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Asking a woman to have sex?

sevenofnine

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you know its not that completely far fetched.

im married right, so i keep things pretty close to the vest and prefer escorts.

but i see, in my work and well my day to day travels alot of women, and im older, and i guess i look ok and what ever don't know, but seeing an escort regularly is or has taken the pressure of me, in that im very relaxed in meeting women, i mean im not drueling all over them like some horny dog.

its sometimes we or i just look at a women and well they know im thinking in sexual terms. and they don't seem to mind.
i don't like blurt it out, you wanna like fuck or whatever,
i donno but i have had pretty frank sexual discussions with some women,

i would love to be single again, women i think are easy sex is easy. its well relationships that are hard.
and im in my late fifties so any relationship i have with a women is well just a passing thing any way i mean for fun, its not like im looking for a family or to start one.

but just tonight leaving work this incredibly good looking women mature women who i have barely said hi to she works in my building we share the elevator and a coffee table or whatever, i mean its a work place i don't want to be all over her and be rude to her we both have to work there, so what is the point of me flirting with her and she thinking what a jerk, and im married and seeing an escort so why bother,
but she gives me a flirtatous sort of a pat on the back and tells me don't get into any trouble on the week end,
she is beautiful, and well she knows i love the way she looks but it stops there for me, im at work, why be a jerk and make it awkward for us to work in the same building

but honestly there was something about the twinkle in her eyes when she said don't get into any trouble

i don't know but i would just love to be single again.
don't really know what you single guys are paying escorts for,

there are some fantastic women out there, and i mean fantastic women out there.
and so who cares if you fall flat on your face,
crash and burn,
isn't that part of the fun the chase.
with an escort dam i love you girls but well there is no chase,
you get your money and its a happy ending.
all us guys are great, and were the best lovers you have ever had,

i think its true, we married men don't pay for sex, we pay so the escorts leave and don't phone our wifes, and make a scene etc etc.
i don't know what you single guys are paying for, i guess your paying for sex.


maybe younger girls are harder to get,
but older women i think they just kind of what sex, same as me,
 

InnocentBoy

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The only escort I recall pushing the tag teaming lately has been Melina so she's your girl.:clap2:
Under these circumstances however I would expect she write a review on you two instead of the other way around.
Some day we should go for dim sum. Then head out & share the same sp like a true father n son team would :p
 

Dickson

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you know its not that completely far fetched.

im married right, so i keep things pretty close to the vest and prefer escorts.

but i see, in my work and well my day to day travels alot of women, and im older, and i guess i look ok and what ever don't know, but seeing an escort regularly is or has taken the pressure of me, in that im very relaxed in meeting women, i mean im not drueling all over them like some horny dog.

its sometimes we or i just look at a women and well they know im thinking in sexual terms. and they don't seem to mind.
i don't like blurt it out, you wanna like fuck or whatever,
i donno but i have had pretty frank sexual discussions with some women,

i would love to be single again, women i think are easy sex is easy. its well relationships that are hard.
and im in my late fifties so any relationship i have with a women is well just a passing thing any way i mean for fun, its not like im looking for a family or to start one.

but just tonight leaving work this incredibly good looking women mature women who i have barely said hi to she works in my building we share the elevator and a coffee table or whatever, i mean its a work place i don't want to be all over her and be rude to her we both have to work there, so what is the point of me flirting with her and she thinking what a jerk, and im married and seeing an escort so why bother,
but she gives me a flirtatous sort of a pat on the back and tells me don't get into any trouble on the week end,
she is beautiful, and well she knows i love the way she looks but it stops there for me, im at work, why be a jerk and make it awkward for us to work in the same building

but honestly there was something about the twinkle in her eyes when she said don't get into any trouble

i don't know but i would just love to be single again.
don't really know what you single guys are paying escorts for,

there are some fantastic women out there, and i mean fantastic women out there.
and so who cares if you fall flat on your face,
crash and burn,
isn't that part of the fun the chase.
with an escort dam i love you girls but well there is no chase,
you get your money and its a happy ending.
all us guys are great, and were the best lovers you have ever had,

i think its true, we married men don't pay for sex, we pay so the escorts leave and don't phone our wifes, and make a scene etc etc.
i don't know what you single guys are paying for, i guess your paying for sex.


maybe younger girls are harder to get,
but older women i think they just kind of what sex, same as me,
Interesting comments 7of9. I don't find picking up ladies easy at all. Maybe I am not that good looking or ladies just do not see me as the kinda guy they want to sleep with. I have never had it easy. I say the same thing about you married guys. Why see an SP if you got a wife or GF at home. What is the point. Why pay for the milk when you have a cow at home. It just does not make any sense to me.

I am paying a women to spend time with me. I am paying them to show interest in me and make me feel wanted. I pay them to have dinner with me. I pay them to have sex with me. I pay for them to spend the night with me. I am not as good or lucky as you. I travel a lot so I have no real friends. Just people I know from work ie clients, investors, suppliers, employees. I try to keep the hobby and work completely apart. Or as far as possible. I would not go out with any of my staff but I will hire an SP to play my personal assistant and even travel with me. I have had some hot ladies work for me but I will not look at them or even think of them in that manner. Yes I have hired SPs who look like them and fuck those SP thinking of those ladies in my office. But I really need to ensure I do not bring those thoughts to the office. That could cost me dearly. I will not touch them other than a hand shake. I will not hug them and certainly not kiss them on the cheek which is common in Europe. Many think there is something wrong with me because of it.

I have never been good at the chase and I do not like feeling like a looser who is turned down. I went though that phase while I was in school and I had enough turn downs to last a life time. Even now when I pay I get turndowns. So I improve my odds by paying.

See it is funny, there are days I wish I could be married and you wish you were single.
 

vancouverman

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I agree with 7of9 ....
This is one of many advantages of being (way) over 40.....
The moment that I switch from approaching girls 30+ to ... 40+.... my success rate jump as well.

Life is beautiful.... again

Life is too short to waste time on girls that do not want sex :)






 

vancity_cowboy

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hey, vman... nice to see you - best of the new year and all that!

i decided to take some of the posters in this thread at their word today. i was grabbing a bite of lunch and being served by this absolute pixie of a cute east indian girl. she had THE most gorgeous eyes! my lunch was late becuase they had run out of the selection earlier, but had just received replacements that needed to be taken out of the box - or at least so she told me and it seemed a reasonable excuse because everybody else was getting their stuff on time. finally it came and again she apologized earnestly for the situation. instead of mumbling something back. i looked her right in the eye and said in my best girl-talk, 'thank you, and thank you very much for caring (CARING? jeez, the last time i used that word was 1987 or something!) - and i hope you don't mind me saying this, but you have absolutely THE most beautiful eyes.' her face absolutely lit up and she said, 'thank YOU!' then her eyes began to flash huge smiles. i ate my lunch, again the flashing eyes when she checked how i was doing, and when i signalled for the bill, she came by with it and left me with an unasked for (and unbilled for) dessert, a slice of hot apple pie with vanilla ice cream!

i guess it could be said that it could have been for the lunch entree being late, but in my heart of hearts i will go to my grave thinking it was because of my respectful but slightly daring comment about her beautiful eyes. if it had been in a bar or club i'm sure i could have left with her. so there you go - practice makes perfect... :)

(and yes, i did check the dessert for spit and snot!) :pound:
 
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Bartdude

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You guys are fucking rubes.

When will you stop fulfilling this person's obvious need for attention? :pound:
 

sevenofnine

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girls love to be appreciated and respected,

i used to have a thing for a star bucks girl cute
she had the nicest smile. and i told her,

girls love honesty, but in a respectful way

for dam sure when i see a beautiful women she knows i think she is beautiful. but its more in they way my eyes linger and make eye contact and smile, and just say hi

as opposed to saying dam your hot and i would like to fuck you,

she knows that, im a guy she is a girl, she doesn't have to be told i need to fuck

i donn't know, i meet lots and lots of people so im lucky i suppose the odds are in my favor that im going to meet someone who is going to smile back
you can't win them all,

and i try to be nice and honest, and just me, i like women but not in a rude way or a perverted way. and i think i am a nice guy,
and i think like girls well we get along,

i mean i see this one girl she is like stuck up, and we dont get along she is hot but alittle bit stuck up, i hear her on the phone she is always fighing with her boyfriend,
its like stuck up bitches she or they maybe hot, but i don't like them they don't like me, so whatever

but i try to be a nice guy and enjoy life, and be respectful and all that,
and women sex are part of life,
im just saying when i run into a women who feels the way i do,
that well we try to be nice and respectful to people and do whats right, yeah for sure, but we can still enjoy life. can we not.

any way i get along very well with like minded women. always have, no matter what age i am,
never had a problem with women,
its just relationships are hard going the distance is hard,

if you can't bump into some one and put a smile on there face like what the fuck is your problem,
 

vancouverman

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vancity_cowboy ... thx ... as my tagline says .... old PERBerts never die ( in most cases, they just change the ID )

Personally, I always comment on their hair, outfits, or look ..... I never got a rude response ... mostly smile.... but sometimes more.





 

TPIR

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It will occasionally work, my thinking is most of us are too scared to ask. When I was younger, dumber, braver, on a trip out of my hometown ( I can't do this where I live half the town knows me) I was staying at an okay motel, nothing fancy, but not a hole either. I had gone out for a late dinner, had a few drinks, and on the 2 min walk back to the motel all I thought about was how horny I was. I asked the front desk girl if she knew where a guy might be able to find some action in this small town. She named a local bar that might possibly work, then added "Or wait 2 hours until my shift is done and I'll cum see you in your room" she was average looking, a little chubby, but eager to please. Women get urges to, and its not like they never think about sex. I applaud people brave enough to ask. Now I would not ask a desk clerk where I could maybe hook up, i am simply too scared to ask for some reason. But 15 years ago, and 6 drinks at dinner, I had the guts to, and it worked.
 

TPIR

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Ms. Sarah, I am new here, so please excuse my ignorance, but what happened to him, did he die or something.
 

87112

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Usually when someone get banned the explanation is on that perbatory thread. Or did LAG try to hit on a mod? :pound:
 

lenny

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Usually when someone get banned the explanation is on that perbatory thread. Or did LAG try to hit on a mod? :pound:
It has been stated it was an Administrative not Moderator banning & that was why there was nothing in Perbatory about it.

My guess is it's something to do with his claim, fantasy or not, that he took the hand of a non SP female in her workplace & placed it on his dick.
 

newatit

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nice thread, and the one thing missing is the hint that maybe the lady should ask you, in her own way. Like that little comment of not getting into trouble? Now being a bit more provocative, I might have turned around and asked her if she had plans for the weekend. Or was she planning on trouble that weekend? There are probably far more free gals out there who would never particiapate in the prostitution trade, that want sex from some one for the love, relief, etc, than you know. They are just ugly themselves, but maybe not to everyone, and maybe they are awkward at letting it be known, but learn to read the signs. A little pat in the elevator, comment, come on, yep it can be there. Gals do ask, they just aren't so blunt as this guy
 
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