ashley madison or seeking arrangement

[silv3r fox]

hoping to get some info about ashley madison or seeking arrangement sites
which site is better?
whats the going price?
any new app or website?

i am looking for a sugar babe but have never used websites mentioned above, feel free to add your two cents
if you are female reading this, you can dm me, thank you

 

[ExpCharlee]

No, that’s my feedback 😂

 

[Burnie]

I’ve met lots of women from both sites. There are lots of fakes but they are easy to spot once you get familiar with it.
I have one SA arrangement that is going very well and a couple of AM ones too. The main difference is the SA involves payment and the AM does not. It’s primarily women looking for a FWB or relationship.
the key is to put in the effort and write decent responses, you will get results.
I interviewed 8 women from SA before settling on one. All of them were great but things like timing were the issue. I also wanted one that had a place to host. Some do not and it gets complicated. my current SA has a condo 5 minutes from my office which is perfect.
The AM ladies do not charge but nothing is truly free. They are a ton of fun and are primarily looking for good sex which they are not getting at home.

 

[apl16]

I’ve met lots of women from both sites. There are lots of fakes but they are easy to spot once you get familiar with it.
I have one SA arrangement that is going very well and a couple of AM ones too. The main difference is the SA involves payment and the AM does not. It’s primarily women looking for a FWB or relationship.
the key is to put in the effort and write decent responses, you will get results.
I interviewed 8 women from SA before settling on one. All of them were great but things like timing were the issue. I also wanted one that had a place to host. Some do not and it gets complicated. my current SA has a condo 5 minutes from my office which is perfect.
The AM ladies do not charge but nothing is truly free. They are a ton of fun and are primarily looking for good sex which they are not getting at home.

Both can be ok but it can take a lot of time and effort.....too much BS for me to continue with either...

Best to luck

 

[Lovelyboy]

I have tried AM and it's so much time consuming and full of fake and fraud. but there are some real a legit woman. I have exchanged info with few but they chicken out at the last minute and got scared of the satiation. The best experience i had was from Craigslist casual relationship section which is no longer available. Try Doublelist.com its similar to craigslist casual relationship, only difference is that it's not very popular yet.
If anyone one have any other suggestion to if there is any other good site.. Please share...

cheers

 

[wrathisJ]

I signed up with AM recently just to see what it was like. I got bored real quick, I didn't get any real responses. It almost seems like it's a world of AI, except the programming kinda sucks. I put a bit of effort at first, then I reverted to my usual sarcastic self. I don't really know the kinds of people that use AM. I think I was mainly curious what these people are like. Maybe I was targeting the wrong people. I would ask questions, but not get any answers. Seems kind of rude. I don't know. It was, for me, a WOT.

 

[silv3r fox]

I have tried AM and it's so much time consuming and full of fake and fraud. but there are some real a legit woman. I have exchanged info with few but they chicken out at the last minute and got scared of the satiation. The best experience i had was from Craigslist casual relationship section which is no longer available. Try Doublelist.com its similar to craigslist casual relationship, only difference is that it's not very popular yet.
If anyone one have any other suggestion to if there is any other good site.. Please share...

cheers

the best experiences i had were also from craigslist, never heard of doublelist, thanks for mentioning this site, will def check it out

 

[Gladstone]

I tried AM 5 or so years ago when I was nearing the end of an attachment and it became a lot of work since you did have to fight through a lot of somewhat contrived or manufactured conversation starters to get to the real ones. Decided to do the George Costanza route and be very open and truthful which really did work quite well when responding with members and I think there were some very legit folks on there. Did find a nice married woman who was in my age group at the time (50ish) who was simply bored at home....turned into more of a friendship over some very interesting lunches with great conversations and a few very nice hotel meets which were just ok, primarily because she must have led a very shelted sex life.... When AM had the hack and everything was blowing up for them including their own staff jumping ship and the financial issues I believe the ran into, a lot of us members jumped off too and never came back.....I don't think they ever recovered because as someone mentioned, AI kind of took over to get you hooked and signed up....

I never went back and found that the AMP.s and SP's may not have offered lunches at the Cactus Club but they sure helped deal with the underlying urges that I was trying to deal with....the costs were about the same when you factored in lunches and hotel rooms lol....

If you are really looking for intimacy and closeness beyond just physical with someone, you could try AM but i have no experience anymore. I think the physical is covered by sites like Tinder if you want to date or Perb or LL if you just want the physical only.

I do miss the lunches though and maybe that is a new revenue stream for some of the girls. Charging for a 90 minute lunch only date. I bet some of these girls could really hold a conversation and have some great stories....I think I may be a bit too old sexually for Charlee Beckett but I bet she would be one heckuva lunch date and conversationalist...

 

[Done1]

Tinder Tinder Tinder...

Doesn't it still require working off your Facebook account ?
...btw - A lot of security-minded SPs use AM believing there's added safety to it...

 

[4everinlove]

I have used SA on and off the past 6-8 years? Can’t remember. If you do your homework and put in the effort you will find some gems and some great sex. I signed up in early December and have met 4 girls already and have another planned. I am even doing something I have never done before and flying someone in from Montreal as she’s so beautiful and sweet and reasonably priced. She has sent me videos already and we will have a great few days together.

I have found the price range from $300 to $1000 PPM. And the 4 I have met has come within that range. I negotiated the $1000 down to $700 and that was the best few hours of Sex I have had in a long time. Even when we were taking a break and cuddled in bed she reached down and started stroking and began sucking me off again. She came and squirted 8 times. We did some damage (wetness wise) to that hotel room.

Most of these girls are under 25 and even early 20’s and go to UBC. Picked up on girl on campus.

Anyways. It takes work and time but you can find some gems. The only caveat is that SA does not like negotiating PPMs or any type of transactional sexual exchange. I try to talk to these girls off of the website via texting….Snapchat…. Or other platforms. Saying that I keep getting banned and kicked off the website even though I try To be discrete. This time I lasted until 3.5 weeks and got what I was looking for and some numbers for the rest of the year. Hahah

My two cents and experience

 

[Vandawg]

Anyways. It takes work and time but you can find some gems. The only caveat is that SA does not like negotiating PPMs or any type of transactional sexual exchange. I try to talk to these girls off of the website via texting….Snapchat…. Or other platforms. Saying that I keep getting banned and kicked off the website even though I try To be discrete. This time I lasted until 3.5 weeks and got what I was looking for and some numbers for the rest of the year. Hahah

My two cents and experience

My experience exactly. It takes time and effort but worth it IMO for what you can get out of it. Also echo this advice on being careful what you say on their app. Take it to text or something ASAP.

 

[4everinlove]

When you get banned, do you just create a new account? Does it flag your credit card? asking for a friend....lol

Have used different CC’s. Different email and billing addresses and most recently even a VPN network so they don’t track IP address. It’s a lot of unnecessary work but man the sex is great and worth it. I should be well loaded for a few months before I need to create another account.

 

[Lovelyboy]

Tinder Tinder Tinder...

It requires phone verification and my number has already been banned. Can’t use texting app numbers anymore. Any suggestions getting around that. Or just get a pay as you for a month and use that number ?

 

[ExpCharlee]

I tried AM 5 or so years ago when I was nearing the end of an attachment and it became a lot of work since you did have to fight through a lot of somewhat contrived or manufactured conversation starters to get to the real ones. Decided to do the George Costanza route and be very open and truthful which really did work quite well when responding with members and I think there were some very legit folks on there. Did find a nice married woman who was in my age group at the time (50ish) who was simply bored at home....turned into more of a friendship over some very interesting lunches with great conversations and a few very nice hotel meets which were just ok, primarily because she must have led a very shelted sex life.... When AM had the hack and everything was blowing up for them including their own staff jumping ship and the financial issues I believe the ran into, a lot of us members jumped off too and never came back.....I don't think they ever recovered because as someone mentioned, AI kind of took over to get you hooked and signed up....

I never went back and found that the AMP.s and SP's may not have offered lunches at the Cactus Club but they sure helped deal with the underlying urges that I was trying to deal with....the costs were about the same when you factored in lunches and hotel rooms lol....

If you are really looking for intimacy and closeness beyond just physical with someone, you could try AM but i have no experience anymore. I think the physical is covered by sites like Tinder if you want to date or Perb or LL if you just want the physical only.

I do miss the lunches though and maybe that is a new revenue stream for some of the girls. Charging for a 90 minute lunch only date. I bet some of these girls could really hold a conversation and have some great stories....I think I may be a bit too old sexually for Charlee Beckett but I bet she would be one heckuva lunch date and conversationalist...

You're not too old for me, trust me! I prioritize clients who are 40+ and really love older gentlemen. My default is slow, loving, intimate GFE. My 3h lunch date option would be great for us! http://www.experiencecharlee.com/sessions

ALSO just a note that charging less to just go for lunch and talk doesn't make sense for a lot of us, sometimes I find holding a conversation for an extended period of time more emotionally taxing than physical intimacy. I know I speak for a lot of us when I say we really like doing mix of it all!

 

[Lovelyboy]

Try Feeld, it’s kink friendly dating app. Bumble is also popular

Thanks, I will check out Feeld, just downloaded the app. Also have anyone tried "WhatsYourPrice" ??? seems line similar to Seeking Arrangements or Ashley Madison

 

[Nokia101]

I went on SA three years ago and met four really nice girls and ended up seeing one Canadian born Korean girl.. she was fine that lasted about a year. Been on and off SA now and it’s pretty flaky on both sides. People scamming (Bitcoin, paid coffee dates etc). For the girls lots of guys obviously don’t want to pay them anything. But it is a lot of work you have to put in… like a second full time job lol. I do have a few i see and pay around $500-$800 definitely worth it as we spend three to four hours and have sex multiple times.

 

[PeterPanned]

If it takes that much work, wouldn't any mainstream dating app be better?

 

[Gladstone]

You're not too old for me, trust me! I prioritize clients who are 40+ and really love older gentlemen. My default is slow, loving, intimate GFE. My 3h lunch date option would be great for us! http://www.experiencecharlee.com/sessions

ALSO just a note that charging less to just go for lunch and talk doesn't make sense for a lot of us, sometimes I find holding a conversation for an extended period of time more emotionally taxing than physical intimacy. I know I speak for a lot of us when I say we really like doing mix of it all!

Thanks for the comments regarding us older gentlemen....intimate is the key word in there so that certainly is encouraging....having a slow, loving intimate GFE lunch would and should take more energy than a 3 hour session in bed so the mix at the same hourly rate seems pretty reasonable. I expect I will enjoy the mix too....

 

[markjenson1983]

hoping to get some info about ashley madison or seeking arrangement sites
which site is better?
whats the going price?
any new app or website?

i am looking for a sugar babe but have never used websites mentioned above, feel free to add your two cents
if you are female reading this, you can dm me, thank you

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AM is legit, but there’s a tonne of fake profiles on there…I’d say close to 40-50%, in my experience.It’s also very, very expensive for guys, free for girls. Tips:I generally don’t message girls unless they view my profile- you can see who’s viewed you in settings. Send a wink, share your private pics, and see who responds by messaging you back AND viewing your profile. If/when you join, don’t rush into buying credit. Every so often, and it does happen fairly regularly, a special offer will pop up. Basically, if you wait these credits are effectively half price. Good luck with it- I am an athletic, muscular, decent looking guy. My messages/responses and bio were polite, respectful, well written, etc, and I did not get a sniff of anything apart from two really lame coffee dates which amounted to nothing. Saying that, I was quite particular…didn’t want to “date” any larger/chubby girls, but if you’re ok with that, fill your boots up, son!

 

[jackjack]

How do you tell if a profile is fake?