An odd request - or "help me, I've been caught cheating"

[Big Dog Striker]

Tiffany & Co. or Montecristo will make her forget it. That colored blue gift box from Tiffany's has such amazing powers. :nod:

 

[romeochains]

A friend of mine was in a similar situation except he was the one being cheated on. His wife was cheating with his good friend. The "good" friend's wife found out, called his wife and gave her 36 hours to tell him.
It got really ugly when she told him. The husband got physical, the police were called and he spent the night in jail. His night went from bad to worse. On the bright side, they ended up working it out and are still together.

If he knows where you live, changing the phone number is not going to do a thing.

 

[sevenofnine]

sounds like your digging your self a bigger hole
and like this guy has some issues of his own,

i would stay away from him
tell him to go fuck himself,
tell your wife your self

you said your marriage would survive so well

 

[uncleg]

At least you didn't get caught in America.................

...................or Japan...................

 

[uncleg]

This guy sounds like he's blackmailing or extorting you. Perhaps you should go to the cops and/or a lawyer? Perhaps it is because I'm in my 20's, but my first instinct is to say round up your friends, grab some weapons and threaten this guy, without laying a finger on him. Don't lay a finger on him. Cause if you do, then you're screwed.

Either way, I hope you learned your lesson. Never sleep with a married wife. She will always tell her husband.

You realize that "threatening" is a criminal offence, more so if you have weapons. If fact at that point you might as well just beat the shit out of the guy, cause you aren't going to spend any more time in jail.

 

[twoblues]

So has he shown you any physical proof that he has these emails? is this his only proof? you need to get as much info about this guy & what he knows.Or is he just bluffing you?

He quoted some of the content. The problem is, I can't recall what I said in the emails. I'm sure I never talked about my wife, so she would only be hurt with how I was talking dirty with this woman. If I hadn't emailed a headshot of myself (silly mistake again), then I would be able to play the "He has made a mistake card".

Unfortunately, regarding my address is that Telus has unthankfully listed my address with the phone number in Google. Not hard to find at all.

I don't want to threaten the guy or anything as that just leads to more issues down the road.

I think I'm going to start with selectively forwarding his phone calls to a burner phone and see if he ever calls again and then deal with it then. He may believe he is finished with me and leave it at that.

 

[uncleg]

So 2blues, what happens if he changes phones, doesn't that put paid to forwarding to a burner phone ?

 

[satinguy]

Hi twoblues,

Sorry to hear about your situation and not sure i can offer any help. Are you 100% sure this is legitimate? I mean are you certain this guy is the ladies husband and this is not some sort of scam. Seems to me like this is a situation between him and his wife and he should not have involved you in this mess.

If you set up a call time with him calling your house and speaking with an SP posing as your wife will this be the end of it or will he call back two weeks later to speak with her again? If this is blackmail emotional or finacial, it likely won't stop.

Don't know why he wants to drag your wife into it either. Sounds like he wants to punish everyone he can. Wish i could help more but i feel for you and wish you the best.

 

[twoblues]

So 2blues, what happens if he changes phones, doesn't that put paid to forwarding to a burner phone ?

I don't think he's that smart about it. Always called from the exact same phone. Honestly, as it is, we never answer our home phone and don't even have voicemail on it. I would most likely catch any "odd numbers" ringing in.

Hi twoblues,

Sorry to hear about your situation and not sure i can offer any help. Are you 100% sure this is legitimate? I mean are you certain this guy is the ladies husband and this is not some sort of scam. Seems to me like this is a situation between him and his wife and he should not have involved you in this mess.

If you set up a call time with him calling your house and speaking with an SP posing as your wife will this be the end of it or will he call back two weeks later to speak with her again? If this is blackmail emotional or finacial, it likely won't stop.

Don't know why he wants to drag your wife into it either. Sounds like he wants to punish everyone he can. Wish i could help more but i feel for you and wish you the best.

I am sure it is legit. I don't know if he would call back. I would probably keep the phone for a couple more months just to monitor. I think he just wants to talk to a woman (my "wife") and hear how she is morally upset with me as a man and a husband, yada yada. Calling back at a later date would be creepy...and I think I could deal with him personally at that point: "You want to talk to my wife again?"

 

[HeatherMorgan]

He sounds like the type who wants people to be as miserable as he is.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Option A: Just sign up for one of those family tv/phone/cell plans but with another provider, then you have an excuse to change all your numbers.
Option B: Send man mountain to pay him a visit haha.
Option C: sodomize him on film and black mail him for a taste of his own medicine Or if you got the video skills video tape his face and graft it onto gay porn for the same effect minus the possible jail time.