I reached out to her tonight asking about incall rates and her restrictions, nothing back for 2 hrs. Then messaged agian saying I hope I didnt disrespect you at all, I just REALLY wanted to see her tomorrow morning.. and she texts back no she will not be available tomorrow morning, nor at all. The reviews I read say she is easy to communicate with and book. I guess I got dealt a bad hand🙄 I'm. SUPER disappointed i won't get the chance to meet ANITA PARIS
Your text asking for rates and restrictions IS perfectly normal and polite. Experienced/professional SP's have a ready made reply that answers those exact questions. Of course you need to know her rates and of course you should be on the same page with restrictions. What would be the point of booking an appointment without 100% transparency of these basic questions. Every time an SP responds like that to you, be thankful you didn't pay her to disrespect you in person, because she will. You dodged a bullet. Don't sweat it and next time do not send any type of apology, You did nothing wrong. When you apologize for perfectly reasonable questions she sees you as weak and that is why you got told to piss off. Your text was fine. The apology follow up was the error. If you absolutely can't restrain yourself from following texting her again, send an emoji like a smile, a wink, a heart, as a quick reminder that she hasn't yet responded. That is it. Don't text again, move on. Ideally, you've sent out 3, 4, or 5 inquiry texts to several SP's and then you have options. One will respond promptly, transparently with a kind/happy message. That's the SP you want to see. SP's get dozens of texts so yours gets lost easily if she is not organized or is too busy to care.
This is an ever increasing issue with SP's offering less and less info, posting fake pics, taking hours to respond, while asking to be paid $300 to $500 per hour. Anyone being paid $300 - $500 should realize the person paying them might have worked all fucking week or at least a couple of 8 hour days to earn that money. The average wage in BC is $36/hr. (depending on your wage) you have to work for 14 to 20 hours to buy ONE hour of time with an SP at $300 to $400/hr. Don't take any shit, don't be disrespected, and only buy what you want. That means the SP is transparent about her rates and restrictions so everyone is one the same page. No clear responses from the SP, stay away because you will be disappointed and out $300+
Men, we all get horny and simply need to fuck or have our dick sucked. When that mood hits, we want it ASAP! And when that happens we make really poor choices about who we might see and how much we'd be willing to pay in that moment. This board (well TERB, before PERB) was founded on the concept that honest and transparent reviews were the foundation of everything. Why? Because men with hard ons are weak as shit in the moment and make poor choices. Do yourself a favour and register on TERB. Read reviews there and if you want to really learn, look back at reviews from 5 to 10 years ago.
NEVER, EVER SEND A DEPOSIT!
The 1 in a million exception is an SP who is established with a shit ton of reviews here who has earned the right to only accept appointments with a deposit. The chances of you actually getting an appointment with an SP of that quality and reputation is almost zero so, NEVER SEND A DEPOSIT.