feels great. I wouldn't say she is submissive at all, she took the lead with me and I just enjoyed the ride. She's a fun girl and nice too.
Ondreeah would definitely scratch that itch - the operative term - as you say - being "respectful encounter" - make sure you treat her like a gentleman. If you do, she will please you to no end.