Aunties

[Joey_D]

A lot of posts have comments, either via guesses or statements about an asian SP being a so called "auntie".

Question...when people say "an auntie opened the door", or "an auntie was there, it was a bait & switch"...or anything similar, what age are people seeing or saying?
An auntie (to me) is someone older than 40 or 50.
Is that the age of the person who is there at the bait & switch, or is the person just around 10 years older than the 20-something age in the ad?

 

[westwoody]

Aunties are at least 40, often much older.
Many asian women look great well into their 40s.

 

[rubintugger]

If the picture is a young, fit asian, and the "auntie" that opens the door is much older and not representative of the body type advertised, bait and switch. It is amazing how many appointments these ads book, and how many pooners let the little head make them stay, with terrible regret after.

If you go in knowing that it likely is an auntie, and the woman at the door is in fact older, but in good shape, you might be in for a treat. Many of my best encounters were with women who have a lot of experience. All of my ATFs are older asian women, and my personal best session was 20 years ago, 2 hours with a 50+ provider which left me the most drained and satisfied I have ever been. I'd see her today if she was still working, I'd bet she'd still look great and could take care of business.

But if you are after the one in the picture, and she doesn't answer the door, it is your option to walk away.

 

[Jackleon]

I studied two east asian languages as well as the culture associatedwith these languages.
Let's say it in this way : if you call a lady less than 50 year old auntie, she will feel offended, and consider you to be a very rude person ... hope u got the point.🤦🏻

 

[ChromeGasCap]

I studied two east asian languages as well as the culture associatedwith these languages.
Let's say it in this way : if you call a lady less than 50 year old auntie, she will feel offended, and consider you to be a very rude person ... hope u got the point.🤦🏻

Having lived with this culture, my understanding is that it is used to address someone considered your senior.
Have never known anyone to be offended from being referred to in this way, unless used derogatorily.
The term is typically used to show respect.
It is all about context.

 

[rubintugger]

I have to amend my post, some of my best experiences have been "aunties".

But some of my worst, also.

There are many in the industry that should not be. Being only in it for the money, either for reasons in or out of their control, can sometimes make for a very bad experience.

And there are many that actually define m'eh. I have seen aunties that have been in the industry for years, and still have no idea how to massage, or make an ending more pleasurable than efficient. Sure, they get the job done, but come on, take a little time and smile. And please, it is attached fairly securely, but you don't need to try to rip it off.

Full disclosure.

 

[westwoody]

Fair comment Rubin.
Another factor is women who keep working long after their time is up. It’s not just about looking older. Some become bitter/jaded and miserable. They do it because they are stuck and have no exit strategy.