Are Long Term Clients More Desireable Than New Clients?
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I've been doing this a long time, and my impression is that the ladies prefer regular long-term clients. For some, the holy grail is to have one affluent client to provide all her needs. That said, the one-sugar-daddy idea doesn't suit all ladies because many of them like pleasing several men.
Being with someone you are really comfortable with, someone you know and trust completely, is infinitely better than any one hour meeting with a stranger.
I wouldn't say its because they like pleasing several men, its because its just not realistic to live off only 1 client, unless he is a millionaire and donates a very large monthly allowance similar to most people's salaries , there is no way anyone can live off 1 visiting client who pays the max rate of 300/h, unless he visits many times a week. And for sugar-babies, 1 sugar-daddy sometimes isn't enough to pay the bills or cover their needs so they sometimes have a roster of a several of them. A single sugar-daddy may also want a more intimate relationship with less boundaries, and take up a lot of the lady's time, so that's another reason why a lot of women choose escorting instead. If you really think about how many men an escort has been with, its most likely in the hundreds, and grows with more time she stays in the business, could be in the thousands for some, but who's counting!
Long term or regular clients are better especially in this type of industry where its really scary, and the chance of meeting a psycho gets higher with the more people you book with.
As someone who has been in this hobby for over thirty years (with a fairly long hiatus in there), I have always found that the providers that I have seen seem to prefer the long term client. The comfort level has always been better resulting in a much greater GFE type experience where more experimenting happens and an all around more enjoyable session. Although I haven't experienced it, I could completely see how a provider would become complacent and get bored with the client.
I suppose that every provider is different and have different goals on what they want to achieve in this industry. While some are in it for the long term and it is there only source of income, others may just want to make a quick buck to supplement their income. Their long term goals most likely have an impact on their client preferences.
I suppose that every provider is different and have different goals on what they want to achieve in this industry. While some are in it for the long term and it is there only source of income, others may just want to make a quick buck to supplement their income. Their long term goals most likely have an impact on their client preferences.
" Very often the first time is the best, when they try particularly hard to try to convince you to become a regular!" lol that sounds like it describes most relationships...
For me, I like to establish a list of ladies- 5 usually, that I'd call upon only- I don't like trying out new...partners... Though with my tight budget, I don't even consider myself a "regular" cause even my ATFs probably only hear from me once or twice a year when I finally squirreled away enough money for a visit.
For me, I like to establish a list of ladies- 5 usually, that I'd call upon only- I don't like trying out new...partners... Though with my tight budget, I don't even consider myself a "regular" cause even my ATFs probably only hear from me once or twice a year when I finally squirreled away enough money for a visit.
That's a good question. Ladies, all things equal, which would you prefer - one sugar daddy or several regulars?
This is what I don't understand about SP's who let regulars go, or don't treat them with respect.
Given that any new booking can possibly bring a host of problems, from a no show, to being high or drunk or smelly, to being a thief or violent, or otherwise disrespectful - a clean, gentlemanly client you know is going to show up (except for extraordinary circumstances) should be golden.
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Warl0ck
As I posted earlier, regulars can sometimes have expectations that other clients don't because they feel a sense of comfort with the females. It's the sort of "I've been using RBC for 20 years so therefore you should kiss my ass" So put yourself in the role of the female and ask this "what's worse, a potential new client or a regular who pushes for BBFS or things off the menu because he's a regular and spends lots of money with you".
Regular does not mean GOOD client.
Variety is the spice of life.
Many I have seen only once....not that they were necessarily bad.
Some I have seen hundreds of times.
Many I want to see and haven't yet.
And yes as mentioned above by Warl0ck I'm sure some clients do become bad.
Just as some SP get to comfortable and make demands of the customer they shouldn't.
I personally would have no problem with it is a regular wanted to stop seeing me.
Many I have seen only once....not that they were necessarily bad.
Some I have seen hundreds of times.
Many I want to see and haven't yet.
And yes as mentioned above by Warl0ck I'm sure some clients do become bad.
Just as some SP get to comfortable and make demands of the customer they shouldn't.
I personally would have no problem with it is a regular wanted to stop seeing me.
I agree with you totally. There is people out there, when you "give an inch, they take a mile". Myself, for over 25 years now, my needs, preferences and turn-ons have been rock solid and never change.
I'm not one of those stereotypical males though, haha. I love DATY, but I don't enjoy BJ's of any kind, so I haven't asked for that in over 25 years from anyone. I'm not even one who would be hoot'n
and hollaring with my tongue hanging out at triple-D's. I walk away from those, total turn off. A simple B to C cup max is more my preference and absolutely no hair below the shoulders, haha, not even
a neatly trimmed crotch. All of it - be gone! But any turn-ons I have that would promote a hardon, are mostly physical. During my whole adult life, never got an erection from visuals alone. There has to
be physical touching, based on compatible preferences. So before I can even think about having a good time with anyone, I have to know all the restrictions before hand just as much she would know
all about my entire list of desires for the future, that will never change.
My whole point, that is why some like me, just look for someone compatible and stick with it until such a time, when the good times are over. If I already have what I need, nobody else will be able to
do anything more for me.
But as far as emotional attachment ? I can see that happening with some people. I got into a vanilla NSA relationship once. That was established at the beginning. But then she started wanting more
commitment, more this, more that and it was time to cut the cord. Been living by myself for many years now and that will never change either. I don't look forward to getting old and living in a care
home with .......people .......
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Warl0ck
well I wasn't address you directly, just adding to the discussion. Sometimes pooners forget it's a business transaction thinking it's personal. It's probably not. If she's willing to go out for a 3 hour dinner with you and no money exchanges hands, then yeah, it's personal
Some guys are just lonely too. They see a SP on a regular basis and she becomes that missing link they don't have in life so they think it's something more than it is. I've seen countless guys on this forum in the past 10 years comment on the "great chemistry and relationship" they have with an SP. And I think to myself..do they realize another 15 guys feel the same way about her? I think much of it has to do with their own state of mind & that they're really actually lonely and want something more in their love life. Not hard to imagine given how impersonal of a world we live in. But their mindset sets up how they feel and how they react to things. This afternoon I bumped into 3 young women at Safeway with my cart (don't text and shop). I said sorry, they smiled and laughed and a short conversation ensued. Just topical human interaction. But if you're lonely or feeling empty, you might see that as more than it is. Same thing happens to good SP's who look after their client needs. And if that client gets too close..well..they may cut him loose.
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Larry Storch
Yep. It can be way too easy to read something into a passing conversation. Being physically intimate with someone on a regular basis can only amplify that in some people.
I did the 'One Of' type relationship for lack of a better word for 2 1/2 years. In the beginning it was crazy good with both enjoying each other's company. Then we hit a few speed bumps and I saw her less often and I was bringing in new SP into my rotation. Then I'd return hopeful that time had made the speed bumps far back in the rear view mirror. It would be fun again for a while and the old resentments would be brought up in conversation. I never returned by the 3 year mark. Texts looking for financial help from out of the blue were the final straw.
For me, keeping the rotation with a select few does feel right and add a visiting SP or someone new from Vancouver works well. I won't be going down that road of a single SP again. Besides, I do consider myself as polyamorous.
