Yeah. Rescheduling is one thing. Completely ignoring me after driving an hour into town. Twice. That's another thing. My one time with her WAS exceptional. But there are lots of other great gals out there that better deserve this guys hard earned money.
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You know...I've been watching this thread evolve and I can't help but wonder if personal chemistry has anything at all to do with these types of experiences between sp's and their clients. Especially local sp's who are looking to have regular clients. The answer is...of course it does. This is not a personal knock on anybody, some people just don't connect, and sometimes what one person experiences during a session is not at all what the other person experiences. It's just the way it is. Granted, having an out-of-towner drive all the way in only to be ghosted is a little harsh, never mind TWICE! I can also understand how it can be difficult to tell someone no, you don't want to meet anymore. Everybody has feelings, most don't want to hurt others or they just aren't very good at saying no to people who are overly persistent. The very moment I sense any hesitation, uncomfortableness, delays in communication etc. I take that as being done. Unless a genuine excuse and apology are provided of course. Anyway, just food for thought...I'll shut up now lol.
It's all good. First time she apologized all over herself. Was seemingly genuinely apologetic. Offered me a reduced rate for the makeup session. So I get what your saying, but.... Bottom line here. She's in business, no? She doesn't like me, fine. But grow up and tell me no, don't make me come back a 2nd time.
Very little to do with it.
It's the attitude of our local ladies. Flaking/ghosting is very very common among the locals - in general. Compare them to the visiting ladies, among whom it is much much less common.
Keep stats. See 100 local SPs and 100 visiting SPs. Compare the ghosting rates at the end.
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Well I don't really see enough ladies to keep stats lol, but so far I have NEVER been ghosted. Made to wait a little by travelling ladies who maybe try to cram in a few too many clients, but never ghosted. I actually talk to sp's about this kind of stuff, and I've been told I get in because of MY approach and attitude. I guess I'm just lucky.
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