Bad first experience...

[Vidfreaky]

I've been a lurker here for a while, and while going to a MP appealed to me, I never quite got up the courage to do it.

That is until a couple of weeks ago.

Unfortunately my first experience was not a good one.

I had read many good things about many of the ladies a DejaVu (especially Jade) and thought one night that I'd go there and let her break my MP cherry so to speak. I called ahead, and just my luck, Jade was working that night. So, after hitting the ATM and heading over, I sat in my car in the parking lot for about 10 minutes gathering up the nerve to go in. Finally worked my way in and was greeted at the door by someone other than Jade (i'll leave her name out of it, but I think regulars here will probably be able to figure out who I'm talking about). I was quickly ushered into a room and asked "you know this is an "adult" massage right?" to which I answered of course. I was then told to shower up and she'd be right back. Not having done this before, I wasn't sure how to ask for Jade at this time, so I hopped in the shower. After I got out she came back in and asked me what it was that I was looking for. I told her that I was really looking forward to meeting Jade, the reply to which was "Jade's with a customer, what can I do for you?". Once again, not having done this before, I was feeling more nervous than ever so I just went with the flow and asked for a basic massage.

Needless to say I didn't really enjoy it, and I was so nervous and off guard that it definately didn't last long as I kinda just wanted to get out of there at that point.

So basically it was rushed, with a woman who wasn't very personable, and whom I wasn't all that attracted to.

NOt a great first experience to be sure. I think I've got the courage to try again, but I'd like some input on how to ask for what I want and maybe ways to feel more at ease.

 

[EnTropy]

not sure...but i think you have to SPECIFICALLY ask for JADE ...??
( book an appointment with her ??? )
dont just walk in .... unless you feel lucky ....
i'd be more upfront and say .... i'm here to see JADE , NOT YOU ...

afterall .. its your money ...... its your time .....

just curious .... do you look underage ...??
interesting comment she made ..........

good luck pooning next time ........

 

[threepeat]

Vidfreaky, based on your post, I don't think you told the girl who greeted you that you were wanting to see Jade, so she probably saw you as being open to seeing another girl (ie., her). That was probably the biggest mistake in the session because not only did you see a girl who is an unknown quantity, but you told her after your shower that you were looking to see someone else. Once you're ushered into a room, the girl has pretty much "claimed" you as being hers (ie., wrote you in the MP customer book, turned down any other requests for her services for that hour, etc.), so if you then ask for someone else she's not going to be very happy.

Some girls also don't like doing basic massages because there's not a lot of money involved in them once you remove the room fee, so that also could have contributed to her attitude.

So, to sum up, my advice to a first-timer would be:
1) Pick a girl, make an appointment with her, and stick to it. Knowing who you are going to see will help will probably help with your nerves.
2) If you want a particular service, just ask her respectfully. If she doesn't offer what you're looking for, she'll tell you.
3) This is somewhat controversial, but in my opinion don't ask for any service cheaper than a nude. If you go for anything less, you may not get the girls' A-game.
4) The only way to stop the nerves is to get back on the horse.

 

[hardup]

4) The only way to stop the nerves is to get back on the horse.

Forget the horse......go get on the Jade

 

[DinoMartini]

I had the same experience at Dejavu as Vidfreaky a couple months back and I'm no newbie so I very much understand where he's comming from. It was Ocean that rushed me in and I was there to see Rebecca, yes I called ahead. But I got the same reply as Vid that she "was with a client" but regardless it was the hard sell (no pun intended) and I was not given a chance to say anything without being rude.

Yes it's your money but it's also your right to expect professional service and being herded into a room in a rushed manner is very akward indeed. Next time I will be ready for this and speak up but I know where you're comming from Vid so for your next experience I recommend Zoe @ Prestige. You'll get nothing but top notch service and no rush job.

 

[littlejonny]

Jade has had some mixed reviews lately, so you might be best to take Dino's advice. I've also noticed that Ocean can be somewhat pushy. That's usually how the less attractive girls get after a while. If you're walking in without an appointment, ask for the girl you want right when they meet you at the door. That way, if she's not available you can leave and maybe make an appointment for later. Most of the girls understand if you're there to see someone specific.

 

[wolverine]

Deja Vu is mid-rung at best anyway. You will likely encounter a better experience at Penthouse, Supreme and Sinderellas with ladies who know how to treat a "MP virgin" and keep him coming back with a great first impression.

 

[BamMargera]

Hey Hey, I'm Back!

You may rejoice, you may throw flowers in the air, but please, don't hit me with a shoe. That would hurt. Even if I am being an idiot. he he

Anyways, I just wanted to toss in a review for a session that I enjoyed while I was away (yes, only one...Christmas, getting gifts for others and a long drawn out move kinda put a damper in the presents to myself, so only one review from the past 4 months), and just as I was about to post, I saw someone saying that they had a bad, rushed session with Ocean...Which is funny because I was just about to write a really good review about my session with her (from early November before she got her enhancements). So, because of that post, I decided to take a little closer look at my session to make sure that it was indeed as enjoyable as I'm sure it was.

I was actually just heading to Deja Vu to meet Ocean because from some of the past posts, she seemed like the kinda girl I should be associating with Got there and within 10 seconds, I was met at the door and was being introduced to Ocean, and promptly decided that I wanted to stay (which is saying a lot because if not, I was going to visit Crystal at Sinderella's for a first visit). Got into the room, into the shower, got out of the shower, and proceeded to wait about 3 minutes for her to come back to the room. And going over my time there minute by minute, that was the worst thing about the whole visit. I had a great time with her, she was friendly, gave a great massage (can't stress that enough), and a very enthusiastic fs.
L: 7.5 In a buisness populated by youth, Ocean is a bit older, but much more attractive woman than most of the younger girls. Voluptious body and great curves. Really want to try another visit with her new happy fun time play area. he he
A:8.5
S:8.5
And just 2 other things
1) Anyone have any info about Juliet at Shiatsu? Looks yummy.
2) After looking in the back log of messages from the past couple of months, I must say that some of the comments comming out about Cloud 9's staff really sucks, because between the time I re-checked their websites and got back on PERB, there were about 4 girls added to my list of girls to see ASAP that are now off the list. DAMMIT!!!!

-BaM

 

[mississippi]

Ocean.....

I myself have seen Ocean. And I have to say she doesn't do it for me. I don't understand why there are so MANY OLDER woman in the industry. You would think that after some time(and age), you wouldn't want to live this kind of lifestyle anymore. I personally, don't find Ocean to be attractive whatsoever, but I don't like hearing about innocent newbie's being used and walked all over. I think it has something to do with her size. She may intimidate some people with her body shape.

*NEWBIES- JUST COME OUT AND ASK FOR THE LADY YOU WOULD LIKE TO STAY WITH. DON'T LET THESE OLDER WOMAN BULLY YOU!!!*

 

[Herb_The_Perb]

I personally, don't find Ocean to be attractive whatsoever, but I don't like hearing about innocent newbie's being used and walked all over. I think it has something to do with her size.

Do you think she's called Ocean becasue she covers 75% of the earth?

 

[mississippi]

covering the Ocean

Hey Herb_the_Perb. I agree with you. She does cover a big portion of the earth. HAHAHAHAH!!

 

[Vidfreaky]

Well, based on what I've read here in the last little while, I've gone ahead and booked a session with Lauren tomorrow night (on my birthday no less, hehe).

Based on what's been posted here, I expect this time around to go a lot better than the first/last one.

 

[stryker]

Do you think she's called Ocean becasue she covers 75% of the earth?[/QUOTE]


Now that wasn't nice Herb,,,,people have feelings

 

[oldnew]

my vote is for zoe as well

 

[Vidfreaky]

Well, it's been a few hours since my "second" experience, and let's just say that Lauren made it all better.

hehe

 

[trawler]

Lauren made it all better ...

IMHO there was never any question that she would do otherwise .

 

[jim]

I don't understand why there are so MANY OLDER woman in the industry. You would think that after some time(and age), you wouldn't want to live this kind of lifestyle anymore.

*NEWBIES- JUST COME OUT AND ASK FOR THE LADY YOU WOULD LIKE TO STAY WITH. DON'T LET THESE OLDER WOMAN BULLY YOU!!!*

You must be kidding?? Right?

The more mature workers in the industry are those who usually provide the best service, after all they aren't necessarily getting by no drop dead looks and hardbodies. The only 'bullying' I've ever encountered is when some newbie MPA wants to hustle you.

 

[trawler]

Mature Gals

I've got to side with Jim on this one. Some of the Mature Girls are the best value in the Hobby - to name a few:

1. Jessie @ Shiatsu
2. Gina @ Penthouse
3. Sandy/Cara @ Supreme
4. Vicki @ WRO
5. Sharmaine @ MMC
6. Ashley @ "somewhere"
7. Virginia @ Fantasy
8. Krissy @ XTC

IMHO these Gals give Good Service on even their Bad days. Their consistency comes from having the right Attitude and actually respecting the Hobbyists who provide them with their livelihood. We are viewed as treasured clients rather than horny PERBs.

 

[TOFTT]

More Mature Ladies Who Got It Going On

Trawler, may I add the following to your list:

1. Raven @ 99th Street Studio
2. Jenna @ Ambrosia

And how could you of all people forget: Jacklyn @ Passions?

 

[MKSTEEL]

I've got to side with Jim on this one. Some of the Mature Girls are the best value in the Hobby - to name a few:

1. Jessie @ Shiatsu
2. Gina @ Penthouse
3. Sandy/Cara @ Supreme
4. Vicki @ WRO
5. Sharmaine @ MMC
6. Ashley @ "somewhere"
7. Virginia @ Fantasy
8. Krissy @ XTC

IMHO these Gals give Good Service on even their Bad days. Their consistency comes from having the right Attitude and actually respecting the Hobbyists who provide them with their livelihood. We are viewed as treasured clients rather than horny PERBs.

Always thought these two looked like a good SPs , but hey looks can be decieving. BTW does Vicki run WRO with partners or something I get the 'Madam' vibe when I talk with her in WRO's lobby (visiting others though).