Assertive SP?...

[rockmyworld36]

...for lack of a better title.
OK, I have a question. I like a girl to be assertive during sex. If a guy likes the girl to lead during their dance session, is that more dependent on her personality, and style, or do they prefer follow the clients lead?

 

[Extreme April]

...for lack of a better title.
OK, I have a question. I like a girl to be assertive during sex. If a guy likes the girl to lead during their dance session, is that more dependent on her personality, and style, or do they prefer follow the clients lead?

I like to take the lead ....especially when I first get to know a client.
I have to feel totally comfortable before I can just hand the reins to the client.
Usually it takes me a visit or two.
love and laughs
April

 

[namssa]

Perhaps.....

A little of both I would think, depends on the personality of the SP and the client and their chemistry. Some tend to be more assertive, some more passive. Her personality would be the most determining factor in my opinion.

I think the word that would be more fitting would be "assertive" rather than agressive. Less of a negative connotation.

 

[rockmyworld36]

I'm not surprised, April. LOL You probably know exactly what I mean

I'm sure you don't have any trouble running the show!

It may be a matter of experimentation to get that right personality that is assertive, but stops short of the whips and pegging.

(not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's what gets you off)

 

[Extreme April]

I'm not surprised, April. LOL You probably know exactly what I mean

I'm sure you don't have any trouble running the show!

It may be a matter of experimentation to get that right personality that is assertive, but stops short of the whips and pegging.

(not that there's anything wrong with that, if that's what gets you off)

Well I can do that too...if the client prefers...but even then...I need a session or two. Unless you are talking about PMSING. Hee hee then that is another story. I like to be sensual most of the times

But I know what you mean about being assertive. I am aim to please but still need that comfort level. Some are easier to get there easier then others. But my usual is two sessio

love and laughs
April

 

[namssa]

Well April, you were certainly assertive with me during our last session. Have to say that I enjoyed the time we spent together, you definetly took control of the session.

Hoping that I can enjoy more of the same on my next visit!

 

[rockmyworld36]

Well I can do that too...if the client prefers...but even then...I need a session or two. Unless you are talking about PMSING. Hee hee then that is another story. I like to be sensual most of the times

But I know what you mean about being assertive. I am aim to please but still need that comfort level. Some are easier to get there easier then others. But my usual is two sessio

love and laughs
April

Good to know... it makes sensd that the sessions would naturally get more intense as a girl would get to know you.

That being said, guys, does it make sense to limit your first session or 2 with a new SP?? Wait until you know her better before you order everything on the menu? lol

How often do guys just go for a massage and a HJ, or Russian finale??

 

[Extreme April]

The SP will usually ask you what you like in the beginning. If it is on her menu then she will gladly accomodate you.

I thought you were asking about something like tying her up or rough sex lol.
That would take a few visits before an SP would be comfortable. At least it would be for me. And only if she provides this service hee hee.

Now if you had a session with a SP and it was just regular stuff and then wanted a Russian the next time....I am sure any SP that provides this service would be glad to help you with this even the first or second visit.

I hope this answers the questions you were asking.

love and laughs
April

 

[rockmyworld36]

almost....

LOL. That depends, Anna. I love the outfits , and the sex slave idea is hot. I like to take that not quite as far as the floggings. Teasing and sex slavery, oh yeah! I'm just not into the pain part.

You never know though, one's tastes do evolve over time

 

[namssa]

mmmmmmmmmm........

Sounds interesting Anna!