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AubreyKisses

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Hey everyone,

I am looking for some advice on how to work independently if anyone would like to add their ideas i would appreciate it. :)

Thanks in advance!

Aubrey xoxo
 
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AubreyKisses

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Is this considered free advertising puddle girl? I sent off to fred zed today for the links for paid advertising but any other advice is super welcome and if this is over stepping bounds I can take it down..
 
Well in my experience, referring to yourself as an escort or SP is enough to do it but sometimes they allow a few innocent slips... just be careful till your in red :)
But just being yourself, being honest with your clients, don't reveal too much personal information to other girls (for privacy sake) .
There's no magic way of establishing yourself as independent. I will be 3 years completely indy this May and have never worked for anyone or any agency as I would/could never .. Just not my style,
There's lots of pro's and con's .
I know sometimes I am overwhelmed sometimes when it comes to answering the phone, returning phone calls and all that goes with being indy, but the plus's much outweigh the minus's.
I don't answer to anyone but me, All the $ is going to me and my incall . I'm not pressured to take ANY calls I don't want. You make your own hours.
No drama (well almost no) from other girls. And if you have your own private indy lovenest the skies the limit as to what you make of it. And the privacy and ability to take a one hr pre-booked appt to a 3 hr lovefest is completley open to you as you have noone banging on the door or hurrying you alone. Thats my favorite part!
Just make sure you have some kind of security or friend who you can trust to check in with if you work nights or alone as that's a concern being alone and indy, I'm not a night owl, or drinker or partier by ANY means so keep my hours to "banker's hours" which has proven to provide me with the MOST outstanding clients.

Good luck, ask me anything, maybe by PM till your in red :) XOXOXO welcome to PERB!
 

AubreyKisses

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Thanks I appreciate you letting me know, I will keep from posting til I get my advertising up and running here.
 

AubreyKisses

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Thanks April I am still trying to figure out how to make a website and where you get a banner from lol I am super computer illiterate :O!
 

novemberrain

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Check out other SP's websites, some of them are using free webhosting and are generally easy to use and create one. Just off the top of my head, places like www.wix.com, www.weebly.com, www.yola.com are some the ones I see a few SP's using. As for a banner, you'll need someone with some basic photoshop (or other photo program) knowledge to help make you one.
 

sevenofnine

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im a john right so maybe my opinion is stupid but here goes

i think, first the right reason,
there was this lady i saw i loved her or liked her alot. ok,
but i just think she was in this for the wrong reason.

another lady.
she had kids, and i think she took the attitude that her family would never find out. or it wouldn't matter to them
im not saying you can't be a mother and do this.

but women in this with kids sometimes. there attitude just strikes me as wrong.
she would advertize, im a mom come and fuck me the ultimate hockey mom come and get me.

to me that is just all wrong, i don't know, to bring your kids into this or use them as advertizing or what ever,
i think you have to do what you have to do, but leave your kids out of this, or keep them as distant as you can from this.

women would pick up the phone, im a mom, i have to phone my kids and i would be standing there naked
and she would have this attitude i love my kids so don't even touch that.


but mine would be if you love your kid why are you phoning them when you have a naked john in your room.
just think about it long and hard is all im trying to say.

and some women had no idea what they were worth in dollar and cents. think about that to long and hard.

one women was porn star a very dam good porn star bbbj cim and all that ok high energy
but her price was lower then a consevative gfe girl no kissing everything covered and safe.
but she was ridiculusly cheap for what she had in looks and the services she offered

i saw her twice and then i mentioned to her, what are you doing. there are girls charging five and hour for what you do
and your like 250 the standard price i think was 300 for a basic gfe type deal.
i told her what are you doing.
she thought about then raised her rates, i paid her more anyway, but honestly
girls your in this for money, right, don't underprice your self.
two girls i have told that to
i thought they undervalued them self.

another one i think services offered, this women two kids was doing the wildest and craziest shit you could imagine, and everyone talking about it on a message board.

and im not going to say you can't be a mother and be an escort.

but just think about it,
if your a mom do you need to do bareback cim facials greek and then have it all discussed on a message board one day for your kids to find out.

there are girls who are single and they keep a very low profile just because,
and here she was a mom swinging from the chandliars peeling paint of the walls all of it discussed on a message board.


all im saying is think long and hard.
 

kenchorney

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Be honest in your advertising. If your 30 and 5'6 140 lbs just say so, don't advertise as 24, 5'8 125 lbs. If you don't offer certain services be upfront. Nice natural amature pictures are IMHO better than overly airbrushed glamour shots.

There are clients for every age, shape, size, race and level of service, it's better to attract the ones that will enjoy what you have to offer than guys that are looking for something you are not.
 

AubreyKisses

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@ seven lol well I don't have any children, but I fully support moms who decide to work. Everyone is entitled to make their own choices regarding their bodies and lives. I choose to do this because I am an excellent nurturer and like pleasing people, but a good handful of other reasons for sure too. I appreciate the thoughts regardless and thanks for contributing, also thx for the advice on the banner a really nice person pm'd me offering to help me make one! You guys are so nice :)

And I intend to advertise honestly I wouldn't want to be declined because I am not what someone actually wanted. As well I am not the best with computers like setting up websites and such isn't on the fore front of my skills set, I am asking for info from people who know so I can learn Emmy.
 

ps59

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Aubrey , is that you I seen last week ? on seymour? pm me I'd like to see you again .........
 
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