bareback sex with a korean sp

[imanewbie]

This korean sp worked for a month or so, and i was visiting her almost 3 times a week. She is going to take a week off before going to the next shop. And at her last week i asked her out for a casual dinner. She agreed to it and we almost met every single day during her off week. During the first few days she is still on her period so we would just have dinner then make out at a nearby park and doing some dry humping

At the end of the week, we decide to have sex and I booked a hotel room , as i was about to penetrate her, she said i could do it without a condom. I was shocked and also turned on to hell. I couldnt resist the temptation and went with it. We did it about 4 times during the night all without a condom, and all cum inside. As much fun as it was, im starting to regret it, and very much scared.

We developed a good friendship ( i think ) and she the last time she had bareback sex was with her boyfriend back in Korea about a year ago. I believed her because she is putting me at risk but she is also putting herself at risk. So i dont doubt her.

how much risk am i putting myself in. I feel like a fool.

 

[rossedm34]

You put yourself at the same amount of risk as you would of with a non-SP one night stand. SPs are probably safer then a one night stand, but still, you shouldn't be having bare back sex with anyone unless you're in some type of committed relationship. Go to your local STD clinic and get tested, no one on here will be able to ease your mind.

I don't think you have to worry about her getting pregnant so close to her period, but weirder things have happened too. You might of opened yourself to entrapment.

There is never a good reason to have bare back sex outside of a committed relationship.

 

[ReluctantPooner]

Get tested NOW, 3 months from now, and then again in another 3 months. If you're lucky, you didn't catch anything, at least not anything that will stick with you.

As well, hopefully you won't be paying for it for the next 18 years.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

don't panic...

the results of studies on hiv transmission from females to males vary of course, but transmission rates from an HIV positive woman to an unprotected non-hiv male ranges from 3 in 10,000 to 9 in 10,000. Meaning that if 10,000 guys banged an HIV positive woman bareback, between 3 and 9 of them would contract HIV. Of course that's not saying which of the 10,000 guys it would be. The first or the last

so by all means get yourself tested for hiv after the required waiting period, but you don't have to live in terror while you're waiting

now some of the other std's aren't a walk in the park, but they are treatable. if she had herpes a condom won't help. if she had hpv, a condom won't help

also, this should be in the health information section

 

[Lovejyp]

i had the same experience...

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Did you bang the same sp lol?

i had the same experience...

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Does anybody here know if the korean sp get std tested on a regular basis in canada? Would their healthcare/medical travel plan cover regular testing? I heard of of them never go see the dr ...even in emergencies.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Maybe if he's lucky he has a low sperm count this cycle

You are probably more likely to be looking at child support payments than you are HIV, these gals if they are from overseas would love nothing better than to find a Canadian baby daddy to legitimize access to this country.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Even when the woman is most fertile i read there's only 25% chance of her getting pregnant each cycle. Yes i know that's easier than winning the lotto lol. Still in favour of her not becoming pregnant.

The 5 days right after the woman has had her period are pretty safe as far as making babies goes. I spent a year as a teen where the girl couldn't get the pill without her parents knowing and we were both too young to buy condoms. We did the rhythm method and managed to avoid becoming parents.

 

[87112]

Unless there is widespread poverty and hunger in South Korea I dont think she needs the hassle of all this to just get legit access to Canada. Unless I'm wrong most people in Canada have to work and pay bills like other people in the world.

 

[InTheBum]

You are probably more likely to be looking at child support payments than you are HIV, these gals if they are from overseas would love nothing better than to find a Canadian baby daddy to legitimize access to this country.

Actually most Koreans I know don't think Canada is that great...I am assuming they are from South Korea...

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Hopefully you didn't catch that antibiotic resistant asian strain of Gonnorhea.

I'm not going to jump all over you here because I have to admit that when I was young and foolish (late 70's and 80's) and in university, I must have banged 10's of girls bareback and alot of them were one night stands. Back then we just weren't educated about STD's (AIDS was a gay disease :doh and like all young people thought I was invincible.

Anyway we know different now. Get yourself tested as many have suggested and use this as a leaning experience for next time. The few seconds it takes to slip on a condom will save you alot of problems down the road and possibly your life.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I'm willing to bet she's more at risk than him.

Besides getting yourself checked, and re-checked you'd better ask her to do the same.

Risk is prolly the same as the average drunken ONS that happen every weekend, but still...

 

[Very Veronica]

Wait 2 weeks before getting tested unless you have obvious symptoms and then get retested.

http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/3-getting-tested/

HOW LONG TO WAIT BEFORE GETTING TESTED:

Gonorrhea and chlamydia: two weeks after contact. It can take up to 6 weeks for chlamydia to develop, so a final test at this time is a good idea.

Syphilis: usually positive by 6 weeks, but can take as long as 3 months.

HIV: average time it takes for HIV to test positive is 3-4 weeks. 95% of people test positive within 4-6 weeks, and everyone within 3 months.

Hepatitis B: usually positive within 3 months but can take as long as 6 months.

WHERE TO GET TESTED:

STI testing can be done at any doctors office or clinic.

The following links list clinics in BC who specialise in STI testing. STI testing is free in these clinics and many offer anonymous testing.

BCCDC STI Clinic 655 West 12th, Vancouver http://www.stiresource.com/clinics/index.php

Other STI clinics in BC http://www.stiresource.com/clinics/list.php

I recommend going to these clinics as they are experts in sexual health, appointments are not limited to 15 minutes & questions are encouraged.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Actually most Koreans I know don't think Canada is that great...I am assuming they are from South Korea...

then you obviously haven't visited north burnaby in the last 15 years...

 

[Maybach]

If our stupid enough to fuck without a condom then you deserve to be like me - a low-life scumbag - with loser ambition.

Silky Johnson

 

[vancity_cowboy]

If our stupid enough to fuck without a condom then you deserve what you get. Common sense is gone folks, GONE!

is this silky back again? YES

:nod: :thumb:

 

[sonoman]

One word comes to mind: 'idiot'.

Usually, we might make this 'mistake' once, at some point, and then regret it immediately after. But 4 times in one night (sans condom)?

 

[Guardian Angel]

What makes me wonder is the rising frequency of this type of thread being posted. When I first joined Perb there were no posts about BBFS. Now every so often it keeps showing up. And that is just from some of the guys on this board who admit it. How many have done this and not mention it and how often is this happening with pooners who are not on a board.

I will stick to my fav few who rock my world and do it in a safe covered way. There are so many other things that can be done that makes a session hot. A good sexy kisser can make a session outstanding, a great tease can make an outstanding session.

G.A.

 

[storm rider]

Hopefully you didn't catch that antibiotic resistant asian strain of Gonnorhea.

I'm not going to jump all over you here because I have to admit that when I was young and foolish (late 70's and 80's) and in university, I must have banged 10's of girls bareback and alot of them were one night stands. Back then we just weren't educated about STD's (AIDS was a gay disease :doh and like all young people thought I was invincible.

Anyway we know different now. Get yourself tested as many have suggested and use this as a leaning experience for next time. The few seconds it takes to slip on a condom will save you alot of problems down the road and possibly your life.

Not to bash on you Jethro but how could you not be educated about STD's?.....hell I was born in 1971 and by the time I reached puberty the scourge of herpe's was in the media and soon after that HIV....or AIDS as it was most commonly called back then not to mention that condoms are not just protection against STD's they are a form of birth control....hell I knew before my balls dropped that I would most likely never have unprotected full intercourse ever....I even passed up some mighty fine pussy when I was between 17-19 as I did not have a condom.....last thing I wanted was to knock a gal up....and at that age I was like a gyser when I shot.

To the OP...get tested you dumbass....and hope you did not catch anything or even worse knock the gal up.....if it all turns out OK.....then facepalm yourself really hard and take an oath not to do something so stupid again.

SR