Any Sp's for Youger clients?
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Do you mention your age when you call to book a session? Or are you asked by the SP about your age?
Perhaps leave the age issue off the table when you book, and if asked just say that you want to keep that to yourself.
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Jaime's right. Some have age restrictions but you will find that most if not all require you to conduct yourself as a gentlemen -- that being the most important emphasis.
I wouldn't suggest lying about your age. There's a good chance she'll be able to tell once you get there, and if that's her restriction, she'd likely get annoyed having been lied to. She has a restriction for a reason- respect it.
Just write her a nice email explaining yourself and your situation (no need to get super personal, but just so she has an idea of who you are and what you're looking for), be respectful and polite, then some SPs MAY make an exception. (this is good advice for EVERY pooner, btw). A nice email like that shows you're mature and worth seeing.
Age is of no issue to me, young or old (so long as you're legal obviously), and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just be respectful and nice, like ALL pooners should be.
Just write her a nice email explaining yourself and your situation (no need to get super personal, but just so she has an idea of who you are and what you're looking for), be respectful and polite, then some SPs MAY make an exception. (this is good advice for EVERY pooner, btw). A nice email like that shows you're mature and worth seeing.
Age is of no issue to me, young or old (so long as you're legal obviously), and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just be respectful and nice, like ALL pooners should be.
I know one SP who has asked for ID when she first saw the guy. She said he was in his 20's but looked 16 
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Make sure you take your drivers licence and let the SP know in advance you are in your 20's.
ound:Make sure you take your drivers licence and let the SP know in advance you are in your 20's.
The ladies who have minimum age requirements have varied reasons for doing so. In some cases it's about a maturity level, so 30 or 35 may be more of a guideline than a hard rule. Sending a polite and respectful email letting her know your situation will likely put her at ease and open the possibility of a liaison.
For other ladies, discretion and trying to avoid an age group they are personally affiliated with (though themselves, their children, work, school or other arenas) may be the reason for age restrictions.
As with everything, communication is the key to arranging the most fun and memorable experience.
Rather than giving up before you try, I would suggest contacting any ladies who appeal to you - regardless of whether they have an age restriction. Call or send a polite email letting them know your situation, and asking if there is any way they would reconsider seeing somebody younger. Ask what you can do to make them feel comfortable ;-)
For other ladies, discretion and trying to avoid an age group they are personally affiliated with (though themselves, their children, work, school or other arenas) may be the reason for age restrictions.
As with everything, communication is the key to arranging the most fun and memorable experience.
Rather than giving up before you try, I would suggest contacting any ladies who appeal to you - regardless of whether they have an age restriction. Call or send a polite email letting them know your situation, and asking if there is any way they would reconsider seeing somebody younger. Ask what you can do to make them feel comfortable ;-)
Personally I disagree. A restriction is a restriction. Why would she have it in place, just to drop it every time someone politely asks?
I get a bit annoyed when I receive multiple emails a week asking me to bend my restrictions. The client has wasted his own time writing the email, and now I have to waste mine. Okay okay, I know replying to ONE email doesn't sound like a big waste of time, but overall it adds up to a fair chunk of time that could have been better spent by both parties (especially when you're a full-time university student)
Besides, there are SO MANY awesome escorts around, many of whom don't have age restrictions
By the way (just for context), my age range is 18-55. So girls, if you have any young'uns you don't want, give them to me.
If someone looks like they are a minor, then its a legal thing. I'm sure no SP wants to be facing statutory rape charges.
Likewise, if you see a SP who looks underage, you should insist on seeing ID or walk out.
In any other case, I COMPLETELY agree. I absolutely hate it when people ask me to bend my restrictions, and I won't see someone just for that, no matter how nice they are otherwise. But I do know that age is an area some women will bend on, whereas they tend not to bend on other restrictions. Mainly because it's often not the age that's the issue, it's the maturity. If the guy writes a nice email showing he's mature, then it may no longer be an issue. However if she does explicitly say on her site that's her restriction, if I were the client I'd probably just move on and not waste her, or my, time.
Also totally agree... I don't really have an age restriction as long as you are legal and respectful. I have asked for ID twice, maybe three times... Never had an issue, but they did look quite young. The only reason I ever ask is to ensure my safety, ie, statutory rape, etc if the client looks quite young.
What is Canada's age of consent?
The age of consent for sexual activity is 16 years. It was raised from 14 years on May 1, 2008 by the Tackling Violent Crime Act.
However, the age of consent is 18 years where the sexual activity "exploits" the young person -- when it involves prostitution, pornography or occurs in a relationship of authority, trust or dependency (e.g., with a teacher, coach or babysitter). Sexual activity can also be considered exploitative based on the nature and circumstances of the relationship, e.g., the young person's age, the age difference between the young person and their partner, how the relationship developed (quickly, secretly, or over the Internet) and how the partner may have controlled or influenced the young person.
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I've never advertised an age restriction, however, I do have one. When I get the idea he's younger, I ask him personal questions to make sure he wouldn't directly know my son. So far it has worked, however my son has now ventured out beyond my knowledge so it's becoming more of an issue.
In Saskatchewan is a big example. He spent many years there, and his friends list is Vast. My client list will get older as he ages ~sigh~ Right now he's 24, but has friends much older. *dont add up his age with my advertised age: I had him in high school*
How uncomfortable would it be if you 'saw' one of your adult child's friends, and they were invited over for a bbq ?
My last trip to Saskatoon, I saw a client who spent 2 months in my home with 4 other SK boys who wanted to work in the oil patch. He looked different when at the door, but his eyes where the same. We both recognized each other but nothing was said. I hummed and hawed about telling my son who I saw. ~how awkward~ Over lunch this week, I brought up a question to him, "what if I saw one of your friends" He laughed, (you know that uncomfortable laugh we all have). He replied: whatever. A little bit later he has finished processing and asks; have you seen one of my friends ? I replied with Yes, one of the boys that stayed at our house back in 2007. When I told him, I told him so if this kid says anything to my son when he was drunk or pissed off for unrelated reasons, that my son was prepared. Which I explained to him ! My son's reply was "I'd pop him in the mouth"
Age restrictions are there for a reason, and the lady shouldn't have to explain why !!
In Saskatchewan is a big example. He spent many years there, and his friends list is Vast. My client list will get older as he ages ~sigh~ Right now he's 24, but has friends much older. *dont add up his age with my advertised age: I had him in high school
*How uncomfortable would it be if you 'saw' one of your adult child's friends, and they were invited over for a bbq ?
My last trip to Saskatoon, I saw a client who spent 2 months in my home with 4 other SK boys who wanted to work in the oil patch. He looked different when at the door, but his eyes where the same. We both recognized each other but nothing was said. I hummed and hawed about telling my son who I saw. ~how awkward~ Over lunch this week, I brought up a question to him, "what if I saw one of your friends" He laughed, (you know that uncomfortable laugh we all have). He replied: whatever. A little bit later he has finished processing and asks; have you seen one of my friends ? I replied with Yes, one of the boys that stayed at our house back in 2007. When I told him, I told him so if this kid says anything to my son when he was drunk or pissed off for unrelated reasons, that my son was prepared. Which I explained to him ! My son's reply was "I'd pop him in the mouth"
Age restrictions are there for a reason, and the lady shouldn't have to explain why !!
