Anyone else out there signed up with Secret Benefits seen a change in the frequency of messages?

[JimDandy]

First, as others have posted, I believe that the majority of the ladies on the site are fake/stolen ids.

But until a few weeks ago I would be getting several messages each day from these ladies, again most of which I believe were bots.

But for the last several weeks, I have recieved almost no messages at all. I'm just wondering if anyone else seen the same change?

The good news is, I suppose, that the very few messages I am getting now may actually be legit.

JD

 

[JimDandy]

Same here. The bots never read your message, so they tend to stick out over time. What's gotten worse is the something for nothing attitude that is becoming more and more prevalent. I had someone asking 500 to take her to lunch, no contact, and the reason was "just look at my pictures".

So just to confirm I understand you correctly, you have noticed a huge drop off in the last few weeks in regards to messages from the women?

JD

 

[GeeBeeP]

I've given up on SB because of the scams taking my credits, but my profile is still there and I still get notifications when I receive a message. I agree, fewer messages in the last few weeks.

If it leads to any more success for you let us know!! Perhaps I'll give it another try.

 

[westcoastrider1982]

Same here. The bots never read your message, so they tend to stick out over time. What's gotten worse is the something for nothing attitude that is becoming more and more prevalent. I had someone asking 500 to take her to lunch, no contact, and the reason was "just look at my pictures".

Wow!
Welcome to Vancouver….Jesus fucking Christ almighty!
Sadly fools and their fucking money are soon parted with these type of women!
Peasants like me that only make 100k a year gross income don’t stand a fucking chance!!

 

[JimDandy]

Wow!
Welcome to Vancouver….Jesus fucking Christ almighty!
Sadly fools and their fucking money are soon parted with these type of women!
Peasants like me that only make 100k a year gross income don’t stand a fucking chance!!

I am not sure why, but the $$$ being asked for by sugar babies has gone up dramatically since the pandemic.

2 hot babes on SB each asked me for $850 for a date. I assume for that rate it would have included sex but I didn't ask exactly what would be included because $850 is more than I wanted to spend so there was no point in clarifying what was included for that rate. My age (mid 60's) might have contributed to the high rate.

A friend of a friend that had great success for years on another SB site (Seeking Arrangements) is now striking out due unrealistic asks by the SBs on that site.

I wonder if there are less SBs out there and it is a supply/demand type situation?

JD

 

[johnsmit]

I just resently bought some credit on SB. So I could read a few message. Once again they are only a few word long , and I dont think the girls acctually sent them. All though two of the girl unlocked there picture without me asking . Of course I still gas to pay to see them . Honestly I am not sure why they are locked there is nothing explicit about them.

As for the frequency of message , you are right there is a lot less . But then I suspect not many want to talk to 68 yr old lol.

The of SB is still still true. There are a number of escorts that have profile up on that site along with many of the other .

 

[sunnydayz]

Anyone know who gets the money that is charged to unlock the pictures ? I tried the site and noticed a few times that when I replied to a message and unlocked the pics there would be no reply back.

 

[JimDandy]

I think there were a lot of fake or not accounts. I am assuming the reason I'm getting 5% of the messages ( or less) that I used to get is that they have gotten rid of the bots and/or fake accounts.

JD

 

[JimDandy]

well they need to get rid of the scammers as well. Someone reached out today and was all lovely for a few hours before getting around to a sob story, stranded in Europe, bank cards frozen, embassy won't help, needs 1000 to be able to fly home, has 50K in the bank to repay, mom, dad dead and friends stiffing her. It was comical how transparent and pathetic it was.

I had one the other day that needed $300 for car loan coming out at midnight. Willing to do date the next day. Ghosted me when I said I would pay her after the date.

JD

 

[RalphiEboy]

I’ve found that if you can actually message with someone it’s good actionee 🌟

 

[localguy]

Sites like Secret Benefits, What's Your Price and Cuddle Up are all a joke. The # of real profiles are likely just a fraction of all "active" users on the site. Guys have got to stop being duped by these trash sites.

Heed these words: 99% of unsolicited messages sent to u are meant to lure u into buying credits. This is why these "girls" never read or reply to your messages. They simply don't exist. Seeking used to be somewhat better but since 2018, expectations are completely out of whack. Even 5's and 6's are asking 500+ per meet and the odd 7's and 8's are asking even more. These sites are now saturated by sad, pathetic lonely simps that have more money than brains.

 

[RalphiEboy]

Sites like Secret Benefits, What's Your Price and Cuddle Up are all a joke. The # of real profiles are likely just a fraction of all "active" users on the site. Guys have got to stop being duped by these trash sites.

Heed these words: 99% of unsolicited messages sent to u are meant to lure u into buying credits. This is why these "girls" never read or reply to your messages. They simply don't exist. Seeking used to be somewhat better but since 2018, expectations are completely out of whack. Even 5's and 6's are asking 500+ per meet and the odd 7's and 8's are asking even more. These sites are now saturated by sad, pathetic lonely simps that have more money than brains.

Please share your recommendations…

 

[Done1]

Same goes for Ashley Madison but the flipside is many SPs find it's a good "safe" place to get normal wealthy guys.

 

[localguy]

Please share your recommendations…

With the pooning scene drying up, I don't hunt anywhere near as much as I used to. I'm fortunate to have the means to keep 2 or 3 SBs around at all times. Met them all before covid and every once in awhile I sprinkle in a couple of new girls I meet thru LL, SA, agencies, GFs of the SBs even. As much as I like shiny new pussy, I prefer the familiarity and connection these days.

The 2 most recent new girls I met at one of the popular DT agencies. I won't say which one since neither of the girls work there any more. I'd say your best bet these days is with one of the well known/established DT agencies. They seem to have the best combination of lookers with decent service. Agency prices have shot up recently tho so best to do your research.

 

[CrazyCoyote]

I've made numerous connections on Secret Benefits - real messages, then texts, then phone calls and multiple dates, so they are not all bots for sure. The women there do seem to want more $ than a year ago.

 

[RalphiEboy]

I have recently given up on them for the time being, way too many flakes and ladies expecting money for social time alone. I may go back on in January when there are XMAS bills to pay and a little more rational behavior. On that note, beware a black haired salon type from the Valley who promises the world and manufactures a crisis the night before the meet, looking for an etransfer, complete rip off artist. Never ever send these ladies money before you meet them.

Excellent advice 🌟

 

[cautiontowind]

Excellent advice 🌟

I recently rejoined sugar daddy meets and it’s been great. I’ve been talking to 6 or 7 girls nearly all of whom say that most guys on the site are complete losers. Lousy competition is good for me. Many girls can’t host but I’ve found 2-3 leading options that can. If anyone joins and wants to share hotel costs hit me up.

 

[RalphiEboy]

I recently rejoined sugar daddy meets and it’s been great. I’ve been talking to 6 or 7 girls nearly all of whom say that most guys on the site are complete losers. Lousy competition is good for me. Many girls can’t host but I’ve found 2-3 leading options that can. If anyone joins and wants to share hotel costs hit me up.

Don’t forget to ask hotel 🏨’s for “day rates”

 

[cautiontowind]

Don’t forget to ask hotel 🏨’s for “day rates”

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Appreciate the intel!

 

[Finewine]

I have been on Secret Benefits on and off for a few years. Living in Nanaimo. Recently I too have received very few messages, but also noticed very few women looking at my profile. Over 80 percent are under 30. Mainly low 20s. Very few answer my messages. And then after three or four messages stop writing.
Many do not know to hold a conversation. i have met two women both great Sex for over a year. still looking.
agree once or twice a women wrote back and said $100 to meet for coffee
one women wanted $200 to talk. Really????
seen two escorts and funny enough they stopped writing.

both sugar babies indicated a lack of local men and mostly creepy.
so it begs the question why there ad appears every day as online.

do Not recommend