I wouldn't just dismiss a person completely because of an ailment. Yes it can be incredibly tough to be around at times but you have to remember it is an illness and the person behind it is still there.
Although they might make you feel like nothing when the flip occurs, try to remember who they are and why you liked/loved them to begin with. Although that is easier said than done I'll admit and I certainly fell foul of this myself.
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