Are Escorts Honest?

Apr 10, 2013
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Well i suffered a pretty serious injury about three months ago.
She offereed all kinds of help off the clock. But i politely declined
as didnt want her to see me in the state i was in.
And yes she has cooked me meals and we shopped together
off the clock. So yup it does happen occasionally.
But nothing physical off the clock. Its something i wouldnt expect
to be honest. But if it happens , it happens. No big deal.
This part sounds like a really nice offering-friendship initiative on her part, which certainly can lead you to infer she is open to more than a transaction.

Coke and Alcohol really effect a person's life in ways that the user just can't or doesn't want to see.
It's often obvious from the sidelines as I don't do it.
But often I kinda refused to see it as in a way it's none of my business .Also didn't want to believe it either. But I think she uses it so much it did effect our time together in different ways. In retrospect I see it more clearly now.
Good that you spotted this and are giving it serious thought. Call it stereotyping or profiling or whatever you like, but substance use, including heavy alcohol use, is always potentially really self-destructive and can have a pretty good blast radius taking down anyone else nearby.
I saw a documentary produced by the local police where a cafe owner (?) took a drug user under his wing to try to help her. Ended up using himself, losing his business, and wrecking his life. But they, they're together. <.<
 

JimDandy

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I believe that Op has been dishonest in several respects in this thread.

Let's start with the title of the thread. I do not believe Op was really looking for an answer to the question "Are Escorts Honest?. I'm sure that Op already knew the answer, which succinctly is "It depends".

But what really makes no sense at all is that at the beginning of the thread Op was considering some type of 6 month financial relationship after having spent what sounds like thousands of hours with this lady. No date less than 12 hours and multiple trips and adventures with this lady over 3 years adds up to many hundreds of hours at the very least. Then near the end of this thread after a few texts back and forth, Op seriously considers totally walking away from the 3 year relationship. WTF!!! Op would have to very very dense to not have had a strong inkling of what ever details she texted him after spending so many hour with her. So it makes no sense to go from 6 month financial relationship to walking away based on a few text. It just does not add up.

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sevenofnine

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I don't think it matters what the person your with thinks,


I think you have to be honest with yourself. we tend to see what we want to believe and see.


I have been with my sp over a decade ok, seeing her regularly for over ten years.
I think we both have changed in that length of time, in ways we don't really comprehend
there has been many bumps and challenges as well and there continue to be difficulties in our relationship,

I try to be as honest an open as I can possible be with her, I have no idea what she is thinking.
but I think like I said it starts with you, your perception's change over time your understanding of things change over time.
it is a journey

for what ever reason. me and her we seem bonded in silly moments we have actually made promises to each other.
silly things. we drift apart. we get close.

are sp's honest.
I think as long as your paying money, well there is your answer.


you know business and pleasure is tough,
me and my sp are friends as much as anything but still we have this business arrangement
and at times I think it pisses us both of.
but it is the nature of our contact, of our relationship.

I think you will never really know how honest your sp or you are,
while you are still paying her, and she is taking your money.


my sp I saw her last week,
it came up between us.

would I pay her and not expect to fuck her,
can I fuck her, and not pay her.

we know and trust each other enough to have this discussion and not let it come between us.

we need money to live, we all have bills to pay, its not really that upsetting to well sell yourself for sex,, I think

but if im such a good guy and all that, what do I pay,

its a question that really has no answer,
because I have helped kids and wife out financially and others, so why not her, were friends she has bills

like I said you can go on in circles forever in this.

the answer lies somewhere in your heart.
 

PierreCoeur

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Interesting... thanks for posting. There is a fetish for everything. I have some regulars who get turned on by the mere thought of other men's cum. I've posted pics of cum in shot glasses on my twitter in the past, and the other day I found a used condom in a strange place. I was in a cheeky mood at the time so I posted a pic of that as well and was suprised by the enthusiastic private feedback I got from it. There most definitely are true cum sluts in this world lol.
Mmmm you are so sexy I forgot what this thread was all about.
 
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