Back from hiatus

[IceG]

well. i gave the "real" world a go and i just ended a 2 month dating relationship. i think i am old enough to know that we did not have a solid long term relationship. i was tempted to just stay in there for the "action", but then i thought about how Christmas is in 4 weeks and i have no desire to "fake" it through the holidays and meet her family. i don't like being strung along and so i think it is best to treat someone the way i would want to be treated if i was in the other shoe. besides, if it is just going to be sex, then i may as well just be honest.

so i am back from the grave for the time being. i think i have learned alot about myself in the past 4 months. first, i think it is not realistic to "quit" this action unless you find a "real" girlfriend within 2 months of actually stopping pay 4 play action. i had to re-learn what masturbation videos worked for me in the first month of trying to find a "real" girl. i think that is the most i have beat off since i was in high school. i have to admit it was kind of interesting going back on the prowl again with some of my single buds. Dante's, Iron Horse, Rum Jungle, Ruby Sky, OByrnes, the Druid, Sidetrack, Overtime, Roxy, i pretty much covered alot of boozing.

anyways, i see there has been a renovation of the board and some new people in the mix.

so what's up with you boys, Go-Esks, Acc, FreakyChef, Mikey, Kneel and the others who are still here?

 

[Owudoin]

Good to have you back Ice,

 

[wolverine]

i have to admit it was kind of interesting going back on the prowl again with some of my single buds. Dante's, Iron Horse, Rum Jungle, Ruby Sky, OByrnes, the Druid, Sidetrack, Overtime, Roxy, i pretty much covered alot of boozing.

Which bars did you like and dislike, and why?

 

[acc]

Ice good to see ya... unfortunatly I'm not in town much so my hobby time has been kepy to a minimum. But in terms of rcommendations for you I would definitly consider seeing Emily, at Deja vu. I think she is just the type of girl that you might enjoy.

 

[jim]

Welcome back - you've always been a good read.

Agreed!

WB IceG

 

[IceG]

thanks boys

let's see: Wolverine: i think i need some time to re-think the whole bar circuit as i was pretty hammed up at a couple of those places, but we could put a thread together on the bars for the board. i did pick up this one girl at Iron Horse back at the end of August, i mean you reach a point where you can beat off no more. i went to all these bars before i started dating in a real way, so August-September, but we can do a thread on it.

here's Mikey: are you Mikey from before? or another dude?

go-esks: u still my boy. yah, the strange part is that if she comes to me and says "do you just want to stay in touch as a booty call", then i will, but methinks she is kind of a "nice" girl and she is not going to want to just have it on that level. i just had to end the thing before we started planning Christmas and New Years. i would be content just being her booty call, but i am not sure that works for her. i will see if she calls and the tone of that call.

the masturbation thing is the result of the fact that most guys (moi included) on this board have above average sex drives so until you find someone, even just for casual sex, you end up forced to rent some porn. i had also forgot what a perv you feel like when you rent porn. funny. i read your last review about XTC and that is too bad. i think if you are single and serious about quitting, then you will have to use porn as a crutch until you find someone to cuddle with 4 real. i don't know if the aversion therapy would work as you (and me) have so many great memories of our favourite sp's that you can't forget some of that stuff.

acc, thanks for the recommendation. i will keep her in mind.

to the others, i will try to keep to being a good read with a few laughs. i read the other thread about too much detail in reviews and that is why i try to keep it to the essentials about appearance and throw in a few individual nuances. otherwise, you end up compromising the sp and every dude in western Canada comes in and asks for "x" when it might only be available if the sp kind of trusts you. most women don't mind if you put out their vital physical stats, as long as you are reasonably accurate, because they know how important appearances are to men. however, i think some might be upset if some idiot rolls in and says, "i want to come on your tits, because some IceG guy said on the internet that i could". it might not go over too well for said idiot and more importantly, said IceG.

later boys.