Best and worst aspects of this hobby/business?

[godfather_77]

I was curious to find out what both clients and SPs think are the best and worst parts of this hobby/business? Try to avoid the obvious such as "I get to fuck gorgeous babes" and "I make a lot of money" please
The best parts for me are the anticipation of meeting up with a complete stranger and seeing if there a chemistry, also the "kid in the (expensive) candy store" feeling. The worst part for me is the potentially addictive nature of the hobby, and having to second guess the SP's motives for complimenting/praising me. I like to think that I am a pretty good judge of people's genuinness, so it really bothers me that I sometimes have to be a cynical fuck (as in adjective/noun not adverb verb). Although I must say that I have for the most part had a "good feeling" about the SP's honesty. Maybe I am lucky, stupid, or just great

 

[Krustee]

Best: I get to meet new people. I like to meet new people.

I think we should meet!

I'm a new person!

 

[wet_suit_one]

Best - Hot women, hot sex and meeting new folks and talking to all the peeps on PERB and other boards...

Worst - Criminal elements, prejudice, harm to the women and women that are in it that shouldn't be.

 

[ThisEndUp]

best: reviews save me the time and dollar and help me to avoid problems

worst: not by knowing if review is real or not. has it written by the sp, either a friend or an agent, or somebody counting on points with the sp or somebody outside to hurt the sp

 

[porcelianprincess]

best: meeting awesome people that I connect with and the tid-bits of information I learn about the world.

Worst: When you have a client that you dont connect with and its get in get out. I feel used.(very very rare)

 

[tom t runner]

Best- a very strong connection with the sp
Worst- a very strong connection with the sp

 

[Keithks]

best: flirting with the sp as she sits on the edge of the bed in whatever sexy clothing she has on and you get undressed

worst: the moment the sp tells you to leave and knowing it's going to be weeks or even months before you get to do anything remotely sexual with a woman again

 

[sonoman]

Best: anticipation/'thrill of the hunt'; feeling comfortable seeing a regular

 

[westcoast555]

The downside...

... worrying about picking up an STD, spending too much money, feeling like you might have an addiction.


The upside...

The excitement of meeting a stranger that you will get to fuck.

Really good blowjobs.

The freedom, lack of entanglement and option to revisit purely at your discretion.

 

[neverwas]

At my age getting to meet and touch such lovely relatively young , bright and interesting women would be out of the question if it was not for this business. I really appreciate the opportunity that a couple hundred dollars brings.
The only downsides are fear of STIs, the ocassional mediocre session, and some of the nastiness shown on the boards.

 

[wolverine]

Best:
- Having sex with lots of gorgeous ladies without enduring society's humiliating mating rituals
- no strings attached

Worst:
- unable to see certain SPs due to scheduling or other pooners book them up in advance
- disappointing sessions that aren't worth the price

 

[tom t runner]

a guy who came all over me (without asking!) and then robbed me while I was in the shower (when I first starting working).

what a jerk! I hope he ended up getting what he deserved.

 

[newbie7890]

Up side of the industry in my opinion...

The upside of it is that it's fun, never a dull moment and you get to meet alot of interesting people. And you can definately learn alot of different things to whether it be about yourself, sexually or something else, it's always interesting and fun.
Cheers, Newbie7890.

 

[newbie7890]

The down side of it ....

The down side of it is not knowing whether you'll make money one day to the next.

 

[Krustee]

Best:
- Having sex with lots of gorgeous ladies without enduring society's humiliating mating rituals
- no strings attached

Worst:
- unable to see certain SPs due to scheduling or other pooners book them up in advance
- disappointing sessions that aren't worth the price

I am in complete agreement with ya here buddy!

But let expound on the last point there a little.

I have seen many gals in my 13 years as a hobbyist & I must sadly report that the vast majority of the gals were not worth the fare of the ride.

Granted I am not Brad Pitt, but then again I am not repulsive either.
I always ensure I am well dressed, clean shaven, washed top & bottom, put on my most expensive cologne, brush & floss my teeth & even nose & ear hair trimming.

I do this to ensure I am presentable to the gals & I expect the same hygiene from them.

Sadly, I have seen some who charge over $300hr who fail to extend the same courtesies to me?

I like to do DATY, but if it smells like a sardine packing plant down there it ain't gonna happen!

I also would appreciate the gal to be at least somewhat sober when I get there.

My attitude is if you have to take drugs or drink yourself into a stupor just so you can do a date - this line of work is NOT for you!

One other thing, I cannot stand the many haughty, stuck up, arrogant gals I have had the misfortune of meeting in this hobby.
News flash gals -
No - you are NOT all that & a bag of chips too!

Treat your clients with respect no matter how wealthy they are!

I have experimented with wearing my best clothes & most expensive watch & showing up in my Benz & then on the flip side I show up wearing cheap Zellers fashion with a plastic Casio & let them know I took the SkyTrain to get there.

The difference in how they treat me is amazing!

People are NOT what they make!
They are not their job.
They are individuals.

And when one of these individuals comes to see an escort it is because they are looking for what society has failed to provide because we are all so incredibly screwed up in our priorities as a people!

Make these clients feel special for the time they are with you gals!
God knows they are paying you well enough for it!

 

[CaraClementine]

Best Aspects:

- Social Interaction..meeting new people, and learning so much about the other sex
- Getting paid to cum
- Financial freedom - not having to work a full time schedule. Being able to afford a nicer lifestyle.
- An awesome excuse to buy so many sexy lingerie/outfits!

Worst Aspects:

- The social stigma attached to this line of work
- Harder to make new friends - as it can be very much an on-call type industry
- I have a small business that I have not been putting the effort into it that I should be.
- The risk that is involved. ie: bad dates & stds.
- Of course... it is irritating dealing with bargain hunters, and those that do not see value in escort services

 

[HB40]

I have seen many gals in my 13 years as a hobbyist & I must sadly report that the vast majority of the gals were not worth the fare of the ride.

That explains your motivation for the posts you make, but WTF is your reasoning for continuing in a hobby that so obviously has been unsatisfying for you?

For me the best aspect is getting to know drop dead gorgeous women who want to have sex with me, yes I said want!

The worst, not being able to be honest about my feelings with girls I really like.
That fucking imaginary line that most people are so afraid to cross or embrace. I love, it's a natural and necessary emotion for me, I like to express that.

 

[Krustee]

That explains your motivation for the posts you make, but WTF is your reasoning for continuing in a hobby that so obviously has been unsatisfying for you?

For me the best aspect is getting to know drop dead gorgeous women who want to have sex with me, yes I said want!

The worst, not being able to be honest about my feelings with girls I really like.
That fucking imaginary line that most people are so afraid to cross or embrace. I love, it's a natural and necessary emotion for me, I like to express that.

This should answer your question.

Well you did state VFM (value for money) so I assume that you might be looking for that rare gem out there that combines great service at a reasonable rate?

I have found 2 of them & I am a very picky guy when it comes to pooning.

I have also found some gals charging only $120phr that have rocked my world in the bedroom!

I am not in it for the relationship, however, the sex is so good with one of these gals I would actually consider it.

I go to sex professionals to get professional sex!

Some I will click with & some not.

I'm not like most dudes due to some vehicular injuries in my past so I need to find a gal that I connect with.

Some really move me others don't.

 

[tom t runner]

I love, it's a natural and necessary emotion for me, I like to express that.

I crossed that line once, never again. I look at it as a 2 hour (I usually book 2 hour appointments) fantasy. I treat her with respect as I would any woman I date but it's a fantasy date.

 

[InnocentBoy]

How are guys indiscrete? I can't picture too many guys bragging about seeing a prostitute like it's some big reward?

BEST- my favorite aspect of the business I find difficult to put into words...there are some experiences that leave me with such a rush that I feel energized and alive for sometime. Sometimes it's the fiery chemistry, or the danger and naughtiness, or that kind of post-first-date excitement, or the thrill of having been with a person who is about to fly off to some across-the-world destination never to be seen again (least not by me!). The great part is, there are no strings attached and i'm not affected if there isn't going to be a second date!
In all honesty, it is also amazing to be able to pay myself through my degrees and not be in massive debt! An unexpected perk is all the great tips and recommendations i've received which have led me to discover my all-time favorite book, vacation spot, restaurant, website, and I even made money off a stocktip!

WORST- receiving graphic, rude or disturbing emails or phonecalls. Unfortunately weeding out the clients I want to see from the ones that contact is not a fun activity. Also, bad hygiene and clients who aren't very discreet when they visit.
I have been very fortunate to not have had any real bad apples visit me except for a guy who came all over me (without asking!) and then robbed me while I was in the shower (when I first starting working).