Are Western sex workers reluctant to kiss?
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I like kissing because it sets the mood, kinda like foreplay. Depends on what kinda kisses though.I never understood why some guys want to kiss sp's, or any girl really
I mean there is nothing bad about it, but just don't understand the appeal, I can understand having a girl giving me a bj, but what is the thrill in slobbering in each other's mouth?? there are no sex pleasure organs in the mouth, I'm happy to get bj and have sex with the girl, kissing is a waste of time really
To each his own I guess
Lol, sounds like you've written material for SeinfeldI never understood why some guys want to kiss sp's, or any girl really
I mean there is nothing bad about it, but just don't understand the appeal, I can understand having a girl giving me a bj, but what is the thrill in slobbering in each other's mouth?? there are no sex pleasure organs in the mouth, I'm happy to get bj and have sex with the girl, kissing is a waste of time really
ound:ound:ound::clap2:.I enjoy kissing,not so much with sp's that offer bbbj,especially if i'm the 4-5 client of the day. The thought of 5 raw hogs being there is just a little past my comfort level.Best kisser i ever met? Her name was Ginger, she worked for secret cravings.Ah memoriesMy sp doesn't kiss, its the one thing I miss.
I go beyond kissing I mean the other sp I was a regular with was very oral.
I mean she would kiss, but she would take anything in her mouth that I happen to put there and just went yummy or moaned with delight.
We would do shots and exchange fluid. If things were dry I would use her spit.
If things were to wet she would enjoy whatever I put in her mouth,
Even her own juices,
A very oral women changes the way you have sex. Not just kissing,
but like I said how many women will suck your fingers dry when they are wet with her own juices. Or get drunk with her and exchange shots.
I love a womens mouth tongue, I love its taste the sensation of it.
Its the only thing I miss with the women I see, other then that she is the best.
Snow balling though, I don't think Im up for not yet,
where is spermy when you need him.
I saw a lady advertize that, I didn't even know what it meant, but Im not there yet.
I go beyond kissing I mean the other sp I was a regular with was very oral.
I mean she would kiss, but she would take anything in her mouth that I happen to put there and just went yummy or moaned with delight.
We would do shots and exchange fluid. If things were dry I would use her spit.
If things were to wet she would enjoy whatever I put in her mouth,
Even her own juices,
A very oral women changes the way you have sex. Not just kissing,
but like I said how many women will suck your fingers dry when they are wet with her own juices. Or get drunk with her and exchange shots.
I love a womens mouth tongue, I love its taste the sensation of it.
Its the only thing I miss with the women I see, other then that she is the best.
Snow balling though, I don't think Im up for not yet,
where is spermy when you need him.
I saw a lady advertize that, I didn't even know what it meant, but Im not there yet.
if you like kissing, look for SP who offers REAL GFE. and I agree with edd, kissing sets the mood
Sometimes kissing does more for me & gets me harder than anything else in the bedroom....if you like kissing, look for SP who offers REAL GFE. and I agree with edd, kissing sets the mood
I think this is true for many, many people...male and female.
However, there was a time, in the not-too-distant past, when kissing was not commonplace in the SP world. Many factors have contributed to this change in the culture in Vancouver (note Lenny's use of the term Western sex workers and you can figure out from where and how this change originated) and, since the entrance of the term all-inclusive GFE (approx 2000+), it is now widely expected. ie. if the competition offers it, then the next worker will feel the pressure...
Whoever made mention of no sex organs in the mouth, it's not about direct stimulation of a sex organ. There are lots of sensitive areas of the human body which although don't stimulate someone directly provide immense arousal. Kissing, the lips and tongue really do it for some people. It can be a great way to transfer passion, energy, and a sense of intamicy (wether real or illusion) between two people.
I've met providers you can tell by the way that they kiss that they'd rather not be doing it, some that are doing it because it's in the job description and are ambivalent about it, and some that kiss like they mean it (I hesitate to say they enjoy it because you can never know). I don't kiss the first ones, second group only during warming up, and the ones that seem to enjoy it? GOD BLESS YOU! Lol there are few things that turn me on faster or better.
Not everyone is here for the same reason. Some just want pure raw physical, some look for a lot of mental stimulation and still others look for a full experience of everything. Different strokes for different folks and there are a myriad of ladies to cater to everyone.
I've met providers you can tell by the way that they kiss that they'd rather not be doing it, some that are doing it because it's in the job description and are ambivalent about it, and some that kiss like they mean it (I hesitate to say they enjoy it because you can never know). I don't kiss the first ones, second group only during warming up, and the ones that seem to enjoy it? GOD BLESS YOU! Lol there are few things that turn me on faster or better.
Not everyone is here for the same reason. Some just want pure raw physical, some look for a lot of mental stimulation and still others look for a full experience of everything. Different strokes for different folks and there are a myriad of ladies to cater to everyone.
Yes I love kissing too
But don't get real full on kissing that often ..
It seem to be different with many of the girls i have seen /.
Some it is just closed lips pecking... others it open mouth tongue touching and wiggling but no face sucking.. and a few . full blown tongue and saliva everywhere That is the best..
But one of the girls i see these day . there is no kissing or Daty.. she loves giving BJ and would be happy if tat is all she had to do with me ..
AS for the tongue and mouth not having any sexual censers .. where have you been .. the mouth is used for so much pleasure .. the pleasure we get from tasting food , from tasting each other.. in kissing , in Daty ,and sucking on every part of a woman body .. and we know that is a tow way street ..
When you can't fuck some one in public kissing is the next best thing That depends on what your relationship is of course .. I am not trying to fuck every one i kiss..
But don't get real full on kissing that often ..
It seem to be different with many of the girls i have seen /.
Some it is just closed lips pecking... others it open mouth tongue touching and wiggling but no face sucking.. and a few . full blown tongue and saliva everywhere That is the best..
But one of the girls i see these day . there is no kissing or Daty.. she loves giving BJ and would be happy if tat is all she had to do with me ..
AS for the tongue and mouth not having any sexual censers .. where have you been .. the mouth is used for so much pleasure .. the pleasure we get from tasting food , from tasting each other.. in kissing , in Daty ,and sucking on every part of a woman body .. and we know that is a tow way street ..
When you can't fuck some one in public kissing is the next best thing That depends on what your relationship is of course .. I am not trying to fuck every one i kiss..
I am on the fence with regards to smooching. On the one hand i enjoy the intimacy and feel special when my 45 min girlfriend engages voluntarily. On the other hand, the hygenic aspect turns me off. So i guess it would depend on the sp and whether i am feeling it.
your powers of deduction is amazing,
not.
i am also a gentle man, and i still pay her for a session.
as a gentle man i would never take advantage of her, by asking any favors or special treatment. because as you put it were tight.
and i said if you actually read what i said and understood it
we are in the process of working it out, the details of our friendship.
so it is still a work in progress.
and number two, would i actually be such a jerk to announce on perb,
me and my lady are the best of friends now, i don't need a condom i don't have to pay i don't etc etc,
i very much intend not to ever take advantage of our friendship my friend.
and what ever happens between us, will remain as private as i can
i only post, to show all those guys with such a gloom and doom attitutude about sps.
that it is possible to have a relationship with an escort.
you sir are a very smart man,
but your prejudice is interferring with your thought process,
I never understood why some guys want to kiss sp's, or any girl really
I mean there is nothing bad about it, but just don't understand the appeal, I can understand having a girl giving me a bj, but what is the thrill in slobbering in each other's mouth?? there are no sex pleasure organs in the mouth, I'm happy to get bj and have sex with the girl, kissing is a waste of time really
Though somewhat off topic, that is an interesting comment.
Do you ever look at hot women or watch porn & get aroused without any touching of your "sex pleasure organs"?
By your logic there would be no point in kissing and no point in watching porn in that way, either, since the "sex pleasure organs" (e.g. penis, balls, prostrate, ass hole, nipples?) are not being touched.
Personally, i can get hard, aroused & may even start leaking by only watching porn, engaging in mouth to mouth or lip to lip kissing (MMK/LLK), or French kissing (FK). Likewise with the physical closeness and touch of hugs, cuddles, massage or a hand on my leg.
I think what you may fail to understand is that sex is more than a physical act; it involves the mind, emotions, biology & chemistry (chemicals, e.g. testosterone). Are you going to be able to have sex with a woman who is bitchy, even if she's giving you a HJ, BJ, etc, i.e. touching your "pleasure organs"? No, it won't work.
When i'm having sex (my dick inside her pussy) with a hot girl, i find it's far better if she's madly DFKing me at the same time. Without the DFK during sex i may go limp (i.e. the little head may go to sleep/get turned off).
A woman "slobbering" in my mouth, on my neck, ears, legs, etc, can be a huge turn on.
IME DFK without sex can be just as pleasurable, though of a different kind obviously, as genital intercourse.
Put the two together at the same time & it's out of this world.
We have different wires, for sure. I also can get turned on by everything you describe here.
His and hers Listerine, and we're good to go. I'm with Lenny. I love to watch the jiggling tits, etc., but walk away feeling a bit cheated if no LFK. I can do without the tonsil hockey though.
Yea I dig some tongue play but please don't try and jam the whole thing in my mouth like it's a cock ffs.
I think significantly more westerners like to kiss than don't (not including providers or one night stands).
To be honest your a very perceptive man.
In some ways your right.
But I am first and for most a gentlemen. I would never take advantage of anyone by way of friendship.
And I would never put her in an awkard way by saying guess what I don't need a condom any more.
But other then that you have to understand Im married, happily married as some can be yet see escorts with wife and kids, its not what I was looking for,
and the lady herself is not sitting by the phone waiting for me to phone her or any client for that matter,
she has a full life.
So we find our selfs in an awkard situation, we like each other, but, yet have a life that we find pretty good and enjoyable.
And were both not fools and realize that seeing each other within the confines of this hobby means nothing.
We have taken a few tenitive steps out side the realm of this, whatever this is.
and its all good, really good, and both look forward to seeing each other, within this hobby and well in a personal way as well.
And perhaps you don't understand where Im coming from, sex is good enjoyable fun.
But the way you go about it is more important then the shots on goal you have the things you do.
You can have the wilderst kinkiest sex ever but with some one you don't like or feel neutral about, it soon grows boring and your looking for the next high.
Having sex with some one who is a friend is totally different.
But that wouldn't be safe now, would it?You should try doing DATY lenny ... it would probably turn you on as much or more than kissing.
ound:I honestly don't see the pleasure in that, for either the giver or the receiver....He could use dental dams ...
Hell yeah... the taste, the sensation, the smell... I love it all! Couldn't see myself licking a piece of latex....I agree, but if disease prevention was the priority it would be an easy solution.
Tasting her, feeling the warmth and wetness on your tongue and the texture of her lips and inside her pussy add greatly to the experience, wouldn't you say?
G'dammit can we please stop talking making out and eating pussy while I'm at my sister's!!
If this keeps up I'll be sitting on a grapefruit within a couple days!
If this keeps up I'll be sitting on a grapefruit within a couple days!
