There is a difference between fucking for fun and fucking because that’s your job. I don’t mind him seeing other escorts ( he knew me in my personal life; became a client for a few months and we started dating after ). But for sure everything should be done in moderation : I don’t want to feel any changement in his way of interacting with me. As soon as he entertain a type of relation that is not purely monetary transactional it’s cheating for me.
So if he is entertaining another woman to have free sex with her that’s cheating so it’s a no for me. If he have an arrangement with a SB that’s also cheating ( because you have to put more than just money and sex into that type of relationship). I prefer him to see a few escorts ; he keep it respectful; professional for the girl and no attach.
But he is an adult; he do whatever he feels like doing. I don’t even have time to search if he is cheating or not but the day I figure it out it’s over simple.
The main criteria for my husband will be to be able to really take care of me financially. I want to be a housewife; be there to take care of my kids and not be stress that I have to bring them to kindergarten or i have to go back to work 1month after I gave birth. So if he is capable to take care of me and the house and still have some coins in the saving account I think I can leave this job. I will have other side hustle not sex work related (my part time job for example) to be independent but the main income will be from him. But that’s not until he put that ring on my finger. I can do a few things like seeing less clients etc before we conclude the wedding but I’m not fully retiring without a real proof that he is serious about his commitment.
yeah I get that.
I have a one-way open relationship with my girl (only open on my end), but theres alot of rules, im not allowed to take girls on dates or do anything that may result in feelings developing. hence why I see escorts and sugar babies.
as a guy its easy to detach emotions from sex. im sure it is for some woman aswell.
makes sense, im only in my situation because I earn enough that my woman doesnt have to work, she still does but moreso part time, and will stay at home when we have children in the future.
how much would the guy have to earn for you to consider that?
