An inconvenient truth. Does it matter when a working girl see a regular or a stranger
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Does it matter,
I guess she would have to answer that.
Yes she sees many guys in the hundreds.
But that is not the way you have to look at it.
Your unique your special in short its their loss.
If they or some one doesn't want to see you the world is full of people.
I actually see hundreds and hundreds of people as well actually. Not the same way an sp does, but my life is full of people.
Not to be rude, or anything
But you live your life in such a way.
That when your gone, there is an empty space a vacum your missed.
I think that is what you aim for. In every aspect of your life.
But in all honesty you can be replaced just as easy so don't get stuck on yourself.
I guess she would have to answer that.
Yes she sees many guys in the hundreds.
But that is not the way you have to look at it.
Your unique your special in short its their loss.
If they or some one doesn't want to see you the world is full of people.
I actually see hundreds and hundreds of people as well actually. Not the same way an sp does, but my life is full of people.
Not to be rude, or anything
But you live your life in such a way.
That when your gone, there is an empty space a vacum your missed.
I think that is what you aim for. In every aspect of your life.
But in all honesty you can be replaced just as easy so don't get stuck on yourself.
Hmm he said he has countless written love messages FROM her. Sounds like she is 50% of the problem.
Are you a being a little jaded there when you say she saw 100s of guys each week? That seems like way too many to be a realistic estimate.
ummm...yeah. I will agree with that comment and say no more......
I usually hate making reference to a members join date but really...since 2006 and you were not expecting a reaction like THIS!!!
I don't know if it is bad to see a SP too many times. I think it's bad to get attached.
I think a good SP would take the reigns to maintain those boundaries though. If she sees a client pining after her she should shut him down as nicely as possible and even refer him to someone else if that's what it takes.
I think life is a learning experiance,
You should have seen me forty years ago.
And I think everything has to be mutual.
I mean, Im married but if my wife can find more happiness or peace somewhere else. I wish her well.
And I am involved with an sp, though Im not sure what that means to tell you the truth,
But the same goes for her.
If its a paid session, if she wants to spend her time with some one else a friend a client whoever, all I ever asked is she text me so Im not standing on her door step looking stupid.
And if were just getting together for social fun, same deal if she wants to spend it somewhere else. It works for me not a problem just let me know.
I think bottom line is you both have to want to be together.
It really is hard to admit that some one can do better then spending time with you.
A tough pill to swallow really.
But then you work on your game.
But I think it starts with you.
You live your life in such a way that people want to be around you.
You should have seen me forty years ago.
And I think everything has to be mutual.
I mean, Im married but if my wife can find more happiness or peace somewhere else. I wish her well.
And I am involved with an sp, though Im not sure what that means to tell you the truth,
But the same goes for her.
If its a paid session, if she wants to spend her time with some one else a friend a client whoever, all I ever asked is she text me so Im not standing on her door step looking stupid.
And if were just getting together for social fun, same deal if she wants to spend it somewhere else. It works for me not a problem just let me know.
I think bottom line is you both have to want to be together.
It really is hard to admit that some one can do better then spending time with you.
A tough pill to swallow really.
But then you work on your game.
But I think it starts with you.
You live your life in such a way that people want to be around you.
This is ultimately a business about pleasure. Unfortunately for some people pleasure is personal and they are unable (or unwilling) to keep a wall up and leave the personal stuff behind. Of course you can lose yourself in the moment but when it starts being more personal than business you're going to run into problems.
