Anyone else really into "making love"

[Keithks]

I find that pornstar sex, though hot to watch, isn't the most satisfying in real life. I'd much rather "make love," even with a sp - some girl I don't even know.

For me, sex should be so much more than merely thrusting my manmeat in and out of a girl's vagina until I get off. I want to feel her warm body pressed up against mine, caress/kiss her all over and have her reciprocate, and cuddle under the sheets afterwards.

This is the kind of sex that provides me with a level of bliss I can't get from anything else, the kind that makes me forget I'm just walking ash, if only for an hour.

What are your thoughts?

 

[Guardian Angel]

You can have great sex while making love, but you can't be making love if you aren't in love.

Yes you can be respectful and sensitive and all the love acronyms, but it is not love, it is just - Great Sex, someone you connect with who enjoys it as much as you do.

Keep having great sex and maybe they will fall in love with you, lol.

Just my take.

G.A.

 

[Guardian Angel]

Geesh....that's usually what I hear right after sex...........

Been there myself Hubba.

G.A.

 

[Keithks]

You can have great sex while making love, but you can't be making love if you aren't in love.

Yes you can be respectful and sensitive and all the love acronyms, but it is not love, it is just - Great Sex, someone you connect with who enjoys it as much as you do.

Keep having great sex and maybe they will fall in love with you, lol.

Just my take.

G.A.

I know what you're saying. It's a struggle for me, because I always find myself falling for sp's. This is why I have to constantly remind myself that it's not really love, just temperary infatuation.

It's kind of weird, because in my daily life I never feel any sort of affection for girls I meet, just animalistic lust, an overwhelming urge to ravage them and plant my seed. But if I were to actually get them into bed, I'd probably end up getting all lovey-dovey with them too.

 

[87112]

Spending time with your favorite sp overnight is a great thing but I cant afford over 1 grand for a sleepover. Its insane that I could fly to China for the price of a simple sleepover.

 

[Krustee]

I know what you're saying. It's a struggle for me, because I always find myself falling for sp's. This is why I have to constantly remind myself that it's not really love, just temperary infatuation.

It's kind of weird, because in my daily life I never feel any sort of affection for girls I meet, just animalistic lust, an overwhelming urge to ravage them and plant my seed. But if I were to actually get them into bed, I'd probably end up getting all lovey with them too.

Buddy - you NEED a girlfriend!

Love is NOT love if it comes with a price tag!



Better to keep your perspective than to break your heart.

Your situation just brings attention to our failing as a society.

Sadly I don't see it changing anytime soon.

 

[moi]

I wouldn't say about making love, but passionate no-holds barred passionate sex!!

Sometimes a man will walk past with me with the most enticing aroma. a mixture of his cologne with his body smell gets me so turned on I just want to take him somewhere and ravish him!!! Or the way a man's eyes look in passing, just something about it.

 

[Lesbian Hunter]

You can have great sex while making love, but you can't be making love if you aren't in love.

Yes you can be respectful and sensitive and all the love acronyms, but it is not love, it is just - Great Sex, someone you connect with who enjoys it as much as you do.

Keep having great sex and maybe they will fall in love with you, lol.

Just my take.

G.A.

I disagree. Making love to another person is showing tenderness and affection. We're not talking marriage here; we're talking about a tender and loving moment between two people.

At my age, I've made love to a lot of women and I've had sex (or fucked) a lot of women and there is a distinct difference.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

What's "making love"?

Its what a woman does when a guy is fucking her!

 

[LoveEmAll]

Making Love...Here?

Keithks, you're in wrong place. That's E-Harmony.

Remember, the "E" in GFE stands for Experience.

No doubt, you can get some pretty good connections here- if you're lucky. But it's not making love. Don't ever confuse this.

You want Love Making, go to E-Harmony.

I find that pornstar sex, though hot to watch, isn't the most satisfying in real life. I'd much rather "make love," even with a sp - some girl I don't even know.

For me, sex should be so much more than merely thrusting my manmeat in and out of a girl's vagina until I get off. I want to feel her warm body pressed up against mine, caress/kiss her all over and have her reciprocate, and cuddle under the sheets afterwards.

This is the kind of sex that provides me with a level of bliss I can't get from anything else, the kind that makes me forget I'm just walking ash, if only for an hour.

What are your thoughts?

 

[maxx50]

Thinking of that .also

Yep i was noticing that it is not sex i want but a lover.. some one that was there because they wanted to be with me , and me with them. There my be sex ,there may just be holding each other and small talk . but that definetly is what is missing in my life.

So i was thinking that the girls have to offer a new class .. " The lover"
We have GFE, and PSE. and then there are the other W BTM( wam bang thank you mam). ,and HYC yet
Then there are those10 min, and 15 min wack me off experiences..
But "the lover experience .. What would that consist of and how much for how long and would we everyone be satisfied.
I am rambling a little there
Yes love is all we need ..

 

[Thais]

For me, sex should be so much more than merely thrusting my manmeat in and out of a girl's vagina until I get off. I want to feel her warm body pressed up against mine, caress/kiss her all over and have her reciprocate, and cuddle under the sheets afterwards.

Every single client I've had in my now ~3 years as an independent had this kind of attitude. Every single one - including those who enjoyed the rougher, more dominant sex (which I liked too).

But then, I screened for compatibility and made sure to push away or scare off all other types.

 

[wolverine]

I think most of you are arguing over semantics. He's talking about having a preference for a slow and sensual session as opposed to hard and fast PSE. I enjoy the slow and sensual and the PSE, it depends on my mood and the SP I'm with. I'm sure many SPs are the same and adapt to their clients style.

 

[Thais]

I think most of you are arguing over semantics. He's talking about having a preference for a slow and sensual session as opposed to hard and fast PSE. I enjoy the slow and sensual and the PSE, it depends on my mood and the SP I'm with. I'm sure many SPs are the same and adapt to their clients style.

I thought he was talking more about connection, respect for another person and desire for intimacy... I guess it was the reference to "manmeat in and out" and reciprocation. I've had many encounters that had very much a hard and fast PSE feel and even repertoire for sex itself, yet ended with cuddling and lying in each others' arms in silence - or talking about everything in the world. Tenderness and affection mentioned a little above can do really well when they precede and/or follow a bout of rough physical intensity.

 

[ronaldsmith]

Its a toss up Sometimes u want that "lovey" sex and sometimes u want that hardcore PSE

Good thing SPs tend to provide a full menu of services so you can induldge your mind on all its desires

 

[HB40]

That's the best you've got, Hubba? C'mon!

Geesh....that's usually what I hear right after sex...........

LMAO

and I'm guessing the first thing you always ask is "did you cum?"

I find that pornstar sex, though hot to watch, isn't the most satisfying in real life. I'd much rather "make love," even with a sp - some girl I don't even know.

For me, sex should be so much more than merely thrusting my manmeat in and out of a girl's vagina until I get off. I want to feel her warm body pressed up against mine, caress/kiss her all over and have her reciprocate, and cuddle under the sheets afterwards.

This is the kind of sex that provides me with a level of bliss I can't get from anything else, the kind that makes me forget I'm just walking ash, if only for an hour.

What are your thoughts?

I also try to find that level of bliss, making love to me is being generous, considerate, compassionate, insatiable, attentive and mutually intent.
However being encouraged to thrust my manmeat with vigour are always pleadings I love to hear.

 

[teejay69]

I think Chris Rock best describes this best

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[ZeroX]

I agree with the thread creator. That's why I like GFE experience more than PSE experience.

 

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Cool thread - Love making with an SP would basically be deep and passionate sex which is possible but I think requires mutual attraction, compatability and comfortableness with each other which can develop over numerous visits.

Put those together with a little wine, turn on some Marvin Gaye (sexual healing ) and you're more than half way there.

Just remember that when it's over, it's over. If you want something more, go find a girlfriend.

Is there something in between an SP and a girlfriend? The cost of frequent visits to SPs easily adds up to the point of costing more than having a girlfriend (except maybe divorce from marriage or separation from common law relationships). Is there a simple solution to this?