Belittling

[DDawGG]

belittling others to compensate for your own insecurities

In my business, it is very competitive and how well you are doing is very public.

Over the years I have seen many people try to belittle others and almost every time it has been because of their own short comings.

I have recently seen this behavior showing it's face here on PERB.....

I am just trying to figure out what the competition is???

 

[ScottyTwoHotty]

Fuck you! You have no idea what your talking about. Your suffering from male pattern baldness and your impotent! Nobody likes you because you drool and smell bad.
Ok not really. I just said all that because I have the dick of a hampster. Seriousely though...... I do...
I get what your sayin' and I think that sometimes things are taken out of context when its in a written form. Other times it is an attack and an obvious one. I just roll with the punches. And Moderator punches the shit out of me some days. You should see the PM's I get from him.

"Scotty, I'm gonna hunt you down and beat you like a rented mule!"
"Scotty, your ass is grass when I find you!"
"Scotty, if you weren't so damn good lookin' I'd mess that face up."

I know he's a good dude. People just don't understand him. He's a different cookie. A little strange at times, but if you catch him after he gets laid, you can get away with anything!!!!!​

>>>>>Throwing on my anti-banning cloak, which protects me from the BIG RED BUTTON<<<<<​

 

[DDawGG]

Fuck you! You have no idea what your talking about. Your suffering from male pattern baldness and your impotent! Nobody likes you because you drool and smell bad.

2 Funny, Scott2Hott LOL

I usually "roll with the punches" or say whatever if it doesn't concern me.

But (there is always a but) it just keeps dronining on and on.......

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Its dog eat dog out there so some people feel that if they can get an (ahem) leg up on the competition, they will leap at the chance.

 

[LonelyGhost]

you butt sniffers need to get a room.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

you butt sniffers need to get a room.

My dog drinks from the toilet while I sip bottled water from a pure mountain stream. He can eat a rotten chipmunk but Health Canada suggests cooking steak until it’s unrecognizable. I have to wear earmuffs but he rolls around in the snow completely naked (spare the collar). And yet I get sick more often than my dog does.

 

[LonelyGhost]

And yet I get sick more often than my dog does.

then stop licking your dog's nuts ... just because he can do it
doesn't mean you should try it!

 

[Randy Whorewald]

then stop licking your dog's nuts ... just because he can do it
doesn't mean you should try it!

In order to keep a true perspective of one's importance, everyone should have a dog that will worship him and a cat that will ignore him

 

[rollerboy]

In order to keep a true perspective of one's importance, everyone should have a dog that will worship him and a cat that will ignore him

Just don't let your cat scratch your nuts.

 

[MissingOne]

My dog drinks from the toilet while I sip bottled water from a pure mountain stream. He can eat a rotten chipmunk but Health Canada suggests cooking steak until it’s unrecognizable. I have to wear earmuffs but he rolls around in the snow completely naked (spare the collar). And yet I get sick more often than my dog does.

But you're likely to live 5 to 10 times longer than your dog.

Man, has this thread ever been hijacked!

 

[rollerboy]

But you're likely to live 5 to 10 times longer than your dog.

Man, has this thread ever been hijacked!

Did we... did we "belittle" this poor ol' thread?

Aw shucks! C'mere lil' fella...*scritch* *scritch*

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I shall allow no man to belittle my soul by making me hate him.

 

[MCA Photography]

insecurities make people do funny things and selfconfidence makes others do nuthing at all.

I agree with you we only lash out when we feel inferior or attacked. If I see someone who takes every chance they have to hurt someone else I can only think that they themselves must be hurting inside.

 

[rollerboy]

I agree with you we only lash out when we feel inferior or attacked. If I see someone who takes every chance they have to hurt someone else I can only think that they themselves must be hurting inside.

That's a dangerous overgeneralization.

A small percentage of people are sociopathic and apparently biologically amoral. They don't feel the normal empathy that the vast majority of us feel when we see others in pain.

Ever see a cat toy with it's prey before it kills it? It's not because it's hurting inside.

There are complex biochemical and psychological processes which influence our capacity for aggressive or subjectively cruel behavior.

 

[DDawGG]

I can't lick my own nuts... that's why I pay others to do it for me


Interesting perspectives on belittling.......

lack of self confidence is definitely at the root of this behavior

I can't imagine not liking myself or not wanting to be me

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

I have recently seen this behavior showing it's face here on PERB.....

I am just trying to figure out what the competition is???

You've only discovered that recently?

The SPs get the worst of it because it's not only coming from other SPs (that will soon be fixed somewhat) but from some men on here. SPs can be exposed because of the nature if the business whereas the advantage goes to the male members using only a handle for identity to criticize anyone and everyone, protected.



There really is no competition other than services (BBBJ vs. non-BBBJ). Although, there was a case involving an SP "A" and SP "B" and "C". SP "A" lost some of her well established clients to SP "B" and "C" and tried to get them back by spreading malicious gossip in forms of false reviews and back channeled conversations when inquiries were made on PERB through PM. The whole idea was to paint an ugly picture for SP "B" and "C" that those well established clients would come back to SP "A" and tank the business of SP "B" and "C" but it backfired and created more business for SP "B" and "C".