That sounds appealing but I think I'd prefer a more intimate setting where I could have a glass of wine or two with the lady, and a puff, and hopefully get a little more comfortable with one another. This is an option though.
Thanks for the pointers!
Given your criteria- and when you feel ready- I would suggest an experienced and well reviewed SP over a MP session then.
Do some research, read some reviews, maybe ask some questions.
There are some great independent ladies that would likely suit you. They will tailor the session to your wants/needs, engage you with some meaningful conversation and only proceed as you feel comfortable. Many advertisers on this site (Ladies with names in Red) would fit the bill.
Best suggestion I can make is to stay tuned to the Lounge and consider the contributions being made by the Red Ladies. You will gain a better insight and perspective to their characters, and ultimately understand that they are not just objects but real, interactive people.
Also, refer to the Selfie Forum for more insight into the Ladies. There can be some good dialogue and genuine commentary found there as well.
More (younger) noobs need to figure this out.