I knew some chick for a few months but i always made comments about how time consuming and annoying relationships are. Thought this girl has a nice ass and body so out of the blue i just asked her for sex. She responded with ..shouldnt we go out first? Was it wrong for just wanting someone for just sex? Anybody else try this approach and what happened? She was opened minded and we're still friends. But i know some females would slap my face.
Asking for sex
- Thread starter LittleAsianGuy
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Well, if we're not forward we're called wimps or pussies or chickenshit. If we're forward we're called assholes, selfish, rude... I could go on.
I say ask. If they don't take it as a compliment that's their issue.
A girl like the one you talk about is someone who isn't into casual sex. Eventually you'll find one who is.
It seems that most women aren't into the FWB idea.... for them a friend with benefits is someone who will drive them somewhere or take care of their cat for the weekend. Those aren't benefits I'm interested in.
Are you willing to risk friendships or your reputation with stuffed skirts (y'know, like stuffed shirts)?
I say ask. If they don't take it as a compliment that's their issue.
A girl like the one you talk about is someone who isn't into casual sex. Eventually you'll find one who is.
It seems that most women aren't into the FWB idea.... for them a friend with benefits is someone who will drive them somewhere or take care of their cat for the weekend. Those aren't benefits I'm interested in.
Are you willing to risk friendships or your reputation with stuffed skirts (y'know, like stuffed shirts)?
I tried this approach 3 times and had one who just wanted sex who accepted this offer
Its worked for me in the past. You never know when females want to cut to the chase like guys.
Most females i deal with find my comments funny and say im a bit perverted. There are some who advoid me ...and tell everybody im f cked up. Dont really care though cause life is short and gotta have some fun
Having known her for a few months, i don't consider it wrong to suggest sharing a mutually enjoyable activity, like having a drink together, going dancing at a club, or sticking your weenie up in between her bare legs.
When she suggested going out first, you could have sealed the deal by saying, "Sure, let's screw after the movie tonight, ok?" And then you're off to the 24/7 porn store.
I have never tried your approach, but i'm often tempted to ask total strangers on the sidwalk if they want to go to bed with me. But that would be "wrong" wouldn't it? At least if they aren't SWs, eh?
Punt prefers emotional connectivity over statistical probability.
I'd go out first. Flirt a little. Take insatiable over inflatable every time.
I'd go out first. Flirt a little. Take insatiable over inflatable every time.
try this,
get a little buzzed from drinks or smoke alittle weed together. Make a move and see if she bites. If not, say sorry and say you're a little messed up.
get a little buzzed from drinks or smoke alittle weed together. Make a move and see if she bites. If not, say sorry and say you're a little messed up.
Thats just wrong in so many ways! lolWhen I was young it was called sport f cking..
What! dont ya like sports!
Regards
H
