Anal Orgasm--Women

[juniper]

I am seeing a 35 year old woman here in Edmonton. Just for context, she tried Backpage, was discouraged, and now confines her services to just two occasional clients, myself being one of them. This woman is someone whom I love seeing and, in turn, it appears she is very trusting in seeing and also satisfying me. In our relationship, she is quite open to being subservient to me and to following my orders including being disciplined. Discipline include her kneeling before me, thighs slightly opened, and first fondling, then licking my balls and penis in a way which includes teasing and denying and her requiring to ask, or even plead with me, to allow her ever greater degrees of freedom. Once in bed, I require her to get on all fours, arching her back, slipping her panties to just down below her buttocks, spreading her buttocks, then wider and asking me to please lick her in the private area between her buttocks. Once having completed this act, I have her adjust the pillows against the headboard so that I may rest my back there while she lies over my lap. Sometimes I tie her hands before her first while she is sitting upright so that she may concentrate on the disciplinary measures which I proceed to take. I continue to fondle her buttocks after applying lotion for smooth rubbing and access to her anal area. Normally, I spank her firmly but not too hard (for her own good) after she requests that I do so before continuing to fondle her. At that point, I do use my finger to apply oil to her (lovely) anal entrance. She tells me that she has never had anal intercourse nor even had a finger indwelling in that secret orifice. When I see her next, I do hope to explore this area with ever more finesse. What I'd like to know, at this point, is whether a woman could actually experience anal orgasm in this manner. If so (if a woman on PERB replies), what could it possibly feel like? And, in general, what kind of sensations might a woman feel from this particular kind of body play? I'd appreciate any information I could glean on this topic. Incidentally, there appears to be a certain type of woman who absolutely enjoys being submissive and taking orders, being teased and denied. Furthermore, I have found that even women who are used to being dominant may surprise themselves when submitting (on those occasions when we might, sometimes by what appears to be chance, engage in such a dominant-submissive manner) to disciplinary measures and find the experience unusually sexually compelling.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

in previous threads some women on perb have responded that the most powerful erogenous zone in a woman's body is her mind. this is probably true for men as well

 

[jesuschrist]

I know from personal experience, two women who have had anal orgasms - but my experience has only been from being fucked up the ass, not finger fucked. It didn't happen often, but when it did happen it required long steady and deep (but not too deep) thrusts for an extended time, and the orgasms were mind blowing for the girl and for me it felt like she was opening up wider and wider then suddenly clamping down and convulsing - and just right before the clamping down part the guy has to thrust all the way as deep as possible. So yes, it is possible and I doubt many women can achieve this even if they regularly partake in anal sex because so much is dependent on her state of mind and his ability.

 

[Flanders]

Read up on female tantric massage

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/YoniMassage.htm

There is some good stuff on anal-vaginal-clitoral stilulation

 

[Aleister Crowley]

I know from personal experience, two women who have had anal orgasms - but my experience has only been from being fucked up the ass, not finger fucked. It didn't happen often, but when it did happen it required long steady and deep (but not too deep) thrusts for an extended time, and the orgasms were mind blowing for the girl and for me it felt like she was opening up wider and wider then suddenly clamping down and convulsing - and just right before the clamping down part the guy has to thrust all the way as deep as possible. So yes, it is possible and I doubt many women can achieve this even if they regularly partake in anal sex because so much is dependent on her state of mind and his ability.

Jesuschrist is a fag?
jezzzzchrist !!!!

 

[juniper]

I saw the woman of whom I spoke last evening. Her anal opening was very tight and penetration by finger was slight at best as it hurt her. She did enjoy rimming, however.

She showed up, after not seeing her for two months, with black her rather than blonde and tried to palm it off as a dye job as opposed to her natural colour. Her face looked noticeably older. Nonetheless, she participated fully in all the sexual acts and games that I wished for and I was happy with that. We completely forgot to do the money exchange until afterwards. I gave her $250 as per the previous two occasions and she appeared disappointed, saying it was $300. I insisted that it was always $250, and, in fact, had never paidand would never pay $300 for an hour. She said it was, for sure, $300 and that's what she charged her other regular, an older gent whom she hadn't heard from for several months. She seemed in a bit of a hurry although one hour was not quite up as her girlfriend, also a "working girl--one client who took good care of her" whom she had known as a friend for seventeen years was waiting to pick her up. This was her transportation and, of course, she said, her girlfriend also had to be paid out of the amount I had paid her as well, I suppose, as a babysitter. So, instead of feeling fabulous for a while as on other occasions, I felt let-down and know that I will never see her again. It was a confluence of events including the fact that she was mistaken about the money end of things and also appeared not to appreciate having me as a regular client and of her looking visibly older (used up). She did have a long and mighty orgasm and I had an explosive one as well. The next day (today), I still feel the same, incidentally, re our "professional" relationship, slightly relieved even, as I won't go there anymore. I thought it was only right to inform the PERB community as I did bring up the subject of how we, this woman and I, go (went) about satisfying paid sexual urges.