So , Bijou...to clarify your point, without all the cut and paste, and links...you're advocating what exactly? Are you arguing against the freedoms we have here, particularly here in Canada, in favour of what they are currently enjoying in the Mid-east? Are you in favour of what the leaders in Syria are doing to their own people, or how Ghadaffi ruled Libya? Do you truly don't believe that as a people, we aren't better off with the freedoms that our grandparents fought and died for against tyranny, the freedoms that you enjoy and protect you as a woman to make your own choices about your body, mind and soul, to do with as you see fit with your life without prosecution by the 'moral police', the local clergy...to be able to walk the streets without fear of being stoned to death for not having your closest male relative with you, while dressed head to foot in a burka? Or selling sex for a living, without being arrested and beheaded in a public square...? Is this your position? is this what you want in Canada, for you or your children? Or would you prefer the Western model, where you have the freedom to express your views, and are able to post all the links you want about controversial subjects, have sex for a living, walk the streets without fear of rape gangs in the name of Allah...no car bombings.Herrrrrrrrrrrrrre comes the usual complaining LOL
As usual: No one's twisting your arm to read it so don't if you aren't interested in adding to your knowledge.
Colonial guilt mongering? What does that mean? As the superior culture, you think it's our right, I suppose?
And I think that you should be responsible for proving to me that these are "superior". Maybe they are to you and maybe they are to me. But not every person on the planet will agree with all or some of it. So what makes it superior?
And I'm not sure what planet you live on but while women's rights have of course greatly improved, we have not achieved "gender equality". And what we have achieved, we have evolved to it in our own time, of our own will, and not because
And apparently, you didn't bother to check this particular link so I would encourage you to do so as clearly you are working from the faulty premise that muslims apparently don't value or desire these things and you are also assuming quite incorrectly that there is one universal set of beliefs about these issues that all muslims agree on. So here's the link again:
Few Believe U.S. Backs Democracy
Most Muslims Want Democracy, Personal Freedoms, and Islam in Political Life
Pew Report Released: July 10, 2012
http://www.pewglobal.org/2012/07/10...ersonal-freedoms-and-islam-in-political-life/
You also ignore the fact that we have in many cases interfered to make sure the exact opposite of what we supposedly value happened in countries where we've been more concerned about our own interest - not the population, not the women, not freedom or democracy. So it's unbelievably hypocritical to point fingers and brag about our "superiority".
Your call. It's also your own loss, not mine or anyone else's. But thanks for sharing that with us!Trust me, I'd rather read a sevenofnine post...
So , Bijou...to clarify your point, without all the cut and paste, and links...you're advocating what exactly? Are you arguing against the freedoms we have here, particularly here in Canada, in favour of what they are currently enjoying in the Mid-east? Are you in favour of what the leaders in Syria are doing to their own people, or how Ghadaffi ruled Libya? Do you truly don't believe that as a people, we aren't better off with the freedoms that our grandparents fought and died for against tyranny, the freedoms that you enjoy and protect you as a woman to make your own choices about your body, mind and soul, to do with as you see fit with your life without prosecution by the 'moral police', the local clergy...to be able to walk the streets without fear of being stoned to death for not having your closest male ru, while dressed head to foot in a burka? Or selling sex for a living, without being arrested and beheaded in a public square...? Is this your position? is this what you want in Canada, for you or your children?
rintin6 said:Interesting that you mention Iran and democracy. They are a perfect example that just because you have Western democracy, does not mean it's American democracy. Meaning, if they don't like you, you're out. See Mohammad Mossediq about that. Iran has been a very democratic country in the Middle East. Amerrica just refuses to acknowledge it. Same with Hezballah in Lebanon. They are democratically elected but America refuses to recognize the results. All they are doing is making things worst. Just like they do not recognize Hamas in the Palestinian case. And while we're on the topic of Iran, there is a very, very strong movement in Iran that is lead by secularists, who want to rid of the guardian council.
Still didn't answer my question, instead you decided to run from answering it with flinging a bunch of bullshit. What are you advocating, Bijou? Do you want us to be like them? You never even read my post, obviously...or if you did, you're being just as closed minded and ridiculous as those you're ranting at. Grow up, really see the world for what it isn't....no rose coloured glasses. I've read some of what you posted, as I actually have to go to work and make a living and a few pooning $$ and really don't have the time to read dogmatic bullshit....Your call. It's also your own loss, not mine or anyone else's. But thanks for sharing that with us!
Really? This is what you're getting out of it? What are you saying exactly? If I'm not with you, I'm with the Taliban? LOL You're wasting my time, babe. If that's all you can come up with or get out of my posts and the links I posted, none of which you could be bothered to read - and you're bent on dragging me and the discussion back down to that level, then I'm not interested in giving you any more of my time.
Don't bother to read anything that might expose you to a different way of understanding the complexity or the context. We wouldn't want to elevate the discussion beyond that kind of garbage. Enjoy the sewer with winners like Ezra Levant, Pamela Geller, Robert Spencer and the company they keep - I'm not interested in joining you there, thanks.
Ridiculous. I can't even believe you would seriously write this nonsense.
Couldn't have said it better...Oh, please. Save me these phony platitudes.
Wanna bet you would throw up a lot easier when witnessing a stoning, honour killing or beheading.
But thank God you are here to save me from doing a disservice to myself LOL
Simplify it for my simple mind, right? Thank you.
Hate to disappoint you, but I am NOT GOING TO READ it. I insist on my fundamental right to be uninformedObviously, you enjoy reading muslim propaganda, and the superior feeling of being politically correct, at the expense of your fellow women in this world. Pretty selfish attitude, but if this is what makes you happy. You are not hurting anybody, just annoy the shit out of people with common sense LOL
Wanna bet you would throw up a lot easier when witnessing a stoning, honour killing or beheading?
Nonsense. YOU'RE the one repeating unsupported, uninformed propaganda. And enthusiastically using manipulation and guilt tripping tactics to try to taint my position, not any of my arguments.Anita said:Hate to disappoint you, but I am NOT GOING TO READ it. I insist on my fundamental right to be uninformedObviously, you enjoy reading muslim propaganda, and the superior feeling of being politically correct, at the expense of your fellow women in this world. Pretty selfish attitude, but if this is what makes you happy. You are not hurting anybody, just annoy the shit out of people with common sense LOL
Still didn't answer my question, instead you decided to run from answering it with flinging a bunch of bullshit. What are you advocating, Bijou? Do you want us to be like them? You never even read my post, obviously...or if you did, you're being just as closed minded and ridiculous as those you're ranting at. Grow up, really see the world for what it isn't....no rose coloured glasses. I've read some of what you posted, as I actually have to go to work and make a living and a few pooning $$ and really don't have the time to read dogmatic bullshit....
Bijou wants to live in a world ruled by dictators and controlled by those who would love to see us here in the West destroyed, subjegated and suppressed by Sharia Law, in order to be kind and soft towards those who would dance on our graves, while blowing each other up in religious wars, terrorist attacks, and with the Koran in her pocket and a song in her heart...yeah? Is this what you want? It's too late to put the Genie back in the bottle over there...they wanted the West and all us infidels dead since the great prophet was shagging sheep and children 1500 years ago, and yes the oil, Britain and the US shit the bed over there numerous times....granted. But do you really think that it's going to be all sunshine and roses over there if we leave them alone? Fuck no. Duh.
Miss Bijou actually none of those things are Muslim, they pre-date Islam by centuries, however the only people who STILL PRACTICE any of those are indeed Muslims!
I am sure your pukable political correctness would quickly get wiped off your face if you had to survive any of the shit holes that call themselves Muslim. For the record I've lived in muslim and arab countries for almost 20 years, speak Arabic fluently and hold an advanced degree in Islamic studies. I suggest that you go read the Quran, Hadith and Sunna before you shoot off your mouth any further. Or maybe go watch a government sponsored beheading, stoning or flogging in Saudi Arabia or Sudan (I have) it might change your opinion!
Correlation does not imply causation
"Correlation does not imply causation" is a phrase used in science and statistics to emphasize that a correlation between two variables does not automatically imply that one causes the other.
The opposite belief, correlation proves causation, is one of several questionable cause logical fallacies by which two events that occur together are claimed to have a cause-and-effect relationship. The fallacy is also known as cum hoc ergo propter hoc (Latin for "with this, therefore because of this") and false cause. It is a common fallacy in which it is assumed that, because two things or events occur together, one must be the cause of the other. By contrast, the fallacy, post hoc ergo propter hoc, requires that one event occur after the other, and so may be considered a related fallacy.
In a widely studied example, numerous epidemiological studies showed that women who were taking combined hormone replacement therapy (HRT) also had a lower-than-average incidence of coronary heart disease (CHD), leading doctors to propose that HRT was protective against CHD. But randomized controlled trials showed that HRT caused a small but statistically significant increase in risk of CHD. Re-analysis of the data from the epidemiological studies showed that women undertaking HRT were more likely to be from higher socio-economic groups (ABC1), with better than average diet and exercise regimens. The use of HRT and decreased incidence of coronary heart disease were coincident effects of a common cause (i.e. the benefits associated with a higher socioeconomic status), rather than cause and effect, as had been supposed.
I used those two as examples but have lived in 7 and visited most of the majority Muslim countries.Thanks for making the same exact point as the others have. Good for you you've lived in 2 of 49 countries where Muslim are majority. It might be interesting if you actually read before you comment because you're not making any new argument because you've lived in two countries, Saudi Arabia, which is arguably at the extreme and ONCE again, as has been repeated more than once and not.just by me... NOT a country ours or the.US government has any problem doing business with - and lots of it. No, pointing that out again doesn't translate to me defending or condoning it FFS.
Have you ever read the Old Testament? Some of the Judaic texts? Not so Peace and Love. Not even close. Lots of pretty perverted shit too.
Just imagine if Islam was in itself this uniquely evil, barbarian religion to follow, at 1.2 billion followers, that would be a hell of a lot of beheading, honor killings,.stonings and what not. Yet, only a portion of the population in a small handful of countries support that. Huh. How about that.
This has nothing to do with being pc. I have equal disdain and distrust for all major religions and for people who do awful things in the name of religious beliefs. Islam may be at.a different point in its long evolution but it is not.any different than the other two have been. It's, of course, younger than the other 2 and there have also been many outside influences. Christianity and Judaism most certainly have their own dark moments, in both present and in history. To make Islam a special, different case is absurd and nothing supports those claims.
http://www.vice.com/read/the-innocence-of-white-people/So I’ve just received an email from a reader, asking whether I might have something to say about The Innocence of Muslims. “Is tolerance for satire really a concept that is not compatible with Islam?” he asks. “Is there something about all this indignation that ‘we,’ the West, don’t understand?”
When asked to explain Muslim rage, I have an answer, but I already know the response to my answer. A defender of “Western civilization” will tell me, “Yeah, but we aren’t violent. They’re the ones who kill people over religion.” If numbers matter, however, the mythology of “America” kills many, many more people today than any myth of “Islam.” To sustain a pseudo-secular military cult, we have produced a nation of cheerleaders for blood and murder. We speak of the cult’s heroic work as “sacrifice” and say that it’s all for a divine cause of “freedom.”
That’s what we send out there, at them. This is not simply a world in which one side has a sense of humor and the other does not, or one side is “modern” and “enlightened” while the other side needs to catch up. The modern, enlightened side is burning people alive. Innocence is simply the playground bully calling your mother a slut after already breaking your jaw, and then wondering why you can’t take a joke.
I am not trying to excuse violence. As an artist, I support everyone’s right to make shitty, cheap-looking art, and I do not believe that bloodshed is ever an acceptable way of responding to art. But in the big picture, this isn’t really about violent religion vs. nonviolent art; it’s violence vs. violence.
Last week, the day on which my column runs happened to fall on September 11. My column was not about September 11; I offered no recollections of the day, no meditation on where we’ve gone as a nation since then, no diagnosis, no hope for a better future, and no apology on behalf of “moderate” Muslims. Instead,*I wrote about drugs. It seems that every year, the anniversary produces a number of Muslim bloggers and commentators publicly performing our love of peace, assuring everyone that we, too, shared in the suffering of that day. I am thankful for them and respect their efforts, because this is work that needs to be done.* But I did not try.
The reason for my silence on 9/11 is that I am not only Muslim. I am also American. I am also white. I am male and heterosexual. However, I am not asked, as an American, to reflect on the yearly anniversary of our atomic bombs falling upon Japan, or our countless military interventions throughout the world. There is no date on the calendar for me, as a white person, to demonstrate that I have properly reflected on slavery and the generations of inequality and naked white sadism between the slave era and our own unjust present; we could potentially have such a day, but often turn it into shallow self-congratulation. As a white person, I am not asked to consider the wanton murders of young black men by white cops or white civilians, or the white terrorism of shootings in gurudwaras, as directly relevant to my identity. Nor do I have a designated anniversary for reflection, as a straight man, on the horrifying statistics of rape or the ways in which heterosexism makes this country unsafe for so many.
As a Muslim, however, people do expect me to show evidence of my soul-searching over a single event, and I am regularly instructed by popular media to imagine 9/11 as a cancer within my own self. Journalists ask me about Islam’s “crisis” as though it’s a private demon with whom I must personally wrestle every day; meanwhile, my whiteness remains untouched and unchallenged by the decade of hate crimes that have followed 9/11. Journalists don’t often ask whether “white tradition” can be reconciled to modern ideals of equality and pluralism, or whether the “straight male community” is capable of living peacefully in America. When it comes to my participation in America, my whiteness and maleness are far more likely than my Islam to wound others, and thus perhaps more urgently in need of “reform” or “enlightenment” or whatever you say that Islam needs. Again, this is only if numbers matter.
Yes, there’s something that we, the self-identified “West,” don’t understand: ourselves. We see the violence that we want to see. We ignore our legacy of hatred and destruction, always wondering how they can even look themselves in the mirror.
http://www.islamhelpline.net/node/905
"Q-1: Does a women who claims to have been raped has to produce 4 reliable muslim males as witnesses to avoid being punished under hudud law?
If a woman claims that she has been raped, she does not have to bring any witnesses to prove her claim; her word will be taken as truth without the need of any witnesses whatsoever. And because she claimed she was raped, she will be treated honorably and free of any wrong doing whatsoever. There is absolutely no question of any punishment for her, because she was the innocent party and a victim of the heinous crime committed against her.
But if the woman who is raped accuses that so and so specific person or people raped her, then there are only two ways an Islamic Court can convict the accused rapist/s:
The accused rapist confesses to his heinous crime; or
she produces four witnesses to justify her claim that so and so person raped her.
If the accused rapist does not confess, and the woman is unable to produce the four witnesses; then the Court can levy upon her the case of ‘kazaf’* or falsely accusing somebody.
Under no circumstances can a woman who claims she was raped be charged, accused, convicted, or punished for ‘zina’ (fornication or adultery) in an Islamic Court of Law. All she has to do is say that she was raped, and her word will be taken as the truth."
*kazaf = slander, punishable by 80 lashes. With other words: If a guy rapes you without 4 MALE witnesses, there is no way of reporting him. If you do, you are risking 80 lashes.
I stop reading this site as I am nauseated. And this is not some fundamentalist stuff, but a helpline for muslims.
Bijou, you're completely bonkers....I may be bigotted for not wanting this religious behavior in my country? Whether Christian, Jew or Islamic, Wiccan, Jedi or Rastafarian, it's all religious nonsense...I don't hate Persians, Arabs, Palestinians, etc. What I hate are the religious dogmatic practices that go along with doing it for 'god', or committing heinious acts in the name of culture, faith or what the voices in you're head are telling you to do. Religion is a poison, killing the infidel, cleric santioned insanity.....it's a sickness, a perversion and inhumane....whether it's ritual circumsizing your male children, your females too...Anita, I would just like to show you a parallel to your approach, in an issue other than religion or Islam but with the same 'liberation' and 'rescue' theme concerning women.
I don't know whether you are familiar with 'abolitionists' who want to abolish prostitution, rescue prostitutes and criminalize their clients (they would also like to tar and shame them publicly). There is no reasoning with these abolitionists, who comprise some religious groups but also, most importantly I believe, a faction of feminists whose ideology is referred to as radical feminism), they believe prostitution is violence against women, akin to rape, that women are victims, that it is just as impossible to consent to one's own rape as it is to prostitution. They believe all clients are abusers who hate women and who take pleasure in degrading women and abusing them. They refuse to refer to sp's as anything other than prostituted women and they laugh at the suggestion that sp's do not wish to be rescued, do not see themselves as abused victims and say they are consenting adults and have chosen to do this work. Not only is it unimaginable and incomprehensible to radical feminists but they absolutely refuse to believe what the sex workers themselves say and categorically reject even the possibility that they could be wrong about their assumptions and that women may truly not want to be rescued or saved. To dismiss the claims that contradict their entire ideology by the very people concerned, they will goes as far as to say that such sex workers are merely suffering from Stockholm syndrome!
These are the feminists from the Vancouver Rape Center, for example. These are the feminists siding with the Conservatives in opposing the case to determine whether prostitution laws endanger and criminalize women unjustly. These are the feminists pushing for the 'Nordic model', based on Sweden's laws that criminalize clients and infantilize women by wanting to rescue them whether they want it or not because afterall feminists know what's best for them - and its obviously not prostitution, because of course, no woman wants to be a prostitute, of.course! Being told by sex workers that such laws in fact endanger them and marginalize them even more, doesn't change their conviction that their way.is best.
Unsurprisingly, if another feminist who does not share the same view or advocate the same approach as the abolitionists and radical feminists ever attempts to debate and bring up these and other arguments against their position, guess what response they very often receive? Yes, prostitutes who oppose their tactics and challenge their assumptions are told it is simply selfish of them to support a system that perpetuates patriarchy...blah..blah...
To them, it is by eliminating prostitution that we will achieve the end of patriarchy, sexism, inequality and so on. Not what seems far more logical, that is, if prostitution is truly a symptom of patriarchy, then elimimating patriarchy and the resulting inequality would necessarily eliminate prostitution automatically. Approaching it the other way around really doesn't achieve more than superficial suppression of what is,.according to them, a symptom. It doesnt actually change anything about the root cause, which is their main target, patriarchy. But that's not how they see things and if you disagree, to them, you are selfishly throwing all of womankind under the bus. Sounds awfully familiar.
To me, your 'we know best, Muslim women need and want us to rescue them - how could they not? Of course they want what 'we' have - how could they not?' sounds exactly the same to me. It says 'I don't need to ask Muslim women (or sex workers) what THEY think, what THEY want/need or whether our assumptions are correct because we cannot imagine it would differ from what WE believe. If that were the case, how can we believe they know what's truly best for them and most because its unthinkable that it might be anything other than exactly what I have!!!!'
It is presumptuous, patronizing and it is in fact this approach that is actually most selfish.
And that is what I've had in mind when I've read each of your comments about that. You are using 'Muslim women' to justify your prejudice and but your refusal to listen to and lack of concern for what these women might actually want for themselves - or your belief that they can't think or speak for themselves betrays the true intentions whenever anyone pull the 'we need to save these poor Muslim women' while clearly seeing them as dumb children in need of superior 'Western' women (or men) to come in and liberate them into being just like us. I don't think its done deliberately or that anyone necessarily does this consciously but that doesn't change the bottom line, which is that this is more about 'us' than about 'the Muslim women'.
I just wanted to.bring up a different perspective I don't think you were aware of. Take it or leave it - your choice, obviously.
Since you like links so much...Anita, I would just like to show you a parallel to your approach, in an issue other than religion or Islam but with the same 'liberation' and 'rescue' theme concerning women.
I don't know whether you are familiar with 'abolitionists' who want to abolish prostitution, rescue prostitutes and criminalize their clients (they would also like to tar and shame them publicly). There is no reasoning with these abolitionists, who comprise some religious groups but also, most importantly I believe, a faction of feminists whose ideology is referred to as radical feminism), they believe prostitution is violence against women, akin to rape, that women are victims, that it is just as impossible to consent to one's own rape as it is to prostitution. They believe all clients are abusers who hate women and who take pleasure in degrading women and abusing them. They refuse to refer to sp's as anything other than prostituted women and they laugh at the suggestion that sp's do not wish to be rescued, do not see themselves as abused victims and say they are consenting adults and have chosen to do this work. Not only is it unimaginable and incomprehensible to radical feminists but they absolutely refuse to believe what the sex workers themselves say and categorically reject even the possibility that they could be wrong about their assumptions and that women may truly not want to be rescued or saved. To dismiss the claims that contradict their entire ideology by the very people concerned, they will goes as far as to say that such sex workers are merely suffering from Stockholm syndrome!
These are the feminists from the Vancouver Rape Center, for example. These are the feminists siding with the Conservatives in opposing the case to determine whether prostitution laws endanger and criminalize women unjustly. These are the feminists pushing for the 'Nordic model', based on Sweden's laws that criminalize clients and infantilize women by wanting to rescue them whether they want it or not because afterall feminists know what's best for them - and its obviously not prostitution, because of course, no woman wants to be a prostitute, of.course! Being told by sex workers that such laws in fact endanger them and marginalize them even more, doesn't change their conviction that their way.is best.
Unsurprisingly, if another feminist who does not share the same view or advocate the same approach as the abolitionists and radical feminists ever attempts to debate and bring up these and other arguments against their position, guess what response they very often receive? Yes, prostitutes who oppose their tactics and challenge their assumptions are told it is simply selfish of them to support a system that perpetuates patriarchy...blah..blah...
To them, it is by eliminating prostitution that we will achieve the end of patriarchy, sexism, inequality and so on. Not what seems far more logical, that is, if prostitution is truly a symptom of patriarchy, then elimimating patriarchy and the resulting inequality would necessarily eliminate prostitution automatically. Approaching it the other way around really doesn't achieve more than superficial suppression of what is,.according to them, a symptom. It doesnt actually change anything about the root cause, which is their main target, patriarchy. But that's not how they see things and if you disagree, to them, you are selfishly throwing all of womankind under the bus. Sounds awfully familiar.
To me, your 'we know best, Muslim women need and want us to rescue them - how could they not? Of course they want what 'we' have - how could they not?' sounds exactly the same to me. It says 'I don't need to ask Muslim women (or sex workers) what THEY think, what THEY want/need or whether our assumptions are correct because we cannot imagine it would differ from what WE believe. If that were the case, how can we believe they know what's truly best for them and most because its unthinkable that it might be anything other than exactly what I have!!!!'
It is presumptuous, patronizing and it is in fact this approach that is actually most selfish.
And that is what I've had in mind when I've read each of your comments about that. You are using 'Muslim women' to justify your prejudice and but your refusal to listen to and lack of concern for what these women might actually want for themselves - or your belief that they can't think or speak for themselves betrays the true intentions whenever anyone pull the 'we need to save these poor Muslim women' while clearly seeing them as dumb children in need of superior 'Western' women (or men) to come in and liberate them into being just like us. I don't think its done deliberately or that anyone necessarily does this consciously but that doesn't change the bottom line, which is that this is more about 'us' than about 'the Muslim women'.
I just wanted to.bring up a different perspective I don't think you were aware of. Take it or leave it - your choice, obviously.






