bdsm or wannabe

[zennpet]

i find alot of the "doms" or "tops" posted here are mostly ... escorts or simply in the business of taking your money in exchange for some sort of watered down bdsm experience? mmmmm ... confusing. sort of like ... is it REALLY organic?

anyway

what should i do?

very curious submissive bi boy ... wants to become a 24/7 live in house boy to a deserving Mistress ...

any suggestions ...
any one interested ...
any body out there ...

kisses

z

 

[Small pleasures]

www.mistresst.net

You can find most of my reviews on my website, all through Perb.

I have never been an escort. Nothing I do is watered down.

If I'm not your flavor, try Max Fisch for a list of Domme's in Vancouver.

Good luck in your search.

Miss T
www.mistresst.net

 

[zennpet]

awww ... thanks

good suggestions!

thanks

z

 

[ihatemyskirt]

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"very curious submissive bi boy ... wants to become a 24/7 live in house boy to a deserving Mistress ... "

any suggestions ... yeah, get real.
any one interested ... doubtful.
any body out there ... anybody?? hello??

kisses (not on your best day)


Most mistresses don't actually live a lifestyle as a dom in Van. I do not know one who would allow a sub to move in with her in her own home. Perhaps someone has a seperate work space that she trusts her bitch to live in but otherwise who is that serious about being served? I could see maybe in a huge home where it could be called tenancy but otherwise I am sure theres not a diva in the city who seeks a servant who needs a home. It rains a lot in Van you know, the dog house leaks!! Good luck with your search though, you really are seeking the perfect living arrangement aren't you? I know a few men who'd love to live right under my foot!! lol

 

[zennpet]

wannabe

well ...

never to sound rude. but. it appears you are not a life-style Mistress. too bad. i like your stated occupation - humiliatrix

*sigh*

 

[Small pleasures]

To each their own.

With all respect to "I hate my skirt" and the subbie looking for a home. I would take on a 24/7 slave in the right situation and I'm not the only one.

I have someone who serves me part-time (about 30ish hours a week) and it's not enough. He does my cooking/cleaning/errand running, etc.

Being a lifestyle Domme doesn't mean you have to be in full Domme mod every minute, it just means allowing someone to serve you completely. I have formed a wonderful 'relationship' with my part-time servant. There is no sex at all, but we have become friends. He gets imense pleasure from serving me and I find him very useful. It's healthy for both of us.

To each their own.

On a side note, ATTENTION SUBBIES: I did my first Friday Night Live web cam show a few days ago (apr 20, 8-10pm) and it was a HUGE success. For slaves that like to be humiliated, this is a dream come true. I will be doing the live show every Friday (filming in downtown Vancouver). Please contact me for details if you're interested in being a part of it.

The video footage will be for sale on my website in the next couple of days if anyone wants to see it. Next Friday will be another FREE show, so tune in from 8-10pm Vancouver time.

www.mistresst.net
small.pleasures1@gmail.com

 

[zennpet]

Mistress T

you have hit a nerve!



thank you for sharing. i love being a service slave. there is nothing more enjoyable than catering to Mistress's need and wants!! a royal pleasure!!

oh ... humiliation makes this sub pet "vibrate" ... count me in!!

kiss kiss hug hug

z

 

[zennpet]

arrangements

i'm curious about the "arrangement" made between Mistress and sub

as a 24/7 that is

contract details?
time? money? time out? space? rules?

*sighs*

so much to know ...

kisses

z

 

[Lady Liberte]

And...

...don't forget the infamous dickievirgin and Domme Directory International (DDI mag) websites for listings in Vancouver and area as well.
Best wishes in your search. What you want is out there, it just takes time.
LL

 

[bryan086]

Mistress ROse Black

Has anybody seen her?

 

[zennpet]

very helpy

thank you

you have all been encouraging and your suggestions very helpful!

*kisses*

 

[bole065]

I haven't seen Miss T, but I did apply for domestic service several times (and received no reply).
I've seen most of other Dommes in Vancouver (Sara Akeera, Shadow rose, ihatemyskirt, Kira Cane, to name a few).

All those named above are lovely ladies and they know how to Dominate, however for some of them Domination is only a job, or as is the case with Miss T, it is a lifestyle AND a job.

This means, depending on your luck, you may find one that will consider you as live-in, or you may find one that will kick you out if you mention it (Tyra Von Stern got very angry when I asked her about 24/7 live-in).

With all that, you might want to check out:
www.collarme.com

There you'll find plenty of lifestylers who are not Professionals, and few professionals.
Good luck

 

[Annalise Lane]

And the difference between Domme and FemTop/Mistress .......... is ??

One originated from online chat rooms.

One originated from a Mentor in the lifestyle.

~ just keeping thing straight ~

little boy, you will find tons of wanna be Mistresses but if she refers to herself as a Domme the likeliness that she is a lifestylist is VERY slim. She's dressed in Leather with an ego the size of a Moutain. Look for a mole hill, you will get more mileage, which I suspect you are looking for.

oh and btw: not all Escorts on this board are part time FemTops, some are just plain kinky !! Some Mistresses on this board are Hookers with Whips, just as kinky but a different happy ending. Neither are wrong, just different roads.

The kink community says it is accepting - but the truth is - it's not.

Tips and Tricks

1 -Investigate your future Mistress with the community she walks in.
2 - Ask important life questions to make sure you are both suited. While kink has many layers, their not all perfect for each other ' after ' play. ei: smoking or drinking etc.
3 - If you are a novice and She has 10 years in the scene, make sure She will train you.
4 - Sam's are annoying for most Lifestyle Mistresses, unless it's in a playful way, but if it is to get that spanking you so need, I would hope she puts you in a corner.

~ just a quick list ~

 

[Small pleasures]

No one likes to be labelled...

Bole065: I am usually VERY good at returning all emails even though I deal with volume that is sometimes overwhelming. I have no idea why I wouldn't have returned yours unless there was a good reason...? If not, my apologies.

Analis Lane, I love that you added this helpful information. Your intentions were solid.

Labelling people and putting them in little boxes doesn't actually works out so neatly in real life tho. We use labels to try to make it easier for us to understand each other and in this case, to help Zennepet to find the right situation, but if he narrows his vision too much he might miss it.

I'm not the only one who doesn't fit neatly under the labels you've listed.

When I started on this board I was the voyeur show girl. I wasn't an 'escort' or a 'massage' girl so guys didn't know where to post my reviews, but they were having a great time and wanted to tell their stories.

Now I'm a...what? I say I'm a Domme to keep it simple. I have 2 part time domestic servants, numerous paying clients and an emerging online business. I go to fetish and lifestyle events and I play for fun, sometimes for money, sometimes not. I've been in the fetish community for over 5 years but less than a year 'professionly'. I wouldn't want a wonderful little subbie to not approach me for something because I didn't have the right 'title'. It doesn't hurt to ask.

Your labels are helpful rough guidelines only, not absolutes. No disresepct intended.

 

[Annalise Lane]

I have no issues with online Mistress or lifestyle FemDom's, Pro's or the like, nor do I have an issue with you Ms.T.

With a little research into where the word Domme comes from might explain why after many years in the kink community ( and no I dont need my resume online or in person to quality, NOT pointing at you Ms.T but the community in general) I guess to many need to boost their egos and self talk like they know it all and created the bdsm world we know today.

Domme is a label like FemDom or or or - labels in this instance which is what I was talking is important. What if the little boy was looking for a Master, would he then not say so ?

I guess my problem is with the wanna be online Mistresses, who dont' know the difference between the two.

A good referrence guide is www.iron-rose.com ( click their libary ) there is a ton of articles from World Wide Known ' Kink ' enthuastists. There should be an article about this very topic ' Domme ' verses ' Mistress '

But maybe the old timer in me is coming out and I should keep my mouth shut, since I dont offer this service any more.

 

[zennpet]

kink, Dom, Master, Mistress ... etc

i'm not too concerned about the TITLE or talk ... more concerned with the walk

actually

has anyone heard of

ravensretreat.com OR veronika something??

z

 

[Small pleasures]

This is probably the Veronika...

http://www.veronikaharley.com/

 

[bigbaby]

Veronika

I have seen most of the "Mistresses" in Vancouver (with the notable exception of Ms. T) and found Veronika to be the sexiest and the most fun. As a matter of fact, I found her to be too sexy...kind of distracting

 

[Small pleasures]

Don't be such a baby *smile*...

...and come see me then BigBaby!

I haven't had the pleasure of meeting Veronika but her website is impressive and I've heard all good about her.

Shameless plug: Friday Night Live, FREE web cam show with free chat on my website Friday 8-10pm Vancouver time.
www.mistresst.net