Bad smells

[freakydeaky1]

If you have a favorite you like to see with some frequency and one time they don’t smell all that great “down there”, how would you handle it?

I powered through and it hasn’t happened again (at the same level that is, there was a hint but nothing like the other time), but I am starting to have anxiety about it happening again.

She comes to my place and I put stuff out in the bathroom for her to shower, but haven’t directly asked her too, and have never mentioned the time she had an unpleasant odor,

I don’t know what it’s like to keep things fresh for a lady, let alone a provider, so don’t want to make assumptions as to why, for all I know it could be biological or hormonal, not necessarily due to prior activities.

Any advice from the pros? I think either I should insist she shower before sexy times or inform her that it had happened in the past but I don’t want to make things awkward so kept my mouth shut about it.

I don’t want her to be embarrassed or think I’m being unkind.

appreciate it boys … (and any SPs who’d like to share their opinion being on the other side of it)….

 

[SashaStriker]

To be fair, we all have off days, everyone… even you im sure. It sounds like it happened once and you still continued to see her again after with no issues. Not to sound harsh but you’re over thinking it. If you want to say something because it’s weighing on you that much, do so in a delicate way. If it hasnt been a frequent issue and you want to let by gones be by gone, do so. If it happens again, address it. Hormones are a wild thing and also people’s perception of smells change for different reasons as well. Theres a lot of research online you may find some answers to. I don’t really think any of us can tell you how to handle the perimeters of your intimate life. Nor should we. This sounds like a decision you need to make for yourself.

 

[freakydeaky1]

I appreciate the feedback. i just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, or feel awful about doing so. i guess if it happens again i'll address it then, with as much delicacy as humanly possible.
I wasn't asking anyone to decide for me, just what kind of helpful experiences they may have had that could lend me hand with what will ultimately be difficult.

 

[SashaStriker]

Approach such a conversation as you would want someone to do so to you. It sounds like your heart is in the right place. You need to decide whats best for you and if that looks like addressing it then you can do so in a kind way. It sounds like it was the one and only time though… so I personally would let it go. Its nothing to lose sleep over.
You can also just stop seeing her if its that much of an issue for you. Thats the blessings of this industry. Its not like shes a civilian you’re dating and now this issue has arouse. You can just simply not book her again.

 

[freakydeaky1]

good point. i suppose there-in lies the dilemma, i do wanna keep booking her, cuz it takes time to evolve the physical chemistry & sharing of affections and friendship into something worth cherishing.
just can't get attached or cling to that. i think if it happens again at an inopportune time, i'll try to casually bring up showering and see if i can drop a subtle hint without unintentionally being insensitive + unskillful with my wording.
i suppose i'd rather be passive aggressive than accidentally hurtful. that or just push through again - i did it last time so i can do it again.....then hopefully i can find someone else i like as much if i decide to move on, and will just have to invest the time and $ to get some nice chemistry built up....if i'm lucky.

thanks again for the helpful input Sasha

 

[white Ninja 74]

If you really want to say something I would address with some class and do it over a two way conversation ( preferably in the evening) over txt , but use some common sense .
I wouldn’t exactly jump right into it .

Txt example ; hey I would like to talk to you about something but it’s a bit sensitive.

Then let her reply

Then you say your piece of w some sensitivity of course.

My 2 cents

 

[SashaStriker]

good point. i suppose there-in lies the dilemma, i do wanna keep booking her, cuz it takes time to evolve the physical chemistry & sharing of affections and friendship into something worth cherishing.
just can't get attached or cling to that. i think if it happens again at an inopportune time, i'll try to casually bring up showering and see if i can drop a subtle hint without unintentionally being insensitive + unskillful with my wording.
i suppose i'd rather be passive aggressive than accidentally hurtful. that or just push through again - i did it last time so i can do it again.....then hopefully i can find someone else i like as much if i decide to move on, and will just have to invest the time and $ to get some nice chemistry built up....if i'm lucky.

thanks again for the helpful input Sasha

You dont have to be passive aggressive nor do you have something that makes you feel uncomfortable,
You can just have a open honest conversation if it ever happens in the moment again, you are not in control of how others react to what you say, but that doesn’t mean you shouldnt speak your truth, delicately of course.
Or as mentioned above mentioned it in a text may be easier to navigate. Again as I said everyone has off days, including me, including you. Our bodies do and experience strange things sometimes. I wouldn’t over think it! Try to move past it and be in the present moment. Life is short and unpromised.
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Best of luck!

 

[angry anderson]

Hint....
A picture is worth a thousand words.