I've done a few, planned and unplanned, never had any one leave after a couple of hours. I just treat them like any, other, date. Nice dinner, maybe a movie, or concert, or other entertainment, back to my hotel, wine, hot tub, massage (love giving massages) and maybe, a bedtime story, on to the fun, and again, sleep, wake up, more fun, breakfast, drive her home...ah, a good night, so refreshing.