Any dating tips?
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Don't tell her about PERB!I finally got a girlfriend now, she is 20 years old and hot(I know...). I really, really don't want to mess this up. Anyone got any advice for me? Things I should do/not do, good date ideas?
Keep her drunk!I finally got a girlfriend now, she is 20 years old and hot(I know
With that attitude you're already screwed. Sorry to be blunt but the key to a successful relationship is to not need the other person more then they need you. There needs to be a balance and if you enter a relationship worrying about screwing things up then you will not be your true confident self.
Also Shay has some good thoughts. I would like to ad on to her gift idea and stress the idea that gift isn't important, it's the thought. Sounds cheesy but I made an ex cry with a $20 necklace once. She had told me how a customer gave her a piece of jewelery once and said it was weird. I teased her for an entire year about how I never had to buy her any because I didn't want to be a weirdo. So when I did it give her some it meant that much more because there was real meaning behind the gesture.
Don't over give save the gifts for anniversaries, birthdays, and Christmas. When your just starting out you can have a one month gift then a three month gift. Make it thoughtful.
Be yourself
Don't fall into reputation. Example always going to the same restaurant because you both love it there. It is ok if you get a bad experience here and there. If she is talking negatively about the restaurant don't take it personally. Same goes towards a movie etc. She is just sharing her feelings to you it is a good thing.
Don't always be a problem solver to her problems. Especially when she is having a bad day etc. This is the time to listen to be there for her. Give her a hug let her know you care about her.
When she doesn't feel attractive tell her she turns you on and give her a hug and a kiss.
Women tend to give a lot of themselves and unknowingly expect more in return. If she is feeling resentful let her know who ever she is complaing about how lucky they are to have her in there life. Let her talk and listen.
Her emotions and attraction for you grow as time goes on. Women are like ovens that get hotter over time.
Express your most positive self. Don't talk about yourself too much. Listen to her.
Questions tell you when it is your turn to talk. If you ask her a question make sure you let answer.
Unlock the car door for her. Make sure if some situation comes up that she feels protected by you. If you are going for a walk and there is a lot of busy traffic give her the other side etc.
You are going to be like an elastic band when it comes to being interested in her. Know that and understand it. It is important not to overly push the relationship forward too soon. Moderation is important. I know we love passionate moments but after you have had one don't try to keep outdoing it the next day.
Spend time with friends and family. Have her spend time with you and your friends or vice versa after you are comfortable with her.
Don't stop working on the relationship. That doesn't mean going out of your way to impress her. You have to be the person you are always going to be in the long run but pursue her.
In other words don't change keep pursuing her the same way you did one month into the relationship to your 90th year.
Become more serious after you know your levels of attraction with her and this takes time. Physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Try to work on the mental attraction more then the physical at the start. Then work on the emotional more.
Physical chemistry creates desire and arousal.
Emotional chemistry creats affection, caring, and trust.
Mental chemistry creats interest and receptivity.
Spirtual chemistry opens our hearts, creating love, appreciation, and respect.
Just be real!
Make sure you are in a give and take relationship over time. Don't be the only one working in the relationship.
If you did something wrong don't try to cover it up with a long conversation of why. Tell her you are sorry work on it.
Complement her on anything she invests a lot of time on.
Don't be needy
Be yourself
Don't fall into reputation. Example always going to the same restaurant because you both love it there. It is ok if you get a bad experience here and there. If she is talking negatively about the restaurant don't take it personally. Same goes towards a movie etc. She is just sharing her feelings to you it is a good thing.
Don't always be a problem solver to her problems. Especially when she is having a bad day etc. This is the time to listen to be there for her. Give her a hug let her know you care about her.
When she doesn't feel attractive tell her she turns you on and give her a hug and a kiss.
Women tend to give a lot of themselves and unknowingly expect more in return. If she is feeling resentful let her know who ever she is complaing about how lucky they are to have her in there life. Let her talk and listen.
Her emotions and attraction for you grow as time goes on. Women are like ovens that get hotter over time.
Express your most positive self. Don't talk about yourself too much. Listen to her.
Questions tell you when it is your turn to talk. If you ask her a question make sure you let answer.
Unlock the car door for her. Make sure if some situation comes up that she feels protected by you. If you are going for a walk and there is a lot of busy traffic give her the other side etc.
You are going to be like an elastic band when it comes to being interested in her. Know that and understand it. It is important not to overly push the relationship forward too soon. Moderation is important. I know we love passionate moments but after you have had one don't try to keep outdoing it the next day.
Spend time with friends and family. Have her spend time with you and your friends or vice versa after you are comfortable with her.
Don't stop working on the relationship. That doesn't mean going out of your way to impress her. You have to be the person you are always going to be in the long run but pursue her.
In other words don't change keep pursuing her the same way you did one month into the relationship to your 90th year.
Become more serious after you know your levels of attraction with her and this takes time. Physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Try to work on the mental attraction more then the physical at the start. Then work on the emotional more.
Physical chemistry creates desire and arousal.
Emotional chemistry creats affection, caring, and trust.
Mental chemistry creats interest and receptivity.
Spirtual chemistry opens our hearts, creating love, appreciation, and respect.
Just be real!
Make sure you are in a give and take relationship over time. Don't be the only one working in the relationship.
If you did something wrong don't try to cover it up with a long conversation of why. Tell her you are sorry work on it.
Complement her on anything she invests a lot of time on.
Don't be needy
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Hey Sexy Boy,
I'd like to thank you for piggy backing my post and adding stuff that I thought people with any common sense already knew. Well I guess not everybody knows because I'm pretty sure that I read your post in Cosmo while I was waiting to get my haircut.
NP I well just remove your qoute. It didn't really have that much to do with my post anyways lol.
If you do have an article like that from Cosmo I would love to see it. Thanks for the complement!
Are you sure you’re not just trying to be competitive?
My penis is bigger then yours!
It's at the salon. I think it also has an article about flower arrangement you might like.
It's at the salon. I think it also has an article about flower arrangement you might like.
I love flowers and the Butchart Gardens
http://www.butchartgardens.com/index.php?option=com_frontpage&Itemid=1
I haven't been to BC in awhile though.
Nope. I just didn't like the way you deliberately took my specific example of thoughtfulness and added "but don't overdo it"
It's called swelling. Nobody can fuck "over 800 women" without their dick feeling the effects...or their imagination.
edit: Keep thinking dude. I know you want to come up with the perfect comeback but it would work better if you used the invisible option. LOL
If it's any consolation I think Wilt Chamberlain is full of shit too.
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Nope. I just didn't like the way you deliberately took my specific example of thoughtfulness and added "but don't overdo it"
It's called swelling. Nobody can fuck "over 800 women" without their dick feeling the effects...or their imagination.
Awww poor baby
Don't forget everything is about you!
Maybe it is about helping the person asking the advice?
It took you that long to find a .jpg of a baby crying?Awww poor baby
Don't forget everything is about you!
Maybe it is about helping the person asking the advice?
Took me 30 seconds. Now please respond to my actual reply.
Read this too please:
http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html
It took you that long to find a .jpg of a baby crying?
Took me 30 seconds. Now please respond to my actual reply.
Read this too please:
http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html
I was too busy looking at some SP's pictures!
What do you need again?
Oh ya my penis is bigger then yours
