Rates are rates....
Pay them don't pay them...its your choice...
I stay at the 200$ rate level and works for me.
Pay them don't pay them...its your choice...
I stay at the 200$ rate level and works for me.
Are LOW RATES a turn off?
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That might be. But paying a little more make me feel like I am getting what I ask for rather than a girl showing wearing rags. It is like showing up at a gun fight with a knife. Might work but chances are it is going to end up badly.
Prices are not relative to the experiences provided. And experiences are clearly based on personal taste. One of the worst experiences I had came with a $350 price tag, and one of the best experiences I had came at a $160 price tag, and when I tried to tip that lady an extra $40 she was insulted and hurt by the gesture.
What I am trying to say is . . . just because the $300 and over priced ladies dress to the nines and put on make-up and sexy clothes doesn't always justify the prices they are asking. Service above glamour. Genuine over fake. (not talking about boobs there) Humility over attitude. Friendliness over Business are items that warrant a higher fee in my mind.
I like a glamourous and beautiful lady with fabulous bolt-on boobs, but if she isn't honest and real and at least try to connect with me, I consider her a waste of my time. I am happy to pay that beautiful lady $360 or more but it isn't the price tag that makes the experience. It's the personality and respect she gives me.
What I am trying to say is . . . just because the $300 and over priced ladies dress to the nines and put on make-up and sexy clothes doesn't always justify the prices they are asking. Service above glamour. Genuine over fake. (not talking about boobs there) Humility over attitude. Friendliness over Business are items that warrant a higher fee in my mind.
I like a glamourous and beautiful lady with fabulous bolt-on boobs, but if she isn't honest and real and at least try to connect with me, I consider her a waste of my time. I am happy to pay that beautiful lady $360 or more but it isn't the price tag that makes the experience. It's the personality and respect she gives me.
Thanks Erica.
When a thread has merit with some truly interesting posts and opposing opinions, I am eager to provide honest input and perspective without my normal biting sarcasm, wit and tendency to try to start a riot
Pierre is correct. Price has little bearing on quality.
My worst session ever was two stuck up touring ladies who charged a fortune. It wasn't enough though so stole money out of my pockets. Yes one distracted me while the other stole the money. They didn't care if they got a bad rap, they never came back anyway.
I still see a retired lady who charges me her fee from about 2005 and she is as good as anyone around today.
My worst session ever was two stuck up touring ladies who charged a fortune. It wasn't enough though so stole money out of my pockets. Yes one distracted me while the other stole the money. They didn't care if they got a bad rap, they never came back anyway.
I still see a retired lady who charges me her fee from about 2005 and she is as good as anyone around today.
Pierre is correct. Price has little bearing on quality.
The whole debate reminds me of women who will wear any kind of shoe, no matter how stupid it looks or uncomfortable it is, as long as it has the right name on it. Or guys who can't golf worth a shit but have the coolest deluxe carbon fiber/titanium clubs.
The whole debate reminds me of women who will wear any kind of shoe, no matter how stupid it looks or uncomfortable it is, as long as it has the right name on it. Or guys who can't golf worth a shit but have the coolest deluxe carbon fiber/titanium clubs.
I know guys like that with a whole set of the best. It's not the name on the club or the length of your shaft that determines how far you can drive your balls. It's your swing and approach.
Oh in my humble opinion after nearly 30 years in the game. I would say there is a coalition between fees and services you identified. I have been with many a $1,000 an hour ladies and $150.00 girls. What you seek can be found in both groups but the $300 an hour ladies give you the greater degree of success.
Yes other factors cone into play her age, commitment by the SP. Is website, why they do this. Some it is matter of survival and others enjoy the excitement of the encounter. Yes there are SPs who would do this if they got paid or not they just love the experience ever more so than us.
Now Pierre that is more of a determining factor than price but hard to find. But those ladies are looking for certain guys. Those tend to be higher end gentlemen. So they charge them a fee that reflects what they want.
So I respectfully disagree as I know in my experience my odds go up with higher end ladies. But I do gamble on the low end every once in a while to try and find a diamond in the rough.
Good luck in your quest.
L
LADY-VIA
when you are successfully selling yourself, and happy with the turn out then you are not selling yourself short at all, but selling yourself successfully. I drop my rates and raise them and play around with them all the time. Plus I offer catered packages to clients who see me on a regular basis.. why would I do this.. ?? to esnsure Im booked when I want to work more, as I have a busy life and am not always available. Why offer catered packages ? why not they are my regulars and see me often, and will continue to see me. Am I selling myself short by doing these things ? Nope, as I don't have a problem booking at all my price points listed on my site. What I do lack is available time. Time is money as we all have come to learn, so I maximize my earning potential given the time I have sometimes. That's called called selling myself smartly not short
Lower rates can also lure new clients, who will continue to see you even if your rates go up a bit. Think of yourself as a spider spinning your web to catch your flies. Its doenst really matter how you spin your web so long as you are still catching as many flies as you like/need to live/save and get ahead.so live your life the way you want to, and do things as you please, because so long as you are happy thats all that matters. Its your body and your life.
L
LADY-VIA
Pierre,
My experiences over the years clearly demonstrates that a higher end lady who goes out of her way to prepare for the event is much more into the event than a $160.00 an hours who has a time clock and the next guy lined up at the door.
we should clarify that my idea of a date is an overnight or dinner date or min 2 hour date. I am not a 30 min. guy or a one hour hop in the shower hop into bed bang done on my way. So two totally different situations. If I was interested in speed fucking then maybe you are right. However for me there is so much more. A $200 lady does not always work.
Now over the years I have found ladies who were low end providers and a diamond in the rough can be out there. I will polish them up. Dress them up. Send them to the spa to get their hair done, make up, nails. They really appreciate the experience. I remember one years ago who after doing that for her over dinner she cried and told me no one ever did such a thing for her. That is where a $200.00 a hour lady who I can meet and treat her like a $1,000 an hour lady and she appreciates it is worth it. But that is very rare. Erika was one such lady. What a rush. What a few months with her.
So my man it does happen. They then come to hate me because of what I showed them when they go back to the "real" world. Not sure why people are never happy they all want more. But I digress.
My point is those are rare and the odds stacked against you. Better off going higher end paying and having success. Because there are far more poorer experiences with lower end ladies that bad experiences with higher end ladies.
Higher end ladies that give bad service are not higher end for long. Lower end ladies giving poor experiences well there is where they belong just switching names.
My perspective from a guy who has been doing this for far too long. I have been doing this longer that many of the SPs been alive.
So take it for what it is worth. Not sure how many ladies you have been with but for me too many to count. So my sample base might be a little larger.
My experiences over the years clearly demonstrates that a higher end lady who goes out of her way to prepare for the event is much more into the event than a $160.00 an hours who has a time clock and the next guy lined up at the door.
we should clarify that my idea of a date is an overnight or dinner date or min 2 hour date. I am not a 30 min. guy or a one hour hop in the shower hop into bed bang done on my way. So two totally different situations. If I was interested in speed fucking then maybe you are right. However for me there is so much more. A $200 lady does not always work.
Now over the years I have found ladies who were low end providers and a diamond in the rough can be out there. I will polish them up. Dress them up. Send them to the spa to get their hair done, make up, nails. They really appreciate the experience. I remember one years ago who after doing that for her over dinner she cried and told me no one ever did such a thing for her. That is where a $200.00 a hour lady who I can meet and treat her like a $1,000 an hour lady and she appreciates it is worth it. But that is very rare. Erika was one such lady. What a rush. What a few months with her.
So my man it does happen. They then come to hate me because of what I showed them when they go back to the "real" world. Not sure why people are never happy they all want more. But I digress.
My point is those are rare and the odds stacked against you. Better off going higher end paying and having success. Because there are far more poorer experiences with lower end ladies that bad experiences with higher end ladies.
Higher end ladies that give bad service are not higher end for long. Lower end ladies giving poor experiences well there is where they belong just switching names.
My perspective from a guy who has been doing this for far too long. I have been doing this longer that many of the SPs been alive.
So take it for what it is worth. Not sure how many ladies you have been with but for me too many to count. So my sample base might be a little larger.
So... you are suggesting that we man are all just flies and you are the spider sucking our life (and money) out of us?
Seems a very cynical viewpoint...
She implied no such thing. What you've inferred from her post would seem to say more about your viewpoint than hers.
Many of us guys that only go for shorter visits would love to afford an all nighter but it just isn't financially realistic.
Lady Via and Aellynn would be my very good friends. I have had some nice relationships with short term visits. Many times I've spent a lot of time in conversation with some of these ladies when the weren't busy after my visit. A recent visit I had ended up lasting 45 minutes of as we talked and danced afterward. I felt terrible after and texted her to let her know I would make it up her. We were having so much fun we lost track of time.
We all make the best our situations.
Personal preference I would say yes they are I would just rather do without and save until I can afford a date with a well reviewed top SP.
