The reason why women give that advice is because they're thinking, "well gee, how do I want to be treated".... assuming they are already interested in the guy to the point of dating them. That's why it's such shitty advice. It's only good advice when you're already dating (except for the "cum on face" part, some women who have boyfriends like that). Before that, to get her interested in you, you have to show you respect her but not to the point where you become her dog. If you respect her too much, she won't respect you. She's looking to you to guide her and show her the way. If you need to err on which side of respect or disrespect, you should probably err on the slight disrespect side, perhaps bordering on arrogance but not too much. On the other hand, too much humility will turn off these kinds of girls - they'll walk all over you. You need to illicit interest by showing her that you know how to show her a good time and will manage everything to ensure she does. These women want to be owned and treated well because they know every man wants them so they have egos that go with that, and if means they are effectively female bullies, then that's too bad. That's why you see those guys in the mall acting like brutes, the ones with the "decent" looking girls. If that's the kind of girl you're interested in, then that's the kind of B.S. you have to put up with and even if every decent part of you says you would never treat a girl like that, you might have to pretend you would. I would caution against it if you're a decent guy, and forget those girls who think highly of their looks.no offence but women give the worst advice about getting women. "Be nice to her" "buy her things" "tell her you like her" "dont cum on her face"
In actuality, they go for the complete opposite. Go to any mall and see guys with decent looking girls, and see how they treat them.






