It's not just you. I got the same and I tried - many times. First she's coming, then she's not, then she has a ride, then she doesn't, then she makes a commitment, then she's been held up for some reason. I even drove from Nanaimo all the way out to Errington immediately after we agreed to meet and when I got there she didn't show and later said she was suddenly "sick". WOT. Even after the no-show I was nice as could be and gave her the benefit of the doubt and another chance, but still she was a no-show. Lots of texting but no action. Not sure why she bothers to advertise really.