Ass vs Boobs (Rant)

Alix Turner

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But, we don't actually know if Mutt's advice was "out of the blue". We have no context. For all we know, the woman asked his opinion.
That's true, I assumed he had intended it as a compliment and not been asked for his opinion. I don't have any problem giving an honest answer when someone requests your opinion.
 

badbadboy

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Whut? The PC Police are invading the bedroom and its now socially unacceptable to infer her tits are wonderful and augmentation is totally unnecessary in our opinion?

Sort of stifling offering honest off the cuff compliments don't you think?
 

westwoody

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Sort of stifling offering honest off the cuff compliments don't you think?
You might mean it sincerely. The recipient might take it the other way.

If you know for certain it will be taken the right way then for sure, go ahead.
 

Alix Turner

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Whut? The PC Police are invading the bedroom and its now socially unacceptable to infer her tits are wonderful and augmentation is totally unnecessary in our opinion?

Sort of stifling offering honest off the cuff compliments don't you think?
Nah, it is pretty easy to tell someone you like something about them without stepping on what they might wish to do with it.
 

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I'm an ass man too
A good assfuck is waaaay more fun than a titfuck LoL
 

Tugela

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Alright, I'll work with your premise and re-phrase "Don't get lasik, I like your glasses" "Don't get hair treatment, I like your widows peak." or "Don't lose more weight I like your dad bod"

I think penis size is often alluded to in order to imply attractiveness or used as a measure of attractiveness. Underwear models have a variety of methods of making their bulge look more impressive, and the vast majority of paid performers in porn are well endowed. Advertising is very targeted these days, if you are not its intended audience you may not notice it but my point wasn't about dicks, it was about perception. What you think of as a commodity with an industry around it is still part of an individuals body to feel insecure or comfortable about, and also make changes to as they see fit.

I spent seven years smiling with my mouth closed while everyone around me told me a space in my teeth wasn't a big deal, that it gave me character, that it wasn't noticeable. I felt like I shouldn't want to change it and yet I was still so insecure until I finally went ahead and did something about it when I went to university. I wish I had done it sooner, it changed my life to smile without covering my mouth with my hand, or immediately feeling embarrassed.

If someone else wants a boob job, their nose done, botox, or hair extensions because they really don't feel confident the way they are, telling them they shouldn't can make the decision less comfortable.
The point is, women spend a lot of effort to present their breasts to their advantage. I don't know any man who does the same thing with their penis. If it was equivalent, you would see a ton of advertising emphasizing it's appearance when clothed, and a ton of sculpted clothing intended for that purpose: but you see none of that, or very little anyway. There is no equivalent of a "pushup bra" in every second man's underwear drawer.

I am quite happy to tell people who want boob jobs, nose jobs, or any other sort of body modification they want because they are insecure or not confident, that they should not do it. It does not make you a better person, the old you is still inside your body. I can understand it if there is an actual physical defect that attracts undesirable attention, but that is not the case with something like a boob job. Those people are taking a body part that has absolutely nothing wrong with it and stuffing pieces of plastic inside to make it look bigger for no reason other than it being bigger. It is pure vanity. What they are saying is that the only value they bring to a relationship is the size of their breasts and they are diminished as a person if their boobs are smaller. I don't see that as being healthy.
 

Tugela

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Mutt66 wrote this:



And Alix responded with this:




But, we don't actually know if Mutt's advice was "out of the blue". We have no context. For all we know, the woman asked his opinion.
Usually when a guy tells a woman that without prompting what he is really saying is that he thinks she (or in this case, her boobs) are stunning. I am not sure why someone would think that meant otherwise. I think that if a woman reacted to a comment like that by saying "Huh? What do you mean by that??" then it is time to get the hell out of there because she is not worth it. Hanging around means getting into a relationship that is just going to cause you a shit load of unhappiness.
 

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Usually when a guy tells a woman that without prompting what he is really saying is that he thinks she (or in this case, her boobs) are stunning. I am not sure why someone would think that meant otherwise.
Totally agreed.
 

islander1-1

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Boobs. Yes I like my ladies curvy, very curvy. The bigger the boobs the better. Love burying my face between them. Perky puffy nips is a bonus. They can be soft and cuddly or bolt one, up and out there or saggy.

Re penis size. Last month I was back to see one of my fave SPs. She commented that mine was a lot bigger, asked how many other SPs I have seen. I listed some off.. her reply. See in the past you don't use it you loose it. Glad you got it back.
 

lenny

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Re penis size. Last month I was back to see one of my fave SPs. She commented that mine was a lot bigger, asked how many other SPs I have seen. I listed some off.. her reply. See in the past you don't use it you loose it. Glad you got it back.
"Why the “use it or lose it” approach does your relationship -- and your body -- good."

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/sex-use-it-or-lose-it

"...On average, men get three to five erections per night in addition to erections that result from sexual activity."
 

Peyton Alexander

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To me all women always have something about them that makes them radiant and beautiful beings. I've always been a big supporter of "do what you want" with your body -- whether that's plastic surgery, tattoos, etc. The strongest and most irresistible quality of a woman is her confidence and it doesn't matter if enhancements or naturalness is what makes them feel that way. They always say "It's what's on the inside that counts" but in modern society with the massive expectations put on women sometimes you need that exterior change to feel the way you do on the inside. I would be lying if I said that I've never considered manmade intervention on some aspects of myself. It doesn't mean you think you're not good enough or unattractive.

The only time I will criticize someone for getting enhancements is if they do it in an unsafe manner. Aside from that it really doesn't matter what they do to make themselves shine. You want a breast augmentation? Do it. You want lip enhancement? Fill your boots. Just be safe and seek out qualified individuals who actually care about your well being and not just a quick buck.

Some of the most incredible women I've had the privilege to play with wouldn't be considered to have "perfect bodies" or whatever. Their comfort with themselves (both enhanced and natural) has always been the biggest draw for me. Their intuitiveness with their own being and sexuality has made them the ultimate partner.

Speaking as someone that's always been self conscious of my thick legs (damn you genetics) it's taken a long time for me to grow to accept and love the way the look. But that's not the case for everyone and it shouldn't be held as the gold standard to just "love yourself" the way you are. There are things you can't change but there's a lot of things you can. Even to the outside world a woman with smaller breasts feels that she would be more comfortable with larger, who are we to judge? Different strokes for different folks.
 

johnA27

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Speaking as someone that's always been self conscious of my thick legs (damn you genetics) it's taken a long time for me to grow to accept and love the way the look. But that's not the case for everyone and it shouldn't be held as the gold standard to just "love yourself" the way you are. There are things you can't change but there's a lot of things you can. Even to the outside world a woman with smaller breasts feels that she would be more comfortable with larger, who are we to judge? Different strokes for different folks.
Peyton if your legs are "thick" then mine are like pillars. Course I am going by the pics dont hold it against me if they're actually thick. Or do hold it against me iono >.<
 

Peyton Alexander

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Peyton if your legs are "thick" then mine are like pillars. Course I am going by the pics dont hold it against me if they're actually thick. Or do hold it against me iono >.<
Oh they're large. To the point that the disparity between my waist and thighs makes jeans shopping the equivalent of pulling teeth.

But that's the hand that I was dealt and I decided years ago that if my legs were going to be big then they were going to be muscular. I squat 230lbs+, I've learned to embrace the strength that I have. But like I said, I'd be lying if I never thought about surgical augmentation on them. However there's not much you can change about that.
 

johnA27

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Oh they're large. To the point that the disparity between my waist and thighs makes jeans shopping the equivalent of pulling teeth.

But that's the hand that I was dealt and I decided years ago that if my legs were going to be big then they were going to be muscular. I squat 230lbs+, I've learned to embrace the strength that I have. But like I said, I'd be lying if I never thought about surgical augmentation on them. However there's not much you can change about that.
Well you know what, if life gives you lemons make lemonade. Or get mad and make combustible lemons and bomb life's office.

Holy shit 230lbs+ though... Should I be scared?
 

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