Another Question for SP's Re: Client Clothing

[Cock Throppled]

I try to book ahead, and always try to arrive showered, shaved and fresh as a daisy, but...

There are simply times when things happen, work interferes, or helping out friends, and I don't have a chance to either freshen up, or change clothes.

Sometimes I'M completely clean but I'm dressed kind of grotty in work clothes (also freshly laundered, but they look dirty with paint, etc) because I'm on my way to do some work (or using work as an excuse to get out).

A man is often judged by his clothing, but is it ok to arrive in shabby clothes? Would you be offended?
Do you judge clients differently by how they are dressed?

 

[ddcanz]

Really? What a pointless question. There are countless reasons why one may not be "fresh as a daisy" or "freshly laundered".
If I was judged because of my attire, then I'm seeing the wrong SP in the first place. Many guys, myself included, sometimes arrive at our SP rendezvous in work attire that may not be the cleanest. Confirming a shower is available on premise beforehand should be a no-brainer.
Miss Tanya is bang on with her comments. Respect and attitude are paramount. A shower on site will do the rest.
I can guarantee that most SPs would rather receive a respectful man in his less than pristine work togs than an asshole in a $1000 suit.
Maybe a better question would be "why would an SP turn me away with a little work grime on my pants?"
I can see this turning into an endless thread on "this" vs "that" and everything in between.

 

[working-man]

After a multi-hour mountain bike ride on the North Shore, I was full of man sweat and mud on my mountain bike clothing.

I just told the SP beforehand about my appearance and that I would need to take a shower before playtime. She accommodated me no problem. And did we play afterwards!!!

Common sense and respect.

 

[Lo-ki]

Never had that issue.....I always made sure I can shower if needed.

 

[Lo-ki]

I use to see this really fit SP that offered naked wrestling.
I use to book 2hrs...45min of wrestling..we'd get all sweaty then play and fuck for the remaining.
She isn't around anymore...to bad.

 

[Muffdiver69]

....about a decade ago when I was new to the industry working in Winnipeg, back in my young & flakey days, I had rushed through the rain on my BMX late for work. When I arrived at the MP a client who has also just arrived saw me all soaked and muddy like a drowned rodent. He got very excitied & told the boss he wanted to see me as is...soaked muddy tomboy clothes, no makeup & stringy tangled up hair.(

lol. that caused a stirring in my loins.

 

[MrBrown]

I'd like to hear the opposite perspective on the same question...

Would the SP find it more alluring if the client does appear particularly well dressed, shaven, groomed (of course), minty fresh breath (before arriving) and that he went the extra mile to be that "successful business man" they state in their likes section?

For someone who doesn't cut corners in his preparation for a rendez vous I'm curious to know if it makes a difference.

 

[Caramel]

no, but subconsciously I do mind for some reason...I know its better if they show up casual then the whole encounter looks more discreet, but something about baggy sweats and gangster type clothing makes me feel a tad bit sad inside, don't know why! Work clothes with paint are no issue though.

 

[eazy]

The clothes come off pretty quickly anyway, what's the difference?

 

[UhOh]

A man is often judged by his clothing, but is it ok to arrive in shabby clothes? Would you be offended?

I suspect women are more often offended when the cloths come off

 

[MrBrown]

The clothes come off pretty quickly anyway, what's the difference?

To each their own. I assume you like the SP to be dressed sexy, lingerie etc. and many ask how you'd like them to wear a specific outfit. So if it matters for clients the hypothesis of the OP was that it does matter for the SP.

Maybe SPs partake in some of the illusion too and like how their client show up, dressed, bottle of wine, other treats of sorts.

The rendezvous are not always taking clothes off and immediately jumping in the sack...

 

[PierreCoeur]

Interesting thread. I always plan my visits and therefore shower, shave and put on fresh clothes. Visiting a SP just doesn't seem like it should be treated as a drop in activity.

 

[eazy]

To each their own. I assume you like the SP to be dressed sexy, lingerie etc. and many ask how you'd like them to wear a specific outfit. So if it matters for clients the hypothesis of the OP was that it does matter for the SP.

Maybe SPs partake in some of the illusion too and like how their client show up, dressed, bottle of wine, other treats of sorts.

The rendezvous are not always taking clothes off and immediately jumping in the sack...

I know, I was kind of kidding when I said that. I always dress nicer than I do normally, make sure I'm 100% clean and most of the time I bring a bottle of wine with me.

It's funny, the outfits or lingerie don't really do it for me. If they ask if I have any requests i usually say something casual. Yoga pants and a tshirt do wonders. Haha, weird.

 

[badbadboy]

I'm usually dressed in sort of a West Coast Business Casual or at least in nice jeans and shirt.

I've only heard it once but it stuck in my head "I was hoping you would be dressed in a suit. A badbadboy in a suit is what I envisioned".

I was crushed because the dress pants and shirt were some of the best in my wardrobe.

 

[Tabitha]

One thing I do find a bit odd is when someone showers upon arrival, then enters the bedroom fully reDressed.
What's up with that ?

 

[ogreray]

One thing I do find a bit odd is when someone showers upon arrival, then enters the bedroom fully reDressed.
What's up with that ?

OMG I actually did that. Force of habit? Hehe

Now that you posted it, I can't believe I actually did that. Nerves must have got the best of me.

 

[Cami Parker]

I never judge a man by his clothing, and actually really respect a man who works hard for everything he has. Manual labour is no joke. However, if you're worried about it, I would suggest something I've experienced a few times which seemed to make us both comfortable. Just a txt explaining the situation... I'm sorry I had to stay late at work (or whatever) and didn't have time to return home to freshen up before heading over because I didn't want to keep you waiting. Would it be ok if I freshen up at your place first?" This way you don't have to wonder what she's thinking/if she's thinking anything, because you already offered the entirely reasonable explanation.

I try to book ahead, and always try to arrive showered, shaved and fresh as a daisy, but...

There are simply times when things happen, work interferes, or helping out friends, and I don't have a chance to either freshen up, or change clothes.

Sometimes I'M completely clean but I'm dressed kind of grotty in work clothes (also freshly laundered, but they look dirty with paint, etc) because I'm on my way to do some work (or using work as an excuse to get out).

A man is often judged by his clothing, but is it ok to arrive in shabby clothes? Would you be offended?
Do you judge clients differently by how they are dressed?

 

[Cami Parker]

One thing I do find a bit odd is when someone showers upon arrival, then enters the bedroom fully reDressed.
What's up with that ?

I just assume they want to start from scratch... Especially if they ask me to remain dressed. I guess for some the experience of having a woman undress them is highly erotic.

 

[Sinset]

On a related note, is immediate mouth wash use before sex causing issues for women when DATY happens? I have heard the term "minty vagina" thrown around. How long should one wait after using mouth wash before that's not an issue?

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I can respect the fact that some guys will be seeing a lady on their way to or from work, etc. but for me I like to treat my encounter like a date, so I dress and groom the way I would if was going to call on a lady for a date.

Cheers